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Does sex value that much?

You see, I think I'm quite strange. I don't care much about sex/my virginity, like, it has to be perfect with the perfect guy, everything perfect. Nor do I get so worked up with the subject. I don't care about my virginity, at all. Because you see, sex is something that almost all animals do, something that's almost a call of nature (my opinion guys), so it's really a lot about the pleasure and tje feelings behind it. It's nothing like WOW!, it's just good (for most people). So I don't really care about the where and who, it just have to be with someone I like (just... Like. I don't have to love that person), because I may not care about my virginity but that doesn't mean I act like a slut. I care for responsibilities and respect. But what I value much more than sex, like waaaaay more, is a kiss. Yea, a kiss. I find a kiss to be so more... Private. Intimate. Something that it's not common in nature, it's almost a human's thing, and that truly is one of the acts that show our love for the other part. Not saying that you can't show your love with sex... But the kiss is more pure and... Unique, on that part, I believe. I never kissed or had sex, but I have a lotta more rules for the kiss part. So, which thing do you guys value the most?
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  • As you already said, sex is just another biological need, whereas kiss is a completely different story. It can be pure, lustful, decietful, loving, caring, cold it can be of myriad colors and as such is much more engaging than sex, not to say that it can't be engaging aswell, but with sex people become overwhelmed by physical satisfaction and most of the time forget about the emotional part. With that being said, i would like to say that i do have a girlfriend and our bond is stable, but emotionaly complicated to say at least and with whom i still hadn't had sex because i believe it would depersonalise our connection, whereas i do have a lot of friends with benefits who fill that need. Thank you for reading.

  • I value being. Being with a girl, the time spent. Whether it's kissing, cuddling or having sex it's just being together that means the most.
    I'm a details guy. For example, women often hate their morning look and how ugly they must be. But it's just not true. It's such an intimate moment, to see and share with them as they open their eyes, their sleepy look and yawns, the tousled hair and fresh skin. It's one of the most beautiful moments for me. I cherish those moments and being together, regardless of the act.
    by the way, don't have rules for kissing, just kiss and enjoy them for what they're worth. Some might be worth more than others, but that's how it should be.

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  • Sex does have value like any intimate act like hugging, kissing, and cuddling. etc. It's less valuable then trust in my opinion.

    • For me, the cuddling, and all is the after-sex part lol. When you can hug, and enjoy being together with your partner. Adorable. But, the sex part really, involves more hormones I would say lol

    • To me a hug is a hug and a kiss a kiss and sex is sex... they are different and feel differently. i bond more with a hug then i do with sex. but it is subjective and different for everyone i think. it comes down to your individual values. but it could be im the greatest hugger ever too.. lol

  • Is not how most people seeing it, sex considered to be an more serious thing then a kiss, and biology supports it, you can't get pregnant from a kiss, I believe. It's not about it being perfect, it's about not wasting it on the wrong person. Also why should a guy want a girl what had a lot of dicks on her?

    tvtropes.org/.../NatureAdoresAVirgin

  • Well you can have sex with anyone but a true love kiss can't be perfect without that unique person so yeah kissing is a human thing but if you combined kissing and sex well that will be amazing

    • Well, exactly. That's why I said responsibilities, I do care for that. The only rule I have (the only true rule I mean) it's to only have sex after my 21's. Because I feel that I don't before that age I'm not fully prepared for all the responsibilities that sex envolves. But I find a kiss to be way more meaningful, you know?

    • Yeah a kiss can make wonders

    • That's right! A true passionate kiss, that last minutes hahaha That's a goal for me lol

  • I have to agree in part I think sex is a way to show love as well but a kiss can be amazing, I have had some amazing intimate kisses over the years, some I feel were more intimate than sex.

  • Well it increases dopamine levels and is physically active

  • sex is important.

    virginity dnt think too much

    Perfect partner : u won't get

  • sex is one of the legs of the table. the others being trust, emotional connection and mutual goals in life in regards to the relationship.

    it´s part of the very important things in a relationship, therefore leaving it out or disregarding it will break it... there are always exceptions to every rule but i´d say for most people it won´t work long term without satisfying sex.

  • Sex is fun and you can make kids other than that it's just a thing you can do

  • I say that giving up virginity to the person you love is the best thing that can ever happen. It may not be valued by many but, it's a whole different level of compassion. Giving up yourself isn't an ordinary thing. It's a promise or a commitment! Hope I helped! ☺️

  • Ah, finally, someone who sees it exactly the same way as me. Almost word for word. Thought I was alone in thinking that

    • Hell yeah baby!!! High Five!!! O/

  • The personality

  • I'm the same way that's why everyone should always wear protection

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