I got 3 well know reason that are true and correct. Guy code tells us guys not to say anython but i say fuk gug code. I am in it for me not them.
1. He is lazy
2. He got board with it
3. He doing it to someone else
Time to move on. If you like it and he don't return the favor then why be with him. Trust me I love going down on a woman. For the reason up above is the reason most guys stop performing sex in general. Ask a married couple how many times the have sry in one week. This may shock you buy it is zero in one week maybe 2 to 3 times a month. Married guys go back to masturbating or even cheating.1 0 0 0you make a very compelling argument, our sex life is great and we have fun but it's just that specific detail that bothers me. Thank you for sharing the guy code, definitely gave me a lot to consider.
Couples will see a small slowdown or change in their sex habits when the get married or move in together. It is not fair that you keep giving him great orgasms (blowjobs) and he does not return the favor, Yo have been honest with him. I would tell him that for every time he goes down on you that you will return the favor. Until then he will have to settle for handjobs or sex. How often are you two having sex? Do you orgasm from vaginal sex when he does not give you any oral?
0 0 0 0Yea we have a good sex life. We are both really busy and don't live together but manage to have sex at least 2 or 3 times a week. Most of the time I'll orgasm through vaginal sex and if I don't he fingers me and stuff until I do. We have a pretty great relationship, I really have no complains besides the lack of oral.
Well I hope he gets the message and resumes giving you oral. Sex is a two way street if you are giving him head he should return the favor always!
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Maybe its smelly. 😂
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0 18Ask him if he believes in the Golden Rule.
2 0 1 0You tell him to start licking your pussy or you’re going elsewhere
0 1 1 0It sounds like he's grown complacent in the relationship and is being lazy about it. I would let him know that you really like the way he does it and it's an important part of sex for you. I wouldn't with old bj for bow as that kind of tit-for-tat stuff really doesn't work long term, but it's an option if other things don't work. I think once you've gotten to that point though it's going to have been pretty blatant disregard for your desires and that's a major red flag in my opinion.
1 0 1 0thank you for that opinion, yeah I tried not giving him oral but I caved because I genuinely enjoy it and it didn't seem like a good solution in the long term like you mentioned. I haven't gotten extremely mad to the point of breaking up because I don't want him to think our relationship is only about sex. Do you think it'd be a good idea to give him an ultimatum?
Maybe, but just have a talk about it. Don't put him on the defensive, be super complimentary and genuine in your desire for it (shouldn't be hard ;) and just express to him that it's a really important part of sex for you and you need it to come back. Do this before sex or outside of sex because it will only sound like your complaining if you do it after sex.
thank you, very helpful I will definitely try that.
One reason why I don't is if I have grown a cold sore. Afraid to share that.
0 0 0 0Because you don't appreciate it the way used to.
0 1 2 0No I always told him how good he was and how much I enjoyed myself
because he is a silly boy- giving women oral is the HUGEST turn on
1 0 1 0Im sorry I got to say that it is not a big turn on for all women. I honestly prefer not to get one, not because im shy or dirty. It's just not My thing :) dont enjoy it at all
@Kimikiwi you are breaking my heart here, lol
most women deem me odd. for i wouldn't care if i ever got a blowjob but if i couldn't give her oral, it would KILL me
I wrote this a while ago about women and receiving oral sex;
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a22209-women-the-irony-of-receiving-oral-sex@Kimikiwi As an aside, I see you are a Swede. i am a HUGE fan of cooking. have you any good recipes for Köttbullar?
You're gaining weight and he doesn't have the heart to tell you, or, he feels like he's doing a shitty job
0 0 0 0He was trying to impress you and the best way for him to start again is to just 69 so and lay down the law id u give him head he has to too or you will stop
1 1 1 0wow what a great idea!
He probably is tired of it. Did you talk to hin. Maybe he thinks you don't like it. Talk to him about more variaty. If he like to war you out try to sit in his face
1 0 1 0You smell down there
0 0 1 0Maybe your puss smells bad
0 1 3 0He got tired of it. Leave him alone
0 0 1 0You’re going to have to change it up some kind away. Just hope he’s not going down on another lady.
1 0 1 0Maybe he is really tired of going down on you and just can't say!
1 0 1 0Maybe it just isn’t as exciting as it used to be for him, things naturally slow down in a relationship, maybe start changing what you wear or you’r approach to him, maybe go away somewhere and try to have foreplay
1 0 0 0A change in preference is not uncommon. The amount of time he was going down on you seem extreme. He may be just burned out for a while. Some changes are good to make you appreciate what yo have left.
1 0 0 0Clean your pussy.
0 0 1 0Amazing man!!
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