What do you think about this disturbing footage of Demi Moore Kissing a 15 year old boy?

[Decentguy]

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[Anonymous]

Pedophilia. Anyone can have it. *shrugs*
Men, women, the old, and the young. People you'd never expect can be full-blown pedophiles, addiction and all. The acceptance of one dirty thought can get you hooked.

Then again, this is a 15 year-old boy here. It's less of pedophilia and more of being a hebephile. Much more common than people will admit. Besides, what's 3 years? Or, in some places, a few months? 18 is legal here, but other places can be 16 or even younger.

He looks like a kid, which may insinuate that she likes really young boys, but he IS 15. Almost legal and fully developed. For that reason, I don't find it to be very disturbing. The only reason people do find it disturbing is because we're all taught that teenagers aren't ready for intimate things. The fact of the matter is that they are. And attractions to underage people are very, very common.

[Decentguy]

im pretty sure you would find that very disturbing if that was a girl with a old man

[Opinion Owner]

Perhaps not. I've come to accept my own attractions, and, by doing so, I can see the flaws in our legal system. We only think it's wrong because someone of authority says so. A year ago, I would have said that a girl with an older man would be very disturbing, but I don't think so anymore. If they're both content, what's the harm? And yet, there's definitely a double standard there. Most people would be revolted by an old man and a minor, while a boy with a grown woman is considered "lucky." I've learned to stop thinking in such a way. It's all the same thing, whether a person is old or young, dating a minor or adult, male or female. It's all the same. And I'm a pedophile too, so... It is what it is. I can understand the attraction to its full extent.

[Decentguy]

what makes you say that you are a pedophile too?

[Opinion Owner]

Because I am. I find 4-10 year old girls sexually attractive. Irresistible. I've known this since I was 8, but I blocked it out and denied it until earlier this year. There's no denying it now. And I realize that just saying it isn't enough proof, but I can't explain how I know to the full extent. It isn't permitted here.

[Decentguy]

well im not gonna judge you, but have you considered seeking help towards this?

[Opinion Owner]

Help? As in therapy? Yeah, well... I've learned something about that. If someone goes to a therapist and says, "I'm a non-offending pedophile," they will often times (most likely) get reported for that. They may be COMMITTED to never harming a child, but yet the therapist views them as a potential criminal and reports them regardless. I'd rather not spend my life on watch lists and beneath the glares of society. Besides, therapy doesn't really help. It turns out that I know what is needed to know already. I know how to cope, manage addictions, and normalize emotions. I know how to stop myself from hurting anyone. At the moment, I'm in therapy, but for things like depression and self-harm, and I can say that it isn't doing shit. I can switch the pain off whenever I want to. Tune the thoughts out. Make myself normal. No licensed therapist will ever understand me enough to offer genuine, new advice. The help is found within ourselves.

[Decentguy]

mind sharing the process that how do you switch the pain off, because as a person who is suffering since his birth, would love to know

[Opinion Owner]

It takes a lot of thinking and self-reflection, to start. Most people aren't willing to look inside themselves and see the darkness they possess. Those that can, however, will come to an understanding of who they are and how to go about their lives. Learning to accept yourself is the hardest part. It can take months or years to do so, and will bring you a great deal of pain to see how different you are from everyone else. Me, for example... I've abused dogs, I'm a pedo, and I've done a lot of stupid shit in a very short time span. But that's the thing. If we can pick out those flaws and the bits of us that are too dark to bear, we learn how to move past them and function in the real world. We learn what it takes to be happy and content. We learn that there's no changing who we are, there's a reason to everything (e. g. I abused dogs because it was a learned behavior from my childhood), and it can all be managed successfully. We just have to get past that incredibly hard stage of...

[Opinion Owner]

acceptance. If you can do this, things become easier. You've faced the greatest pain of all and can handle anything. In turn, that faucet of pain can be turned off. You are now numb and desensitized to the things that pain you the most. You are free. Sounds nice, huh? It's very difficult to get there. A long, hard journey, and enough sorrow to wish to die. But you can do it. And it's worth it.

[Decentguy]

okay;Thanks a lot though

[lotv56]

It doesn't sound like you are free. Jesus can save you though. If you accept him as your savior he can rescue you from this!

[Opinion Owner]

@lotv56 There are very religious pedophiles in the world. Religion doesn't "save" them.

[lotv56]

Exactly! Religion can't save anyone. But Jesus can :) He wants a relationship. He wants to be our father. He can save you <3 This is why he died and rose again on the third day because he was God in the flesh! Only he has the power to do that! If you invite him into your life he can change it in supernatural ways! Because then he will be living inside of you :) Repent and tell him that you want him to change your life that you will trust him. And just see what happens. If nothing happens then the bible is a lie. But just repent and then tell him you want to him to change your life. Invite Jesus Christ into your heart. The devil doesn't want to free you. I will be praying that God will touch your heart and change your life in a dramatic way. He has healed me from many things like panic attacks, depression. I'm not saying this for no reason :) I'm saying this because I know Jesus works :) It's not by works that save us but he saves us. We don't have to do anything because he did it all!

[Opinion Owner]

@lotv56 You're trying very hard here and it isn't going to work.

