Why does my boyfriend ONLY WANTS ORAL AND ANAL SEX?

cat95
Hi, guys and girls!
So, a bit of background...
My partner and I used to be very sexually active. We would have sex 3 times a day every other day and anal once in a while.
Now he says “he just doesn’t want to” or “ he wants to in his mind but his body doesn’t want to”, and I was okay with it! Cause you know, not everything it’s about sex. And he kept saying the same excuse but then he wanted oral sex, then anal sex, then oral sex again and so on.
So I started feeling unwanted and undesired, because what I like about sex it’s the intimacy and the connection between us, but with oral sex and anal sex I can’t feel that. I feel as if I’m only pleasuring him so I feel kind of used.
Any thoughts or experiences on this?
Please be kind.
Thanks xx
Why does my boyfriend ONLY WANTS ORAL AND ANAL SEX?
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