Do you think promiscuous women or women with an extensive sexual past are more likely to be disloyal or cheat with future partners?

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  • Yes, with 100% certainty and 0% margin of error.
    I can promise you that.

    Most women here dont like telling it, but its the truth. Some people even say that chicks eho only had 1 partner are more likely to cheat. bs.

    here's the thing, all other factors aside (relationship type, personality, the partners behaviour, etc)
    The likelyhood to stray is directly proportional to the amount of previous partners you have had.

    There are other factors that come into play, but since your question is about being promiscuous before committing, thats the truth.
    There is the reason why phrases "you can't turn a hoe into a housewife" and " dont wife up the town bike" exist. They exist in all cultures and languages and have existed in all times.
    This is also why fathers and brothers prevent their daughters and sisters from getting intimate with other men prior to marriage. They try as hard as they can not to ruin her for the future.

    Im convinved that any woman with double digits is ruined for married life. With pretty much no exeptions.

    There even was a study on marriage stability and divorce across history of mankind, and a byresult of the study indicated that the less previous partners you had, the more likely the marriage is to last. With virgins before marriage being the most likely to last. Even one partner before had quite an effect on likelyhood for divorce.
    There was a youtube video about this, but i forgot the title.

    Anyway, of course there are other factors like personality that come into play, but this is a strong indicator.

    There are virgin women who have cheated on their men, but there are other reasons for that like, she wasn't a virgin by choice, she just was due to cultural pressure, and always had a slutty side and got more opportunities after marriage. She may not have been truthful about being a "virgin". Or there could be other relationshio troubles that caused her to cheat.

    But my point is that, a virgin girl who may habe a high sex drive is still a ton less likely to cheat than a formerly promiscuous woman with a high sex drive.

    It comes down to how you value sex in a relationship. If you only had one person, you tend to associate that person as the object of your sexual desires. When you have more people, you tend to think of sex differently and know you can fantasize about many people who could be potential sexual partners. The difference is in the way of thinking.

    This applies to men too by the way, but not to the extent as women, because men tend to

    • That was beautifully put Lord_chilled 😅. Wish more people would just accept the facts

    • Separate sex from love and other emotions more often than women. For women, sex always means something a bit more. But make no mistake, after a certain number ( depends on the guy) a man too is ruined for marriage. The hookup/casual sex culture is the reason why there are such alarmingly high divorce rates in north america and in Europe. It kinda ruins the chance of a future stable family. And dont feel shaned by women into having to be with women who have been with other guys. Its completely normal to want a virgin woman, or at least a less experienced woman. Im totally cool with saying i prefer virgin women. It does feel good to know that your woman is yours only you know 😁. Like she has never been penetrated by another man. That you own that p*ssy. There is no better ego boost. Im just saying, if thats what you want, dont even think twice about it, just go for that.

    • Thanks man

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  • Yes, I think that the more sexual partners a person has, the more likely it is that they learn to treat sex as a recreational activity rather than as a means of expressing love in a committed relationship. Of course, I recognize that it is possible for people with a high number to have an epiphany and change their attitude on this subject but it is less likely as the number goes up. If a person views sex as a recreational activity, it is more likely that they will be disloyal to a partner.

    • Agreed.

    • Me too

    • But it's not just with women.

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  • Realistically, once u have a taste of the drug u can't go back easily. u will always be vulnerable to it. if u break loose often, ur mind will naturally belittle the risk factor and make it sound as less bad or less wrong. its ur mind adapting to the new situation ( its hard for a serial killer to start with his first victim due to society conditioning him its wrong but, once he starts killing the idea in his mind about killing totally change. he doesn't see it as wrong as we do. his mind would sees it as ( stealing money) in terms of the risk factor. his mind won't percieve danger properly due to habbit and breaking loose)

    Unless, u r really strong willed and u r determined to change for an important reason. or if ur mindset about everything's really changed and u value other things more. I guess u can be loyal and trustworthy

    • Well put Amel

    • Well I put pounctation for the first time so its got to be lol

    • Finally someone who is real about it

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  • no.
    In simplistic terms (assuming that ALL women cheat with not only purely sexual motivations, but also that all women cheat with sexual motivations because they're incapable of getting what they want from their partner), that kind of statement would make sense.

    If you remind yourself that there's a whole span of reasons as to why people (not just women) cheat- often times being not sexual in nature, then no. Plus, let's not get ahead of ourselves by acting like one's sexual past is synonymous with one's current ability to stay loyal. Those are both two completely independent from each other, and way too complex to be able to quantify.

    • Could be Kayla

  • No, I’m friends with a lot of gals who got around, but were always loyal to their boyfriends. I have other friends who’ve only been with a few men, but cheated on each guy to start something with the next one before they split.

    As well as promiscuous friends who have cheated and friends who were only with a few guys and didn’t cheat. And people with a medium number of partners who have both been faithful or cheated.

    Cheating and promiscuity seem to be two separate aspects of sexuality & relationships.

    • Sure they were lol

    • I have found that a lot of cheaters, moreso than promiscuous behavior, tend to display vindictiveness. They like to react in anger when they feel slighted.

    • Well, there’s been a lot of evidence to suggest that the # of sexual partners correlated to future problems whether its marital, emotional, or physical. I just feel like those who have had an unnatural high number of sexual partners, are subject to a different mindset when it comes to sex and love together.