[lotv56]

I'm trying hard for saying the truth? lol So what? If you don't believe then fine. Don't! But don't be whining and saying Jesus can't save when you don't even believe.

[lotv56]

Pedophilia is demonic. It's clear that what you are saying is demonic as well. God rebukes you. Let that person go from pedophilia in Jesus name. Jesus is the truth and the life no one can come to the father but through him.

[Anonymous]

Disturbing video. Especially because she was already married. The boy had recently turned 15. So who knows if they were already kissing when he was 14 and she was 19. But in the video he looks 13 and she looks 21 and up. So I think that's what makes it more disturbing. But I know when I was in highschool there were freshmans dating seniors and there were super seniors who were 19. So I guess.. when you look at it like that it doesn't seem too bad. Or a sophmore year student with a person who just graduated. But this video is disturbing still.

[XRabbitHeartX]

Go read the comments. Far more men entertain and praise these sort of things as opposed to women who also adovocate and say it is wrong. It is a double standard because you always have some men saying good for the boy or that it is not that wrong. Women say it is wrong.

[PrincessPie]

Usually I think people see things in a way they’re not meant and read into stuff to much BUT saying that the way she kissed him was weird! Like it genuinely seemed sexual.. I mean yeah pretty disturbing.

[PrincessPie]

The video is about 30 years old mind you , so she was probably around mid 20s herself. still find it odd, she seems high/drunk though.

[goaded]

She was 19, 4 years older than him.

[PrincessPie]

@goaded still think it’s wrong. Doesn’t help it looks more like 12.

[goaded]

If I'd been kissed by a lovely 19 year old at that age, I'd have been very happy.

[goaded]

"The footage dates back to 1982, when Demi Moore was 19 years of age."
www.digitalmusicnews.com/.../

As a 15 year old, would you have complained about a gorgeous 19 year old kissing you? Did the 15 year old complain?

It's not like she was a creepy 35 year old, which is why I expect this has come out. A four year (25%) age difference is way different to a 20 year (125%) age difference.

[Names93]

She's a pervert.

[AustinMan]

It's inappropriate unless he's over the age of consent. Then if he initiates it. then it's fine. I'm guessing it was part of performance.

[OlderAndWiser]

We live in a world gone mad!

[Sonjita]

I think the kid is ugly. Why'd she do that? 😑

[Decentguy]

*I think the kid is ugly*

http://www.reactiongifs.com/r/spchless.gif

[Stokes]

Yeah because if he wasn't ugly, it would be fairly alright. Lol this logic.

[fauchelevent]

Creepy as fuck.

[molham]

People in love don't see gender, colour or religion. Or age

[nickyBBB]

Eww...

[bigandcute]

She always liked them young!

[rjroy3]

I don't consider it disturbing. Just think it's a shitty double standard

[Shuey]

I wish I was 15 yo old. And I wish Demi was 30yo. We're both lookin a little rugged these days.

[Cursewords]

I don't give a shit.

[Decentguy]

clearly you do, thats why you shared your opinion here

[Cursewords1]

What a ridiculous anology. Just because someone comments on something because they are asked for opinions doesn't mean they care about the subject itself. You asked for people's opinions, and I shared mine. That's literally it. I don't give two shits about this woman kissing a kid. Also, you blocked me after replying. What a coward. So you block anyone who doesn't agree with you after giving them your retort hahahaha. What a disgrace.

[Cursewords1]

I can't imagine being such a coward at 26 that I have to block people I don't agree with after making a completely retarded anology.

[Decentguy]

@Cursewords1 your ass is just on fire because i blocked you, Go cry to your mama son, not here

[IdkSomethingRandom]

Age of consent is 14-16 in, what, 98% of the world?

[Decentguy]

seriously?

[IdkSomethingRandom]

Yep. As with most things, America is the odd one out.

[IdkSomethingRandom]

Not to say I support it. But them countries have better sex education and teen moms sucking on the governments teat with zero payoff isn't an issue in most places either, so...

[Decentguy]

ah okay

[LeeKenz]

Well she dated Ashton Kutcher who's a lot younger than her I think it nasty

[Shamisa]

Omg 😮 that’s ridiculous!

[AllThatSweetJazz]

It’s a little creepy honestly.

The gender reverse would absolutely upset people.

[Anon-ymous1]

I think it's annoying that I already know how *you* feel about it before I even actually look at your post, just judging by how you asked your question, is what I think.

[TXKen]

That was barely a kiss.

[heavygear40k]

It's one if those double standards.

[oksurething]

I don't know... it's not against the law. He's only 1 year under the age of consent, and you're allowed to have sex if you're 15 or over as long as your partner is 19. If your partner is between 16 and 19 you have to be over 16. If your partner isn't over 16, you have to be over 19 and they have to be at least 15.

[goaded]

Oh, and look, she was only 19 and they didn't have sex (as far as anyone knows).

[oksurething]

@goaded Exactly, so it's fine.

[spacedanty]

i dont think its so wrong ether way.. did she continue and had sex with the boy i dont think so.. my point is that while its a kiss on the lips its just a kiss... of course nowdays we consider everything to be pervy, creepy and sexually disturbing and i think its not good to sexuallize everything so much

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

It's fine. But it wouldn't be if a grown man did it. I know it's a double standard but I agree with that double standard.