Hot, passionate sex after a long time?

[laanas]

I’m coming home to my wife & 2 kids soon after deployment and I’m nervous about the prospect of making love to my wife after almost 1 whole year of no action. Not even sure if i still have it in me to last as long as before..

On my part at least, I’ve been gymming more seriously than before since I came for deployment and I hope the results show. My wife LOVES strong abs and pecs on a guy so I hope it’ll be a good surprise on the bed cause she hasn’t seen me with abs before (i was lean before deployment but not this much).

How should i build up the anticipation & excitement, especially when our kids are at the age where they need constant attention so she sounds tired all the time? I’m not even sure if she’ll be in the mood for some intimate couple time when I’m back..

Here’s my current progress. Hopefully it’s worth it haha.

[vincjh]

First off, great bod bro! Your wife is gonna be so surprised and love it. Well, respect for going for deployment which I'm guessing is the army.

Anyways, I think the best thing to do is to come home and take care of your kids for a few days. Don't force your wife into anything if she is tired. Let her rest. In the meantime, be there for her emotionally, hugs and kisses are fine for now. Just get the feeling of being a couple back on track and help her with the kids.

During that time, maybe masturbate every now and then and get used to the feeling again because that helps you last longer. Then once you're ready, make a move. All the best man!

[laanas]

Haha thanks for the compliment! Yea i sure did work my ass off.. Hmm.. but you think I should send her a few topless pics before I return to increase her anticipation, or wait for her to feel hint of muscle through my shirt when I’m back at the airport then fully show her what’s underneath when we get on bed? Which will be more effective at turning her on? Definitely, as much as I’d love have to have quiet intimate time with her, I do wanna spend quality time with my kids too. I thought of masturbating, but then again that’d lessen the anticipation of sex with her after a long time..

[vincjh]

Well, I would say keep the surprise when you meet her at the airport. Because let say you send her some photos and she's tired or busy, she wouldn't be able to appreciate it and you kind of ruin the surprise. Feeling it on the day of meeting is best! Lets face it, masturbating will never live up to sex, so you can still be anticipating sex with your wife. Then again, you can just have sex. Don't worry about finishing early, you can always just do it some more and build up your tolerance! Your wife would understand!

[laanas]

I see. You think she’ll want to touch and feel and maybe even lick my muscles? Sorry for the questions. Just kinda nervous cause I’ve never had that done by a girl before (cause i’vr nvr been this ripped) so i’m really nervous about the prospect... And another thing I’m concerned about is my 2 boys interrupting our intimate sexual moments cause their grandparents (our parents on both sides) live in other towns so not convenient to send them over... Yea, maybe I’ll just skip the masturbation & go for the main course right away 😂

[vincjh]

Haha it's okay bro, I know you are nervous. I don't know about the licking but touching and feeling I'm sure! Every girl loves some nice muscles. Well, wait till the boys are asleep. Feed them something that would make them fall deeper into sleep than other foods like milk! Middle of the night helps!

[laanas]

Yea, she has hinted at me that she likes lean muscles on a guy so... haha. Just wondering how she’ll react once she takes off my uniform 😆 Any other way you think i can make our reunion sexier & more intimate?

[GingerNinja26]

The best thing would be to wait until kids are in bed. And go from there (kissing. Touching).

As for not lasting long... dont worry either have a wank first and that will delay you... OR go multiple times with her?

You'll be fine bro 👍

[laanas]

I see. Yea, my kids are at the age where they wake up often in the middle of the night though. Kinda a mood killer if they come knock on the door while we’re getting it on :/ You think she’ll like my body? It’s not too much is it?

[girlygirlyyes]

Well she'll certainly love it... If she's really waiting for you... 😊

[Dargil]

The thing you will have to be aware of is having a "hair trigger"; cumming far to fast. Best to fap a few hours before you are together to slake off sexual tension.

[Cursewords]

This story doesn't even make sense. You say that you got 2 kids and a wife but you write like you're a virgin. This is too confusing.