Many questions! I am a virgin and I am soon going to have sex with my girlfriend but I am nervous? Please answer my questions?

[Anonymous]

I am 19 (lied about my age when creating acc ) years old and she is 18.
She is my first girlfriend and we are together since 5 months and i feel ready for sex now.
She had 6 guys before me, 2 bfs and 4 fwbs. She dislike the past with the 4 fwbs and she calls it her "slut phase". She enjoyed it but would liked it more if there were feelings involved.

She is always horny and wants me but till now i didn't felt ready for sexual contact so we didn't even had oral sex.

Now i want to have sex with her.

I have a few questions i want to know the answer to. Sorry if its strange

1. During sex, with light or without?
2. Condoms, put it on before oral or after? We are both clean. Which is better to do?
3. Condoms, where and when to put them away after cuming inside them?
4. How fast is sex actually?
5. How far away from reality is porn?
6. How to change positions? How to communicate it during sex?
7. I love to cuddle, can i do it right after having sex with het or does sth else happens after sex?
8. How to be her best lover she ever had?
9. Will she compare me, my dick, my performance to her previous partners?
10. Will she think about other guys during sex?
11. What if i come to quick? Should i focus on performing oral sex on her?
12. Is 5 inches enough for an experienced girl?
13. How does sex actually work like? Like in porn or not?

This is all for now.
My biggest fear is being compared and this makes me nervous. How can i overcome it? I want to be the one and only guy she wants and thinks about sexually and romantically. I want to be het best so thst she never will, ü look back at her previous sex positively.

Thanks for answering my questions.

Your 19 year old virgin who is too nervous for sex and ask lots of stupid questions ~~😗

[JulieXO]

1. Both are good. I think with the light on its hotter but with it off it's more intimate.
2. After oral. Sucking on latex is nasty.
3. You tie it so that the cum doesn't go out, wrap in tissues or something and throw it in the bin.
4. That's entirely on you. I've had both 5 minutes and 2 hours.
5. It's completely different, especially since it's your first time having sex.
6. While being in the first position, you ask her if she wants to change it. She'll say yes, you take your dingaling out, flip her over and continue.
7. I prefer to go to the bathroom and shower first.
8. Honestly, you won't be the best the first time. You need to pay attention to what she likes and you might become the best in time.
9. Yes, she will. At least I've done it every time.
10. If she loves you or at least really likes you, she won't.
11. If you're really worried, masturbate beforehand so you're not as horny. Oral is good, but it doesn't make up for premature ejaculation.
12. The size she likes/needs doesn't really have anything to do with her experience.
13. It's not like porn. It's different for everyone, but it usually starts with some making out and feeling up. You take each other's clothes off. You move on to some hand and oral action, and then you seal the deal.

Hope this helps

[NoOneIsKillingMe]

1. Most like lights off... I like them on.
2. Don't use a condom.
3. If you're both clean don't use condom.
4. It will be very fast your first time,, most likely. Don't feel bad. Normal is about 20-30 minutes. But it's not just straight fucking. It's also licking and touching.
5. Depends on the girl really
6. Be the man, move her where you want her...
7. Perfect time to cuddle is right after, even with your dick getting softer inside her.
8. Lick a lot! Rub her g spot. Alternate between g spot and her clit while fingering/rubbing her.
9. Not your dick unless you bring it up. Your performance... Of course, she's only human.
10. Very unlikely
11. Yes yes yes
12. Yes, especially in certain positions... Can make it feel deep and huge.
13. Nope. There are more periods of slow sucking and licking... Talking, sharing fantasies, etc. It's not all hardcore all the time. And if you try to make it like that, you're going to fail.

[yougurt]

Don't use a condom? What kind of advice is that? Very immature. You should learn how babies are made.

[NoOneIsKillingMe]

I know exactly how they're made. I have two of them. It's A MUCH better experience for the man of the girl is on birth control and condoms are not used. Condoms ruin sex for men.

[yougurt]

The man and the woman should share the responsibility. If they're married, an accidental baby is no big deal, but this guy is 19 and has been dating for 5 months. Both people should take precautions.

[NoOneIsKillingMe]

Condoms ruin sex for men.

[yougurt]

And teen pregnancy ruins life for girls.

[TheCrazyBoy]

During sex lights on
Tie the condom and simply throw it or on the toilet (for full disappearance) or in the trash
You should put the condom after oral
Speed on sex depends
You don't communicate to change position you just do and when you need her to sit up simply tell her
Cuddle right after and see her reaction
To be the best just don't rush it let your passion move you
Of course she will compare you but if she really loves you she will just ignore it
You should have more foreplay for longer sex period
5 inch is ok the pleasure sensors are easy to reach even with 1 inch
It is more like cuddling with you penis outs and then advances to wrestling
You will find out all the answers soon
Good luck and make sure to first of all have fun.

[disgustingweebtrash]

Don't be nervous

[eXtremeAkim]

Look, if she is more experienced than you, let her handle it all. Don't be afraid to tell her that you don't know how to etc. Just do what she tells you to, and decide if u like it or not