Why was he nervous having sex with me? Does he like me?

[missgirlie114]

I finally had sex with my old *huge* school crush. He wouldn't date me at all. It's been 10 years since we've seen eachother, we talk sometimes on Facebook. Both have kids now from previous relationships. He invited me over to his place to have sex/hangout only after he was done cleaning & shower. Finally went to his house his kids were there both younger than 6. Mine were with their dad, i dont want my kids to meet every guy in case things dont workout. He introduced me to them. He seemed a little off asked me if i was nervous. Told him no. We talked & spent time with his kids, later we went to his room. He asked me if i wanted to hangout or have sex he was fine with either. I said it dont matter to me either. He shrugged then grabbed my face & kissed me led to making out then his kids busted in the room lol. We stopped he took them out then we both sat on his bed back to talking. I told him i really liked the kissing. Then he reached over & kissed me again we layed sideways on his bed kinda awkward felt like a robot. Finally started messing around we would laugh & smile while kissing, everytime i bit my lip he would stop & makeout with me. Had eye contact during. He stopped so he wouldn't cum layed beside sex. me trying to "figure out a game plan for me to get off" bc i hadn't yet. Told him its cool just get back here lol. He was literally thinking for about 3-5 minutes of what to do for me he asked me what i like etc. Then we started again.. nothing.. he stopped b4 he would cum... he said he thinks his nerves are gettin the best of him.. thought again for a few then started again. I could tell he was getting frustrated getting more nervous... sex wasn't good it was awkward/robot the entire time, but i was still on cloud 9 tho. Neither of us got off bc i couldn't. Told me next time he won't have his kids a night i dont have mine & he's going to make sure i have fireworks in my head. He said he has never been unable to make a girl get off & he be damned if it was me.

[MsLoli]

Having his kids there while having a hook up... that's pretty damn sleazy. It sounds like he just wanted to fuck and nothing more. If he liked you, I think he would've been WAY more careful and considerate about the kids and introducing you.

[t70mme]

Maybe he's is scared of not pleasuring you after all this time. You were crushes at school maybe he wants it to be special as you have waited so long

[AustinMan]

Sounds like he was afraid he might disappoint.

[spakadoo]

His kids were there

[TheLadYouKnew]

Ask him out on a date, or hints towards you wanting to go on one, see what happens