Girls, how many of you could go for a foot massage after a hard day?

[Anonymous]

It seems that most girls would love for a guy to give them a relaxing foot message after a tiring day at work, or at school. What I’m wondering is this. If a guy likes you, maybe a boyfriend, and has a foot fetish, and he’d love to give you foot massages whenever you want, would you be comfortable with a guy with a foot fetish giving you foot massages, or would this be a turn-off? Foot fetish guys can give the most amazing foot massages because they have a special admiration and appreciation for a girl’s feet and aren't at all grossed out by them, yet these guys are seen as weird During a massage, he might want to kiss the girl’s feet, sniff them if they’re smelly and enjoy it, and suck her toes, which can be win-win, pleasurable for him, and can be very enjoyable for her also, especially the toe sucking. Can the pleasure experienced from a foot massage make it worthwhile? Would you be compatible with a foot fetish guy? You get awesome foot massages while he gets to enjoy your feet? Is this something you could like in a long-term relationship? I’m a foot fetish guy and wondering if there are girls who could appreciate this type of relationship long term.

[Love_Byte]

Here's the thing: foot massages are great, but when you involve your fetish without telling them, that's a lack of informed consent. You're turning a non-sexual activity into one that gives you sexual gratification without her OK, and that's not ok.
I am NOT implying that you do this, or that you're suggesting it, but it's part of the reason some girls don't want a guy with a foot fetish touching their feet if they themselves aren't into the fetish or wanting to participate. Even if they would love a footrub and probably enjoy it, they might not always be consenting to sexual activity during that massage, and when that guy has a foot fetish this can be more difficult to avoid. It's uncomfortable when one person is really into it when you just want to relax. Additionally, while you may give great foot rubs, smelling and licking feet can be a really uncomfortable and unsettling sensation for most girls.

[Love_Byte]

All this being said, I DO NOT think the fetish is "weird" just because I may not be 100% into it. It's actually a super common fetish, nothing weird or wrong about it, but you can't force your fetish on someone else.

[Asker]

Great points! I'm not a proponent of a guy forcing sexual activity onto a girl because he's getting too turned on by her feet. I'm against this. A guy needs to control himself and be respectful. This being said, can a girl get turned on by seeing her guy getting turned on by her feet? Or what if she gets turned on by the sensation of her toes being sucked? Can the activity be a turn-on for BOTH girl and guy and lead to sexual activity, both parties consenting?

[Love_Byte]

Oh absolutely! If she is also into it then you've just found the ideal scenario. A less ideal scenario would be a girl saying "ok, I'll try it" knowing you have a foot fetish but feeling pressured to indulge in it, or worse, a girl agreeing to a foot massage and a foot massage only, but having to specify that she doesn't want it to become sexual every time because she knows about your fetish and isn't into it. A girl absolutely can get turned on by seeing her partner turned on, even if she isn't into the same thing that he is into. This is common, but isn't always a guarantee. Like so much else that has to do with relationships and sex, it all boils down to communication and consent. You seem perfectly equipped to handle that

[undecisive]

Well I wouldn't like this Tbh. I prefer normal massage but it depends on the person

[ChronicThinker]

I only allow it if the guy isn't one of those creepy foot fetish guys. If you put your mouth near my feet I'm knocking at least 4 of his teeth out.

[Greaver]

Foot fetish’s are weird

[ChronicThinker]

@Greaver I agree my friend.

[Greaver]

Like why do they gotta make it weird a girl just wants a foot massage I mean personally I would do it for her because as a boyfriend/husband that’s what you are supposed to do for her

[ChronicThinker]

@Greaver Well yeah my man does it for me and I'm willing to rub his shoulders after a long day. I don't have to lick em' and shit.

[Greaver]

Like who the fuck licks feet we stand on them all day they sweat I would rather lick a girls Anus than the feet

[HonestGirlAlways]

I'd be creeped out so no not really

[Greaver]

I would massage her feet and massage her back

[Itsjustme007]

I love to rub females
Feet