this is not to say, girls don't talk shit to other girls for flirting with a taken man, or guys who are trying to bang their friends girlfriends, because that is what we would call "hoes" or "assholes" or whatever, but if a girl wants to get with a single guy, let her, its up to her, not society and same for a guy, lets just hope they do it safely and that is it.
I 100% agree with you
@JulieXO Nice to hear, its what I think. However, now I am living in the USA and I am not sure I should teach what I think to my kids because of where they are. Life will be much easier if you live by rules based on how things are oppose to how you think they should be. Its a different culture and maybe its not such a good idea to corner yourself into a situation that will make you miserable BUT, after high school, after someone can freely find who they are, go for it... its just sad that can't happen earlier with community support
and its funny how I wrote that because I didn't even mention sex, its a broader issue going on here in America
and to add, they is good hoes and bad hoes, hoes that own they hoe-ness, and hoes that let the hoe-ness own them. good hoes are better at leaving the hoe-ness in the past. example: yeah, i was a hoe, fo sho, but i ain't gotta live like dat no mo, so im a retired hoe now and am happily linked to one and only one person now.
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Actually, psychology shows this is very bad for your mental and emotional health after marriage
@VoidShadows I will show you my sources that disprove yours ten fold, numerous sources show that the more partners a person has the more unhappy they are, the higher risk of stds, unplanned pregnancy occur, higher chance of divorce for every extra partner you have.
I'm not saying someone should go around screwing a thousand and one people. I'm saying that going your entire life with the mindset that sex is wrong before marriage. Causes a scar on your mental state that can seriously harm your mental health after you do get married.
@VoidShadows How is it a scar? I think sex before marriage is wrong for specific reasons.
Whatever reasons you have are your own. My point is more people who are raised always told sex before marriage is wrong. It can cause your brain to see it as something horrible, even after marriage its something horrid in your mind
@VoidShadows My parents never talked to me about sex and have reached this conclusion on my own, in fact I think my parents didn't even wait. I think sex is a great thing that should be in marriage, however I do see what you mean. I do find myself thinking it to be horrible, but that is because of the realistic consequences of sex out of wedlock be unwanted pregnancy leading to abortion, stds, higher divorce rate, etc. In marriage I would be quite content I assume
Okay in that sense it's understandable and I respect your choice. I suppose its more a matter of being sure you do it for the right reasons
@VoidShadows Thank you man, I appreciate that
*separate sex from love (not live 😂😂😂)
Your fonna take a girl who slept with 200 dudes? 😂😂😂Have fun with that baggage my man.
Haha, what baggage lol. You don't know what the blokes done either :P
Here the thing dude. Guys dont get baggage from fucking around. Guys get baggage from being burnt.A woman gets baggage from every. single. guy she. fucked.Remember that.Very noble of you to want to save a hoe, but its gonna be a lot more work than you think. And even then you may not be successful.Take it as you wish
Haha fair play, sounds like you've been burnt on the edges yourself a man. I get what you mean.
A little bit. Nothing i can't deal with myself, without taking it out on other girls tough
You had a 3some
No I'm a virgin
Would you tho
What having many partners has to do with self respect?
@ijustwanttoshare I'm with you. One can have both self respect and be sexually active.
This is not a subject that can be easily defined in a few paragraphs it would take some time Unless you were in your rightful place in society no you cannot and I can tell you from society none of you women have taken that and your shaming yourselves by your actions
How dare you, sir? How? My body is a temple, and I am the Goddess it was made to serve. Love making is a holy ritual that gives us, perhaps, the closest contact with the divine. My worth and my self respect are not tied to how I adhere to rigid norms that both demand the surrender of my sexual self to the control of a man, then tries to shame me for doing exactly that. My self respect comes from demanding my right to live, and yes, fuck, in the way that suits me best. What you mean is that YOU don't respect me, but you want to make me feel like I am responsible for that, like is something I did, and I deserve to be shamed for it.If sex is a shameful act to you, then that sounds like your hang-up, not mine.
Didn't say hoes, I deliberately didn't say hoes. I said hoe-ish, in a form that you do the same actions as a hoe.
Okay but just to clarify, men can't be sluts like women.
If a slut is someone who sleeps around with almost everyone, then yes, in my eyes a man can be a slut. I believe men are more hoe-ish and slutty than who they shame. Society really needs to find a word for them!
You're lost! Men and women aren't the same. Because women are biologically supposed to be selective. The role of a woman is to find a man that will take care of her and her children. Where as the role of a man is to spread his genes or seed as much as possible. Meaning it is quite natural that men experience a much bigger urge to have sexual experiences than women. Meaning a promiscuous man is much more acceptable than a promiscuous women. Any woman who wants dick can easily go and find some. Where as a man needs charisma and other qualities to hit that. Don't get things confused here. Men and women aren't and will never be the same.
@TruthHurt, you may want to read a scholarly treatise on the evolution of sex called "Sex at Dawn". What you're saying is pretty much a debunked theory these days.
No, men are not like animals. Men should be selective to whom he spills his seed into woman he loves looking after. just my pov- not here for ongoing debate.