I rarely find anyone attractive?

I can only count the number of people that I was into on my one hand. I have seen some people that are easily attracted to a wide variety of people or can hop from one relationship to another. I can't seem to do that? When you're a single woman, people naturally ask why you aren't with anyone yet. And it's because I rarely find anyone attractive. I'm not talking about looks, it has nothing to do with my attraction towards men, a guy can be a super model and there is still a high chance I won't find him attractive. While on the other hand, a guy can be labeled as "unattractive" but still be attractive to me. The point is that it almost never happens, with anyone. Some people can develop attraction after getting to know the person, but that's not the case with me. If I don't find a guy attractive from the start (that I can imagine myself kissing him and ripping of his cloths) then I never will. I can have feelings for someone I'm not attracted to, but then I just get sad that there's no passion and that I'm gonna have to friend-zone them. But when I do find someone attractive, it's a miracle and I go insane! I get really, really, really attracted to them and I find it extremely hard to let them go if we don't have compatible personalities or if they're taken. Then I have to wait another few years to find someone I'm attracted to again. I just generally think of men as not attractive gender. While on the other hand, I find women so beautiful and I think almost every is woman attractive. Sometimes I wish I was a lesbian or a guy, then I probably wouldn't have this problem. But I'm not, I'm just attracted to a very small percentage of men.
Can anyone relate?
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  • You might just find the personality attractive and not the look

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  • Try lowering your expectations