What do you consume cheating in a mongomous relationship?

Added a few options on a poll for typical answers, since you can only vote once I guess essential vote for the worst and comment your thoughts.
Flirting with others.
Vote A
Sexting.
Vote B
Sending intimate pictures/videos.
Vote C
Going out with a person of the opposite sex for a movie/dinner.
Vote D
Sleeping in the same bed as someone else.
Vote E
Dancing at a club with others.
Vote F
Watching porn.
Vote G
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Sending pictures.. Thats kinda stupid. How are you going stop another one from getting the mail. They are going to find out.

    Dancing is Harmless. Unless it is that sex dance stuff. Then questionable.

    They watch porn with another. They are having sex. Blind if you don't see that red flag.

    Sleeping in the same bed. It could be innocent, But I highly doubt it.

    Going to the movies thats fine as long everyone knows. If done behind back. Someone needs their butt kicked.

    Sexting... I have no idea what that is. So no comment on that. But I will take a guess. Does it have something to with Sex on a tight rope at the circus. In front of a live audience. And now for your entertainment. Here are the Sexting's to perform their world famous act. Sex On The Rope! Let's here for the Sexting's.

    Flirting is kinda normal a thing now days. Some people even flirt and not know it. I'm one of those people.

  • I consume large amounts of junk food if I get cheated on. ;)

    But what I consider cheating is if you have to hide what you are doing because you know it will hurt them deeply.

    • Silly phone typos. :'( And amen to that answer.

    • LOL yeah, so much fun to look over what you wrote before and it shows you were typing like a 3 year old...

Most Helpful Girls

  • All of this is cheating to me, because my boyfriend and I communicated about what we define as cheating and this all falls under it, but honestly it depends on the agreements of your relationship - everyone should talk about what's okay and what's not because otherwise you'll have misunderstandings and someone's gonna get hurt

    • Thanks for MHO

  • Sexting and intimate photos is kind of the line because their was intent there. All the others, apart from porn (which I don't consider an issue) and flirting (which can be used for other purposes eg. manipulation) could be merely incidental.

  • I guess me and my best friend both cheated today according to 14% of you. I fell asleep in her bed while she was showing me facebook statuses. I napped for a nice long while

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  • Nachos

  • I don't consider it infidelity unless it involves physical contact. That being said, everything you listed would warrant a break up (and most likely result in one), simply because I find them all blatantly disrespectful.

  • all above !
    it's the intention not the tool my friend !

  • everything on here except for watching porn

  • B & C are the same thing

  • Basically everything except the bottom two could be interpreted as cheating.

  • All of these except watching porn and sleeping in the same bed if they're really just sleeping.

  • all of the above besides porn thing

  • again this stupid obvious question but this time it's twisted up. here is my answer

    https://youtu.be/FLLnL4RZCPk
  • Watching porn.

  • Sort of all of the above besides porn.