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  • Perhaps more likely but not definitely for all. Depends on the person entirely. In a comparison I think someone is far more likely to cheat if they have cheated before despite having slept with very few people compared to someone who's slept around but never cheated.

  • An issue that isn't addressed tends to remain an issue unless dumb luck comes along. That would suggest that those with an inclination to cheat are doing so for a reason and will continue to do so for the same reason until that reason is addressed.

    • Yeah could be SageBot

  • i don't think so. they just need a partner with a matching personality.

    • Yeah maybe Luna

  • Depends, I think it's more about personality than anything else, I actually don't think for anyone, promiscuity isn't necessarily an indication of cheating. Dickheads and bitches cheat, regardless of their sexual past.

    • Yeah probably

    • Well said.

  • Hard to say, i've known a lot of slutty girls who ended up going steady when they found the right guy, but i also know of girls could never go steady no matter how good the relationship was. but i also know of girls who turned slut after going steady with a guy for years so i think it really depends on the psychology of the girl, the type of relationship or men she's attracted to.

    • Yeah it’s definitely individualized but there’s been a lot of articles and evidence to maybe correlate # of sexual partners with future relationship issues.

    • Yeah there is definitive proof that people with attachment anxiety and commitment phobias have extreme difficulty in finding stable relationships. But generalizing ones sexual past as a way to predict there behavior or future relationships is extremely hard, some times its not even a psychological issue. one of my friends has never been in a stable relationship but has been constantly hooking up with guys and dating around for years but has never had a relationship that last a few months, and i know why, she's extremely beautiful, but has perhaps the most annoying voice i have ever heard. and she loves to talk. when i hooked up with her i could only stand it for about six weeks and i'm a pretty tolerant dude.

    • Lol, yeah agreed

  • No, they are more likely to stick to one guy after their phase. Except if you want to be the only guy for her while she is in that phase and keeps telling you she isn't ready.

    You should be more careful with the girls who marry their first boyfriend at a young age. They might regret it and someday cheat on you.

  • In my opinion, yes. I think they are more likely to because they don't see sex as that much of a big deal compared to someone without that kind of experience. Of course it comes down to their personal values, but I digress.

  • As far as I'm aware most women like that, at some point in their life, want to settle down and are completely satisfied with that.
    Most men like that, however, are quite the opposite. They want it all and are never satisfied with just one woman...

    • Well - I have somehow a feeling of disagreeing with you. But somewhere your right - that men often behave less commited - especially when they are younger compared to their female population...

  • It’s more then likely that some women will. But then again you don’t have to be promiscuous to be disloyal and cheat. So it can go both ways. It really depends on the individual

    • Yeah Mookie

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    • Cookie monster Mookie monster? 😆

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  • I had fun in my early twenties yes I had sex with a few guys but so what.
    I've been with my husband for 14 years and have no desire to be with any other man. I don't even like being touched by other men even in a non sexual way.
    On the other hand I have friends that like going out on girls nights and they do nothing but flirt with other men. They've all met their partners at a very young age.
    It's like they're looking for some kind of validation and I don't need that.

    • “Had fun in my early twenties” could mean a lot of things 😅. I’m talking to a girl now that has had a really really extensive reputation at her age of 21... I don’t really care since I’m not dating her or like her, but if I did like her, I’d be concerned.

    • I went out and partied had a few boyfriends (not all that once of course) a guy that I would hook up with from time to time. Never got into the one night stand thing though because I couldn't imagine that it would be very safe.

    • Not bad enough to get a reputation.

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  • I think having a high sex drive makes it more likely you'll cheat.
    People say that is bullshit but i don't see how it is, of course its going to be harder for someone who is more sexually motivated to someone who isn't. But i also think that loyalty is irrelevant to that so depending on your character is if you chose to be disloyal or not.

    • I have really high sex drive and I only been sexual with my boyfriend and I hope he is the last so I think its irrelevant its hard AF but there is a decision between what u want to last and how things will end up its all about self-control if it wasn't for self control everyone would be fat broke and promiscuous

    • @amel23 Exactly though, the rest depends on your character and morals and self control :)

    • Yeah I see lol 😆

  • Just because a woman has slept with a lot of guys while she's single doesn't mean she can't be faithful in a relationship.

    • Yeah maybe Queen

    • Is this someone in real life you're thinking about dating, or just a hypothetical?

    • Yeah someone in real life, but I’m not thinking about dating them

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  • I'm pretty sure I've read an article or study somewhere that states this is true. The likelihood goes up with the more partners a mate has had before.

  • Well, usually unless she got a complete mindset change or all around sick and tired of that lifestyle then yeah it is more likely.. There's a reason why she got like that in the first place, and a relationship can't change her mindset or philosophy like that..

  • I think they are.

  • All these things depend upon
    AVAILABILITY OF ANOTHER PARTNER

  • We both know science says yes.

    • Agreed Kranjec

  • Yeah that would be logical conclusion.

  • Women who were cheaters in the past are very likely to cheat in the future because of lack of self-esteem and self-control. Promiscuity can't really predict disloyalty, but a past of cheating can.

    • Agreed Princess Dana

  • i think yes because they will always want something better than the previous one

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