Do women need cuddles more than penetration?

Do women need cuddles more than penetration?

My girlfriend says she loves to cuddle with me and hug and kiss.
When I'm on top of her and kissing , she also gets orgasms , maybe due to dry humping.

When I rub her pussy, its wet as a lake. So I know she is very turned on. But she doesn't seem so interest in penetrative sex.

Sometimes, all we do is cuddle and hug and she seems satisfied. Although, i am completely ok with non-penetrative sex since I also don't have too much of a high sex drive.
But this behavior from her seems different.

Do other women also like cuddling more than penetrative sex?
Women like cuddling more than sex. Women are emotional creatures.
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Women like penetrative sex more than cuddling.
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  • technically all humans must prefer contact to penetration. no one could sustain penetration the amount they can just touch. if you tried, your dick would stop working.

    most human beings touch way more than they penetrate. you might look forward to penetration more c its not as frequent as touch but i doubt ultimately you would choose it over contact. imagine if you only went in and out and nothing else. it'd be boring and impersonal.

    the body has so many sensitive spots and when you're touched you release chemicals that make you happy calm and fight disease. we are physically geared towards receptiveness to human touch, there is a reward system in place. it keeps us healthy.

  • Well, penis in vagina sex is rarely orgasmic for women, so a lot of women get kind of bored of it if it's just the same old in-n-out all the time, especially if we aren't lubricated and well aroused before you start.

    What you really need to do is talk to your girlfriend about why she seems not all that into sex with you. Don't make it about pressure for her to like it more. Make this a journey of discovery where you truly listen to her talk about her past experiences, her feelings, her needs and desires. Try to leave your assumptions at the door such as: "My girlfriend right now doesn't seem interested in sex, so maybe that means ALL women don't like it." Set those notions aside.

    • Your first paragraph kinda conflicts with your second one.

    • @lord_chilled In what way?

    • You said p in v is rarely irgasmic and women get bired of it over time. If thata the case, then " need to do is talk to your girlfriend about why she seems not all that into sex with you. Make this a journey of discovery where you truly listen to her talk about her past experiences, her feelings, her needs and desires." is kind of irrelevant isn't it, in regarda to vaginal sex. So its better to just focus on foreplay, oral sex and other stuff that gets her off, and then lady just lets him do vaginak sex to get him off

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  • Nothing to compare. Some days or weeks I prefer cuddling and feel totally happy and satisfied with cuddling only wothout orgasming. Some other days I feel a need for orgasming by penetration or oral sex.

Most Helpful Guys

  • As a guy I even like and need them both too. But as far as the female is concerned, everyone is diff. My woman is in diff moods. We cuddle and scratch each other’s backs. Sometimes she even likes cuddling when I’m spooning her and my arms wrapped around her and loves when I massage her clit and doesn’t want penetration. She just sometimes wants the closeness and intimate massage feeling and not be poked which is totally fine. And because she knows I like cuddling, she often turns to me too and holds me and gives me a backscratch or reach around. Doesn’t always have to or need to go to penetration especially when one or both is tired or you just want to be in each other’s arms.

  • Women are humans too, just like men. They are not sex machines. So i think they need both... affection and sex, just like any normal humanbeing.

    • Yeah, but do you think its a bit strange that a woman mostly prefers cuddling more than sex?

    • Quite... But you know everyone is different whether men or woman. Rather call it a taboo

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  • well, we can say, you can have sex with anyone.
    but you don't want to cuddle, hug n kiss passionately anyone but your loved one only.
    so, this shows the emotional connection to us.

  • Haha, no.

    • So what do u think she behaves this way?

    • I have not idea

  • Both. Not even a question

  • Everyone makes a big deal out of penetrative sex, but it's not really all it's cracked up to be. Admittedly, I'm working off of a small sample size here, but in my experience, I can count on one hand the number of times penitrative fulfilled both me and my ex. And most times, we'd been building up to it for at least a good hour. When it was quick and rushed, it almost never worked. (Not that we did it that way much...)

  • It truthfully depends on the girl and what the girl wants. Not all girls want sex more not all girls want cuddles more... but virtually all women want both. In general I'd say cuddles wins out. But... not always.

  • I think there is a time for both but I have yet to orgasm from cuddling.

  • I need cuddles.
    Most would want both though they're pretty different and can't really be compared.

  • I like both, but sometimes I’d rather just cuddle.

  • Even as a man I need cuddles more then penetration, penetration i have an alternative to but a cuddle can only really have an effect with someone you love.
    Obviously i would want great sex, but while i can masturbate nothing can replace a good cuddle.

  • Most of us need both

  • I think it very much depends. I've known women that aren't into cuddling at all, or very little.

  • It’s two completely different things. You can’t really compare that. I mean I love both in different ways.

    • Also you can have both at the same time.

    • @AnotherUser Haha I actually read a forum somewhere where a bunch of woman/girls were complaining that when they cuddle their boyfriend, it almost always leads to sex and they find it annoying when they sincerely just want to cuddle.

  • Depends on the woman. But for me, yes. I prefer cuddling.

  • Maybe she likes just spending time with you and talking that's why she wants to cuddle

  • It all depends on a person's mood. Sometimes u just need some cuddles and other times u need to satisfy her sexual desires

  • i dont need cuddles, i needa get fucked

  • I want both.

  • She playing, move on

  • The women I have been with needed both, it's no difference than liking to be eaten out, this doesn't mean penetrative sex is not wanted as well.

  • Who cares? XD

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