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Why do women deny the fact they prefer bigger dicks and in some cases even huge dicks?

This isn't a "does size matter" question. The fact is the overwhelming majority of women openly or secretly want a big dick. If you don't believe me go checkout the responses on any dick question on here. Even when they say it doesn't matter its something along the lines of "I don't need a big dick if I love him there's more to a relationship" "They may not need a huge one but they want a "bigger" one. 6" is the actual minimum threshold for what most women find pleasurable rather than just tolerable. What's even worse is most women try and downplay the importance of sex in a relationship. Its not everything but it is important. Period. I understand there are a minority of women who want a small or average penis but its almost impossible to know who they actually are because so many women downplay their love of larger dicks and sex in general. I guess my issue isn't the. way that women love bigger dicks its the fact that they tend to lie about it. If im not what you actually truly want by all means go away. Reading the poll I've linked below made my stomach turn 1/3 of the women wished their partners dick was bigger. I think its because they can still take advantage of an average guy for resources and children while they sleep with someone else on the side. They don't want to ruin their chances with 50% + of all men out there because they gain more from a relationship than just sex its not their first priority. If you do not agree with me just look at these numbers... https://www.misterpoll.com/polls/368041/results
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Don't know, but I do know that no woman finds skinny pencils acceptable. Any girl that tries to say it's all the same and size doesn't matter is liar. Unless you have a huge vagina you can tell a difference between dicks when they are inside you. And it's girth that's more important than length. 6 is good. At 8+ you better pray you are thick

    • You say that like the thickness matters more the longer it is?

    • It does. If it is is skinny it is useless.

    • But you know as well as I do 75%+ have "thick" dicks very few dicks are actually skinny. But 50% + plus are 5.5 and below which is something most of you don't like. Hence the massive male insecurity surrounding this topic. I do think girth matters way more to them but I also think the whole length doesn't really matter only girth does thing is just something to make us feel better about it because when anyone talks about size they are referring to length.

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  • It all depends on the person & experience. For example before I had sex I would lie and say I love big dicks. Now that I've had sex I can say with pride I prefer average sized dicks. Big dicks hurt, but average cocks are way more pleasurable to ride.

    • It most definitely is related to ego. A lot of y'all act like taking a big dick is a status symbol.. I agree most women don't look at 9inches as ideal but Id say most want 6.5-7 by average do you actually mean the real average? Like 5-6?

    • It's a solid 6-71/2 for me. Personally I'm with someone who's 6 and I love it, as long as I can cum everytime we have sex and it feels amazing. 9 is just too much work

    • Your pussy must be tiny.

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  • Huge dicks HURTS, I know my limits. Average size is totally fine by me and easier to give BJs to. My body takes time to adjust to a bigger dick though.
    Average size is more likely to hit my g-spot when fucking.

    • I've heard thwt before but a, lot of them like their cervix stimulated something us average guys can't do

Most Helpful Guys

  • Women are lying more about the importance of man's tallness, that unlike dick size, almost don't have downsides. When a dick is too big for the specific woman, it can make the sex painful for her, if you didn't aware of that fact.

    • Wjat do you mean? Most women think a man can be too tall of he's over like 6'4" or something

    • Even tiny women are going for very tall men, there is almost no limit in that aspect.

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    • Ehhh honestly yeah they're openly super insanely shallow about height but they're honestly worse about size they just keep it on the DL and sometimes they lie to themselves. I understand women want a man as tall or at lesst a bit taller but the bigger is better mentality is fucking ridiculous. Thank god im 6ft..

  • Well I'd better start saving up for dick enlargement surgery then.

    Why do women deny the fact they prefer bigger dicks and in some cases even huge dicks?

    • Yeah it's pretty shitty

    • This is selection bias. The girls who bother answering that survey are already interested in dick more than the average girl. Proper studies done by psychologists found the prefered size was just over 6 inches. And only a small minority of women are actually unhappy about their partners size. Also almost every woman overestimates their partners size thinking its bigger than average. Girls have no clue what 9 inches looks like, they see 7 inches and believe its 8.5. Just relax bro, your dick is good enough.

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  • That may be true for women who can have orgasms from penetrative sex and enjoy doing so, but most women can't and don't. For me, the clit is where all the action is and penis size is honestly not a factor.

    • And even those wonen are often still shallow assholes about size because bigger turns them on more because of dominance or the visual aspect etc...

  • Actually for me 6” is the maximum for me, I would be quick to think before generalising.

    • Some are like that. Im talking in general like the majority.

  • honestly the actual penetration is the least fun part of sex for me, so, I literally do not care.

    • Me too. Oral is better. Are you saying bigger doesn't feel better to you?

  • Because men have fragile egos.

    • Stop regurgitating feminist slogans like "rape culture" "mansplaining" "manspreading" or "men have fragile egos" to gain brownie points in the eyes of women online. It should hurt your ego if she doesn't like your dick. That shits offensive doesn't make your ego fragile it makes you realistic. That being said. Id MUCH prefer to have her just be honest about preferring a bigger dick than what I've got and or disliking what I've got. Yeah obviously it would hurt but at least I'd know not to pursue a relationship with her. I simply want to know who to avoid.

