How can people assume that sex and love can’t go hand in hand?
Just because sex is a physical act and can't be considered as a emotional act as well. When you are dating not seriously or have friends with benefits or nothing serious between the man and teh women.
Let me explain this is an example. A woman and a guy who end up having sex after lets say 3 dates, they are nto really strangers though, they ahve talked before, text before and know each other for almost 3 years. Neither one tend to get married in the future to anyone, still the woman has feelings.
The guy tells her I hope that after we have sex (this was said before they decided to have sex) you lets say do not start to develop some kind of bond with me. I mean clearly the guy here wants to be with her only for sex and that is all. But this is why I ask the question.
How a guy pretend the lady not to develop some kind of feelings or at least some bond after sex? I mean the girl is not a hooker or a prostitute he is paying to have sex with or seems like he is treating her as one, that he wotn see anymore, it is a lady he knows for some time before deciding to get sex together.. I mean during sex both of their bodies connect each other, there are kisses involved, touching, foreplay , rubbing, skins close to each other, licking, conversations, those are emotions acting at taht moment, physical emotions but those are things how can a man believe that after the deed is done, the lady is so stupid not to develop anything. I mean we dont come or were born with some kind of "emotions/feelings chip" in our head that we can turn off/on after each sex session with someone in order so if I a guy do wants to have feelings or bond with me after sex, I leave the chip on, but if after sex the guy dont want to develop any attachment with the lady the lady set the turn off switch. I mean it is not that easy...
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