What should I do? My boyfriend is asking me to wear thongs, and I really hate them?

Its been few days since my boyfriend is asking me to wear thongs but I really feel uncomfortable when I wear them now he is trying to force me to do wear it, what can I do so that he stops asking me to do it. Pls give your opinions and suggestions on this
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  • People have to understand that they can't have everything. Your boyfriend should respect your decision and the reason why you don't want to wear it.

    He should not force you to do anything you don't want to do. If he does then he's not a good person or a boyfriend.

    I'd usually expand my thought but I'm tired. I read the comment when you said he thinks it's sexy on you. It's not a valid reason to do force you to wear it. I'm sure there are other lingerie that is sexy to him and you. But it's ultimately up to you whether or not you want to wear it.

  • The best thing to do is to satisfy his wish and wear a thong and you know as well as I do it won't be on very long as he will want to take it off you and either bang you or eat you out.

    If you keep refusing him he just might go find another girl who will be more than happy to wear thongs for him and bang him at the same time.

    You have nothing to lose by satisfying him wanting you do do this at all.

    What should I do? My boyfriend is asking me to wear thongs, and I really hate them?

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  • Did your free will disappear? Don't wear them unless you absolutely want to, and clearly you don't. If you say to someone, "I am uncomfortable doing this or wearing this," and their answer is, do it anyway or they try and force you (what is he pulling them on up your legs while you sleep?), this is a major red flag. Next time he asks, tell him your reasons for the no, and say, that that is the end of the discussion because he needs to respect what you've just told him repeatedly.

  • Tell him NO. You don't like them. You don't want to. He knows you don't want to. HE can wear the damn thongs.

    I happen to prefer them as underwear myself, but it's your butt, and YOU have to be comfortable. Dressing you up in things you don't like does not improve your relationship or your sex life.

  • He shouldn't force u to do anything. If you really don't want to just tell him I really don't like them, they are really uncomfy and I am not wearing them!

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  • Is the discomfort physical or psychological?

  • You don't wear thongs? 😱

    Omfg, marry me! 🤗❤❤❤

    I think I'm one of the few crazy men that thinks thongs are less appealing to the eye than half-butt or full-but underwear like the ones to the right of this photo.

    Now seriously, ask him to wear thongs as well, butt plug him first if he asks for anal and kick him to the curb afterwards.

    • FUCK!!! you said it first.

    • Yeah, man. You could share some love (a virtual beer would be nice). 😏🍻

  • You chose your clothes. Not him.

    I hate Gstrings. Never wear them. No guy has ever dared comment on my undies.

  • Damn... i was gonna say ask him to wear one and see how he likes it. but @784456 and a couple other people beat me to it.

  • Tell him you don't like them and are not going to wear them.

  • Just put on the thong right before you have sex with him, you don't have to wear it for the whole day.

  • How the heck could you wear a thong with the full (overgrown) bush.

  • Wear whatever you like. Own your life.

    • +it's not like he is gonna dump you over some thongs, and if he does he is just an inconsiderate bastard.

  • He shouldn't force you. Let him know that he might find it sexy, but you being made to do it is a turn off and you wouldn't enjoy it, so it isn't as though he'd get sex out of it.

    However, maybe agree to wear it for sexual situations at least.

  • First World problems

  • Girl if you don’t want to wear them then don’t, he can’t force them you

    • He says ul look s*x* and forces me , wt to do?

    • Put your foot down and say no, you have your own rights to not wear what you don’t wear and he has to deal with it

  • It's your body, your ass that's covered. The only questions I'd have, is do you not wear them because they are uncomfortable, or just because you don't like the idea of them.

    • I just dont feel comfortable

    • Uncomfortable is all the reason you need to not wear them. Tongue in cheek, have him wear some thong underwear for a couple of weeks, and see if that changes his opinion. But it could backfire, and he say he likes it. So just go with uncomfortable is goo reason not to.

  • If he really loves you he would listen and understand if you talk to him directly that you don't like them at all and feel uncomfortable with it. If he loves you he wouldn't want you to be uncomfortable. He would care more about your wellbeing than about what to wear and for him you would look sexy no matter what you're wearing

  • Tell him you don't want to, you're uncomfortable, and if he really keeps pushing it, not sure what you're doing with him tbh.

  • Not wearing underwear at all seems like a good compromise.

  • If u don't like, don't wear them. You don't have to do that just because ur boyfriend asked u to. Just tell him u fell uncomfortable

  • And this is a problem... like seriously? He can't force you to do anything you don’t like. You need to get your shit together

  • If you don't like them don't wear them. End of story.
    Maybe you can compromise. Don't wear them as your functional underwear but as a treat maybe you can occasionally model some around the house just for his eyes, maybe as part of foreplay. But if you don't like them don't live your day to day life wearing these things.

    Are you against wearing your normal underwear but just from time to time wearing some in front of him while you are alone?

  • "I'll wear a thong if you do hun~"

    That's what I'd say.
    Then I'd dump him for trying to tell me what to wear.

  • Why dont you like wearing thongs?

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