Found gay/trans porn on boyfriends search history?

[andrea45]

Really need help on this guys. I’ve been with my man for 8 months now. I know I shouldn’t snoop through his phone but my last relationship gave me major trust issues and I found a lot on his phone that gave me good reason to look... so I looked at my current boyfriends phone, I was curious which lead me to his search history and I found he searched gay and transgender porn- like males looking like girls but with a penis. I’m very shocked because he has never done that before, he does not seem like he’d be into that at all, he loves me to death (our sex life is great) and he’s only ever been with other woman before. So, I am a little concerned and it’s kinda bothering me. I wanna know if he masturbated to it because all he search was the gay porn (like 5 different sites I saw in his history so he only searched it 5 times)... or was he just curious? I just find it very strange and it kind of worries me, I don’t want to question anything and I just need some reassurance here. I am too nervous to bring it up to him, knowing he would either be embarrassed or mad I went through his phone. I just want to forget about it but what if it happens again? Is it something I should be worried about?

[ARandomGentleman]

What a man fancies in porn is often very different to real life desire. That doesn't mean of course that he doesn't have any potentiality homosexual tendencies. The likelihood is that its nothing to worry about, even if very strange, but as long as nothing begins to change or become apparent in the relationship dynamic or sexual dynamic, then there is little need to worry. Never the less, just keep an eye open for any suspicious behaviour that suggests to you that he is beginning to change in that way.

[andrea45]

Thank you

[dan111]

It's really shitty looking through his phone but that aside I think you need to own up and talk about it now otherwise it's going to consume you and you'll lose him anyway

[Kimikiwi]

Dont worry, sometimes we all try the "bizare" or new porn and he dont need to be gay about it or anything like that. your boyfriend loves you <3 I'm guessing he is just curious but would not actually have sex with a tranny in real life

[QueenofCups]

Most guys who watch gay porn are bicurious.

[Rissyanne]

Your boyfriend is gay or bi.

[FlowerBoy101]

If he still loves u it's not an issue. No different than finding str8 porn. He's probably bi or at least bi-curious

[Surail12]

Maybe he is just curious, or he could be bisexual gather strength and ask him, that way you know the truth

[ThatWeirdDude]

If I was him I would be mad if you started snooping around in my phone, his search history is private, leave it alone or Eric the God eating penguin will punish you

[benedict_cumberbxtch]

8 months. that's nothing Fran Drescher was married to her gay husband over 18 years. don't be a cry baby. talk with him about the search history. maybe he's just extremely horny