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Im not good at riding dick n need help?

So I've been seeing this guy and he's super hot im just about willing to anything for him, I've been sucking his dick a few times, he's the first guy I've ever swallowed because he made me feel real confident in my ability to suck him good but the other day he asked me when i was going to ride him, n i said when i get off my menstrual n he said thats ok cuz he loves it when i suck him. But honestly i suck at riding but i really want to please him, and my experience with my ex is what has me nervous and feeling like i won't be good cuz every time i would get on top i couldnt get the right motion n he would always push me back wards when i would lean forward n i would lose my balance so i couldnt do it, it was very uncomfortable. So im really nervous Im also 4'11 and he's 6,7 so im worried the width of his hips will make it hard but he is super big so i also know i can't take his whole dick so i need to stay shallow at first, n we'll probably fuck in his car because we both got kids n no privacy so i need riding tip im really nervous
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    Cowgirl tips
    Here’s the way I have found, with the help of a very cooperative girlfriend, that a woman can ride her man all the way up the mountain to multiple, increasing powerful orgasms and ultimately, squirting.
    • He needs to understand that he can help with this position by grabbing her hips and helping her move. At first, leave to her own devices but as she gets more and more aroused, he should become stronger and more and more forceful in moving her back and forth.
    • Put him on his back and mount up with you on your knees.
    • Slide him in and settle in so you’re comfortable.
    • Rock like you’re riding a horse, slowly at first and faster as you get more aroused.
    • When you’re ready for him to help, reach down and put his hands on your hips. For effect, you can beg him in your sexy slut voice to help you.
    • When you start to get close to cumming, move like you’re trying your best to break that thing off. Of course, you won’t but the point is to not hold back. Just go crazy.
    • When you’re right on the edge, tell him to do you. He thrusts up as powerfully as he can and holds it with you impaled as deeply on his cock as possible, perched on his erection. He also forcefully tilts his hips and slams his shaft into your G-spot.
    • As you cum, don’t even slow down. Keep going and you will cum over and over, each time increasingly intense.
    • If you have The Big One, as I call it, you may very likely squirt so if there’s a gush, it’s not urine. It’s female ejaculate. Keep going until you’re completely done.
    Here are a few ancillary suggestions:
    • Pee first so that if you should squirt, you can be confident it’s not pee.
    • If you’re into S&M, have him forcefully pinch your nipples as you’re starting to cum.
    • He can slap your tits around if you’re into that. One girlfriend of mine liked to be slapped while she was up there with me telling her what a trashy slut she was for being up there in the first place.
    • Some ladies like their men to reach around and smack their ass while they ride.

  • Height and weight are important. I prefer petite girls but often they just aren't heavy enough to really give a good grind. The solution for a petite girl is that I put my hands over the front/side of the pelvis and push her pelvis against mine. It actually costs me a bit of effort but it's damn worth it! You've gotta tell him what you do here if he doesn't get it. It's mostly about what he does info this scenario. For you, as the girl... You gotta practice your moves. Join a salsa class, or check YouTube for twerking tutorials. But it'll probably come naturally once he's doing his job right ;)

    • Im pretty small n patite too

    • Then this is good info for you :) do you understand where he has to hold you?

    • Mmm ig. is this what my ex was trying to do

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  • If you calm down your anxiety and listen to your own body the ry then will come naturally... it'll really help if he alternates between thrusting at the same time as you for deep pleasure along with just letting you grind on him with the thrusts for clitoral pleasure. Trust me once you get it going there'll be no need to worry!

    • *rythm

    • You can switch between going deep and rimming him etc, just do what feels really good to you.

  • If you’re fucking in a car that’s easy. Get on top of him and use the seat as leverage. And if you’re a smaller woman well he can help my using his hands so you guys get the right motion! You’re thinking too much into it. Just gotta let it flow he’ll let you know what feels good.

    • But why is it easier in a car? :D

    • @Gramer because he’s sitting up right it’s just easier to get leverage that way

    • You have a point here :D You've tried it a lot of times? :D

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  • Most guys won't do that dick move of pushing you back or making you sit straight up. They dont understand that ruins any clitoral stimulation and dont feel good. Dont worry about it much just move it a way that feels good to you

    • Yeah, he's the guy I've ever been with nd he always did that shit, it annoying and couldnt do it that

    • Another thing you can do if they won't stop pushing that is to get off of him and change position. If he still keeps it up stop sex completely and act like you need to pee. A couple of times of that and they will get the hint

    • Thank you, this comment made me feel better

  • I'm not very good either I usually try and watch videos on how too

    • I watch porn too but i can't ride while shaking my ass

    • Why is it so difficult?

    • @Gyrfalcon i have no ass

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  • Don't cheat with ur husband 😑

    • Im not cheating

    • Sorrt of anything happened to ur love but if not, so, where did the kids come from?

    • My ex

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  • the key to taking top is to get yourself off. Don't worry about pleasing him - if he sees you pleasing yourself with his cock, that's usually enough to keep him excited. But do try to implement 'in-out' with the wiggling.

  • Austin man will be here shortly

  • Put a dildo on a bike and start riding. It happens to be good training and good exercise.

    • Or watch porn. Porn is the best tutorial.

  • Sounds like he'll use you like a fleshlight 😂😂😂

    • Well were not serious its just about fun

    • I meant physically coz of the size, I didn't mean relationship wise

    • Oh sounds good to lol

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  • You pay for a professional to show you riding him... That way you can watch how it's done and maybe join in and improve your skills.

  • Witch city r u live?

  • Pm me and I can send you some links to different techniques

  • do practice at home with toy.

  • Watch porns

  • it's going to be challenging in the car. . Offer your ass and tell him to fuck u.

  • Ask him he probably is skilled and will understand

  • This is so trashy... Try riding the bus to the library and practice intelligence.

  • Have him just hold your hips while you and him thrust together, and with that height difference I guess there is no kissing while thrusting no matter what you do

  • Haha! I'm sure that there is plenty of porn videos out there to get tips from!!!

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