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Does a penis in the butt hurt more than a finger?

I love anal play with fingers, but I'm kind of sceptic about putting a penis inside. Does it hurt that way, or is it quite the same?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Depends on how much bigger the penis is than the fingers. I'm personally super tight and my boyfriend and I tried anal but he only got 2 inches in when it hurt like hell, even though we used lube and I was super turned on by trying it. My ex was much smaller (like 4 inches) so it was fine but my current is like double that size so I'm going to try to slowly stretch myself. It depends on how tight you are, how big the penis is and the other factors you would normally expect like lube and such

  • Doesn't it hurt when you begin to push large poop out of your anus? And, then, it feels better as the poop passes through. It's quite the same with a dick but more painful. Slap on & spread some KY or Vaseline on his rod before penetration to make it slide in smoother. It'll still hurt during the early strokes (especially if the penis' girth is large) but will feel better later. I prefer to make him wear a condom and still rub on some jelly.

  • This is the one time size does matter 😂 Lube and a condom, it will hurt more because it's bigger. Take it slow and make sure your super aroused and it should hurt for long.

  • It hurts more because it's longer and wider. If you go slow though, it shouldn't be too bad, it should just be somewhat uncomfortable.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Work your way up... get different sized butt plugs. that is what me and my girlfriend did.. then we got a dildo that was pretty small but inflatable.. it took a while but now I have anal with her at her request and we also peg now.. Just go slow and easy at first. AND LOADS OF LUBE if does feel really good. AND an asshole is not anything like a vagina.

  • Yes... even an avg. dick is about the girth of 3 girl fingers in her ass. A thick guy like my self would be like 6 male fingers... as I'm 3 middle fingers wide @ the 2nd knuckle and 2 deep.

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  • It doesn't hurt as long as you have some kind of lubricant and the guy takes it real slow for the first couple times. Anal is one of those things you need to learn to love.

    • Exactly this its all about lube and doing it slowly.

  • Yes, the penis hurts a little better.

  • Yeah but not too bad as long as you use lube

  • I've been told it does. I have no personal experience with a real penis, but my wife and another partner used vibrators and a dildo on me and it wasn't nearly as bad as I thought it would be. Use lube, take your time, relax, and you should be fine.

  • If the penis is bigger then the finger, then yes

  • Yes. You need to use plenty of lube and work up to it with anal plugs

  • Well a dick is bigger than a finger, so...

  • It should. Dicks are at least 2 fingers wide.

  • Put a finger next to a penis, I'd say it's going to hurt

  • Yeah it does

  • yes it hurs more than finger
    but just at the begining
    its similar to vagina
    at first it hurst after that is plesure land hahha

  • a bit because of size, til you won't get use to of it.

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