Guys is there anything that determines how much cum you ejaculate during sex?

Like do you have a bigger load with a new girl, or if you're more turned on, or because you're physically bigger...

Or do you all just have your own individual amount generally...


Just curious.
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Thanks for the opinions so far guys, it's been interesting reading all of your answers! I forgot to ask about another factor; does the level of his attraction to a partner influence this somewhat too?
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  • To answer the last question first; yes attraction can have some influence. But I wouldn't worry about that so much, as long as there is some sexual chemistry I'm attracted enough.

    Beyound that there are actually many factors that determines the "load", which can be separated into two aspects, cum volume and force. The time since last ejaculation, genetic factors, diet (what and how much you eat), water intake, supplements etc. all contribute to a greater cum volume. Factors such as general strength, pc muscle strenth and so on determine ejaculation force.

    So, you see it's important to have both a good volume and good strength in order to cum a lot. Having volume only but weak strength will make you orgasm and create quite some fluid, but it will "dribble" and it doesn't really appear. Vice versa, having strenth but no volume will usually create one or a few "cum shots" but nothing substantial. The right viscosity is also fairly important.

    And it's possible to improve on both strength and volume. My girlfriend bought a book with dieting tips, exercises (such as training the pc muscle and so on) etc. from a pornstar, aimed at couples aiming to improve cumshot performance in the bedroom (She has a thing for large cumshots). Personally I thought it was scam first, but quite some of the stuff actually works really well. During 4 months I've gone from 1 or two shots and then dribbling at best, to 6-8 forceful arcs during ejaculation.

    • Wow that's quite a detailed response. Thanks for the input and for taking the time to write that. 🙂

  • There are a handful of factors that can determine the size of a guy's load.

    The two primary ones being genetics, and length of time since his last orgasm. Some guys just naturally shoot more than others, but semen also has to be replaced. If they cum again, too quickly, the load will be noticeably smaller.

    Other factors can include level of arousal, and length of time spent aroused. If a guy really isn't all that into it, then his orgasm won't be very strong, so he won't be able to expel as much. Likewise, if he's been hard for a long time, or is into edging, then the resulting ejaculation will likely be much larger/stronger.

    There are other random factors, as well, such as hydration, certain foods, and medical conditions that can have an impact, as well. These can vary wildly, though.

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  • How often they ejaculate has a huge bearing on the amount of cum released. Takes time to get fully loaded up again.

    • Yeah, I just wondered if there were any other factors that influence it too

    • I read somewhere that it takes 2-3 days to "max out" on the amount. After that, there is not a larger amount. I don't know how factual that is.

    • @ArrowheadSW not very

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  • That is some shit that can't be controlled. I think i can speak for most men that if we can make that thing spray like a faucet in or on a girl, we would pick that option... sadly, the "container" is limited. The only meager form of control we have is to not empty that "container" for huge periods of time.

    I tried that once. 3 weeks, then i masturbated... and still not much. maybe there is a turn on factor. I told some women a while back that we all know that sperm is created in the millions by the second, but i think that production rate triples or quadruples if genuinely turned on.
    and i don't get turned on easy...

  • Its variable for me but a sure way to increase the amount greatly is to have proper foreplay and perhaps view some porn or something before then. It more or less builds up at that time and can be quite tricky to clean up depending on the situation.

    Otherwise different people produce different amounts and you can keep it very low with daily masturbation.

  • Among other things, the longer it has been since last cumming makes a difference. The longer since the last time, to a point, the more cum he will have. How sexually excited a guy is may have some influence on the amount of cum. When a guy is particularly sexually excited, it feels like his cum is more, as he feels the contractions stronger and longer, and it feels like more going through and out of him.

    • I see. Thanks for your input.

  • mostly it depends on how long it has been since I last had sex. But how long the sex lasts also seems to be a factor. Attractiveness of the girl doesn't really change anything, to my knowledge.

  • it can depend on how turned on you are but other factors come into play also like how long its been since last wank

    • Could it also be determined by how attracted to a partner you are if it's related to arousal or is it more bout how long you've been aroused for?

    • arousal plays a major part in it

    • @update i think attraction and arousal go hand in hand

  • Depends on when the last time you shot a load, how turned on you are when you cum. The older I get, the more I cum.

    • That's interesting. Why do you think age is a factor?

    • I'm not saying it's the same for every man, I'm just telling you that I have a lot more ejaculate than I've ever had

    • I see

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  • As a general rule, the longer the guy has gone without ejaculating the more volume he's gonna shoot when he does cum. And also, the longer the amount of time he stays at a high state of arousal without cumming the more he's gonna shoot. That's why "edging" usually produces more cum, and for me at least, the more cum I shoot the better the orgasm.

    • I see, good to know

  • Attraction: no
    Induvidual: yes
    Duration since last time: yes
    Nutrients in body: yes
    Duration beeing hard without cumming: maybe

    • 'Attraction - no, individual: yes' does that mean it depends on how much you like the person?

    • No. It just mean that the physiology is different for every person

    • I don't think attraction should matter at all

  • A lot of it is genetic, but it can be influenced by how long a guy hasn't ejaculated, how aroused he is, certain foods (zinc-heavy food for example increases the amount), hydration, etc.

    • I see, thanks for your input

  • Combination of how turned on I am and how long it has been since I last came. If I haven't had sex for a couple days and we do things during foreplay that turn me on a lot of, the I will cum more

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  • I think it depends on how many times you ejaculated plus the since when guy didn't emptied his load not much correlation in the size because a small sized penis man can ejaculate More than a large size but is a it may be a correlation that is size is large ही can come more due to his size but in that case large size of testicle (healthy) is also Needed.

    And about girl to girl I don't think a normal man can control amount of cum it requires lot of practice and kegal exercise.

  • Depends on how long it's been since the last time. And how much pressure has built up.

  • How horny you are... how long it’s been. How excited you are... the biggest load I have ever seen was when I put my girlfriend on the edge of the bed... kneeled on the ground and pushed her feet to her ears... I ate her out... so hot... just like noon on Sunday... I started jacking off... I came and could feel it was big. There was like a lake of cum on the floor. It was insane... I love giving oral and she's hot... skinny, perfect pussy... perfect asshole... that was also the second time I liked her asshole or anyone else’s... so that was new and hot... might have been the best orgasm I’ve ever had.

  • in my experience, i have a larger load the longer I hold off and hornier I am. If there is lots of foreplay and I constantly feel like I am ready to cum but hold it back, it will be larger. Same as when I masturbate. If i edge, the load is always huge

  • Edging of being edged a number of times generally increases my load!

  • When u last ejaculated. How turn on u are. How long the foreplay was

  • That main thing is how long you hold, the longer hold more cum. Like edging is the one which make us cum a lot.

  • It has to do with how long a guy hasn't ejacuted plus ! If a guy erects then every time he erects without ejaculating then more amount of semen is created and exists inside the body

  • Its about turned on and how much time it has been since youve had your last orgasm. PM me i would love to tell you more.

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