How many people do you have to sleep with to be considered hoe-ish?

Question

Going both ways, male and female, how high does your body count have to be for you to be considered a "bed mite"?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I don't think (number of partners) is the correct variable or has anything to do with being "hoe-ish," which I suspect you mean, undesirable to society due to sexual behavior? I am still uncertain or confused...
You see, I am perplexed at American Culture; you guys appear to be the move "perverted" but also "oppressed" and "judgemental" which is a really strange mixture if you think about it.
Where I grew up which was like other countries around me, girls and guys were more or less even; meaning guys did not brag about getting laid more than girls, and girls did not talk shit to other girls for getting laid, and guys did not call them a "Hoe-Bag" because if you did, you would be labelled much worse, a strange church person... who is likely fucking farm animals somewhere we don't know about.
What I think I have figured out is, how you think; shaming women and putting guys on a pedestal, for doing the same exact thing, is you are all exhibiting what you have become, a victim of your own culture and most of you don't even know it because you have been raised on it.

ShortCircuit · Accepted Answer

My definition has less to do with the number, and more to do with the context in which he/she had sex.

For instance: Someone who slept with 10 people, but all within committed relationships, would not be considered a slut in my book. If it was a girl, I wouldn't date her, but I still wouldn't call her a slut.

On the other hand, I wouldn't hesitate to label someone as a whore if they had only slept with 1 person, but in the context of a one night stand.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

A whore is a prostitute. Women who are not having sex for money, drugs or some other material thing or services are NOT whores. We just call women sluts and whores to shame them for being sexual, or maybe even something as stupid as too much of her wrist showed out of her long sleeved garment. We even have people calling 8 and 9 year old girls sluts and whores.

The two terms have just now come to mean: "I am a person who thinks that woman's sex life is my business, and I have decided to be shitty to her about it."

There are a lot of men here trying to justify the double standard, as if it is inherently worse for a woman to be sexual than a man. It isn't. That's just old sexist bullshit that hasn't worked it's way out of the popular mindset.

I believe people should have sex in such a way as they are behaving consistently with their own values. Men who value female chastity until marriage should remain chaste themselves. Men who wish to have partners before marriage should accept women who also choose that.

hannahbanana11 · Accepted Answer

I don't think the number of bodies is the only factor when it comes to defining someone as a hoe. I think how often they had it, how many different people it was, whether they engaged in sex in a relationship or if it was a hookup, if thy were under the influence of drugs or alcohol, age, how they came about obtaining the body, etc. You can have a lot of bodies and not be a hoe. You can also have none or just a couple and be a hoe.

constancerose · Accepted Answer

a hoe dont need to have sex to be a hoe. they can hoe around all they want without ever actually doing anything physically. its all mental, if they given themselves mentally and emotionally to numerous people at the same damn time sounds like a hoe to me.

Huragok · Answer

Personally I think it has less to do. With the amount of people and more to do with how well you know them before sleeping with them.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

It depends on your age. At 16, three partners would seem like a bey high number to me. I don't know the number for my current girlfriend but if it is three, I would consider that to be extraordinarily low (she will be 63 on Saturday.)

girlygirlyyes · Answer

Sometimes even virgins are given the name 😂

D1991F · Answer

I think I would only label you a hoe if your that grimey girl that most guys have slept... But have having a high sex count don't make you a hoe cause what if your intentions are good but you and the other guy didn't work out and let's say you dated many

QueenofCups · Answer

Depends on how old you are.

slatyb · Answer

This is only a thing in small and small-minded communities. Unless you are trapped in one, don't worry about this. Adults in large cities don't care about this stupid stuff. Just be true to yourself and forget the haters.

nickyBBB · Answer

2 even if you do it random and move from one to another in a second.

Darkener · Answer

I'd say it's about the reasoning behind the people she slept with. If it's just to get a lay of the land, than that's land I don't want to explore. If it's because agree actually felt feelings for someone, I get that

asfend · Answer

It's not about how many, it's about the purpose behind it, if you're doing it just for pleasure with no actual emotions, you a hoe

luv2plzr · Answer

I've been single for the last 25 years of my life and love sex so recently I decided to start making a list of all the chicks I've been with so far I'm at 120 women and still think of 1 or 2 perday. I was disappointed in myself I thought the count would have been way higher.

ImMackFreeze · Answer

Don't sleep with anyone until marriage! It will save you lots of pain and in return supply you with lots of love!

lovelyhoneybones · Answer

It depends on how long you've been single and the amount of time. If you're sleeping with 3 people in less than a span of 3 months or even 3 months, I think you have a problem. I wouldn't say you're a "bed mite" though. If you've slept with more people than your age, I think it's safe to say that person's A HO!

Bonobonbon · Answer

I think numbers don't matter. I don't like the term hoe anyway. It's made up to discriminate people, who love a total natural thing and live out their desires. I don't see the "wrong" aspect in having had many sexual partners.

USA1960 · Answer

Four plus in a month.

Beardybookoftruth · Answer

Depends on the way you go about it. Doesn't matter if you sleep with 200 blokes. I'd call that experience. The problem is we created this fake label for shit like this. Ignore it and have fun. It's your life go and sample the world

Greaver · Answer

2 or more in 2 days

Gedadia · Answer

I just don't understand why a person would be like it. sex for sex sake is just a turn off for me I like a romantic get together !!!

HamAndCheese · Answer

Depends on your age. I actually tried to come up with a formula for it. I think it was...(X/(Y-15)) where X is the number of people you've slept with and Y is your age.