    • That would be nice, really. But from their perspective they don't want to hurt a guys ego. You could have a tiny dick and be fine with it, even substitute a crazy dildo and not care. You asked why, three reason I've found is they're trying to be nice. They see men as kind of volatile, aggressive and ego sensitive.

    • Oh no thats 100% it. Thsts why the first insult they go for with any man is "your dick is small" further reinforcing the fact that they like bigger dicks. Yes I agree honesty would be wonderful. Your average person is so fucking dishonest.

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  • Any normal size cock 6 to 8 inches feels nice, i have slept with men 9/10 inches and in fairness they can hurt a bit

    • Omg,9/10 inches? are they guys from the Republic of Congo

    • 5 isn't normal?

    • Even the biggest BBC's you see on the hub aren't 10 inches. Go to r/measuredpornstars. You confuse a 7 inch dick for a 9 inch one. 10 inches is less than 1 in 1000000. 1 woman inch seems to be more like 0.70 inches in reality.

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  • Bigger the better, that feeling of being hurt is the best. My ex was 7.5 inches but my husband is around 8.5 and I can feel the difference. Personally I like them big

    • Thats fine. I just wouldn't want anything to do with someone like that. Do you tell men this upfront? What happened in the past when you met a man hooked up with him and he was w normal size. Or maybe you've went on a few dates love everything about him then find out he's 5-6?

    • Well I’m married now. And this is my husband I’m talking about. My ex was smaller and I like the feeling of it being bigger. If I was single I wouldn’t tell them upfront, no. It’s not something that would be a deal breaker I guess. I’ve had smaller, 7 inch, it’s also been very good sex, I guess the sexual connection probably plays a big factor into how good the sex is whether they have a smaller size or not.

    • It was a hypothetical question yes I know you're married I mean like how you conducted yourself in the past. Also 7 isn't small by any means and there's no way you are noticing a difference between 7.5 and 8.5 those are both pretty huge. Thats why I think it's largely psychological. Like there's nothing else that could have been better about your knew guy that made the sex better? You are assuming it is all just directly correlated to his dick size? If you like them as much as you say you do you need to be shallow and deny normal sized guys regardless of the situation. I think women often downplay the importance of sex in a relationship which pisses me off. Just be honest. That is why 30% of the women polled cheated to fuck a bigger dick. They found a nice guy with a nice job "fell in love " and later fucked every horse dick they could find to satisfy their porn induced unreasonable sexual desires.

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  • It’s not about the size of the boat, it’s about the flow of the waves 😉

    • Shhhh the grownups are talking. Lol

    • sHhHh, ThE gRoWn UpS aRe TaLkInG. LoL

  • Maybe they're being honest about not preferring a bigger one. I'd trust what a woman tells me than some online poll.

    • You'd trust what one woman (who cares about your ego and has a vested interest in your relationship as well as the resources that come along with it) versus an averaged opinion poll of 1000 women?

    • First, you don't know how accurate those polls are, or if they were even answered by women. And second, yes, I'd trust someone who is right there talking to me. I don't date women who are hung up on dick size. Never even met one. It's just never been an issue that's come up in my many relationships.

    • I agree with VirginiaBeachBum, the validity of that poll link you sent is subject to thousands of errors man 😅

  • I love big and huge one's small ones are not my thing

  • Same reasons guys would rather sleep with their favorite porno star or whatever but won’t break up with their partners to go Persue that.

    Also a lot of guys have extreme jealousy issues and it is safer to just let him think he’s the only one you’re ever attracted to rather than have to deal with his agressive insecurity issues.

    Big dicks are superior. So fucking what. Move the fuck on

    • Yes in love big d

  • I ain't denying it 😂

    • Good. Wish more wouldn't so I could weed out the ones I don't need.

  • Because most men worry already way to much about it.
    A lot of guys have tought about a girl with bigger boobs or a bigger butt. and that's fine.
    But to think there girl has tought about a bigger dick would crush them. well the insecure ones anyway

    • It is kind of circular. The guys believe the girls want the bigger dicks and try to impress, and the girls go along and say they prefer that.

    • Exactly! Of course a lot of women prefer a larger penis, but they know that the more they talk about it, the more they'll be pestered by guys who are already obsessed with the size of their dicks to begin with.

  • Of course they would I know my wife wishes mine was bigger

    • And you're ok with that? Does she tell you this too?

    • Yes she's made comments about it

  • Depends on the person

    • I mean like "in general "

  • You're stating the obvious

  • They really don't. They don't like it

    • They don't like ridiculous horse dicks (but some do) but yes dude they like "bigger" its just a, matter of how much they can take.

    • No, they really don't

    • Read the results of the poll. And have you not seen the responses they write on any dick question on here?

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