Guys, if your girl stopped making noises during sex, would it bother you?

[Allie_Oops]

This is assuming she is still just as into it, but she's as silent as you are.


I have to know why men need us to make noise yet they're always 'hush hush' in bed. I've always been a loud partner but one time when I was with my ex (then boyfriend) I didn't make any noise. Wasn't sure why, it wasn't on purpose, but he said it was a turn off and ruined it. But it doesn't bother me if HE doesn't make any noise.


Like... why? What is it about women sighing and moaning that it's almost a must in sex for guys yet you guys don't seem to do it and women don't mind?

[satyanadella]

depends on your partner... i for instance just want her to show that she's interested and really wants me... i don't care what method she uses... it could be for example her hands running all over my body or hair or something like eye contact or a cute smile or occasional kisses or short deep breaths... anything... and i u r in love that is one of the best times to say it !!
yeah if your man sees the noise as a sign of interest don't just force it out... he'll most probably figure it out wrong that you're not actually interested and just pretending to be... that'll be an even bigger turnoff
just do other stuff to convince him that you're really into him and want him...
and yeah... being a little aggressive is totally cool and such a turn on to be honest... hope this helps !!

[Chofny]

It's because you are a female. You are attractive in multiple ways and when we try... to pleasure you and you moan it gives us more reasons to perform better until we die. If you are still while doing it it's like banging a body. Your voice does much with us. For example when we do doggy and we can't see your face your voice reminds us of who you are and why we are doing it with you.

[Dangerous247]

Conditioning.
People usually have this thought in their head on how sex is supposed to be especially if they've watched porn beforehand.
Women moan, men more or less sigh. The moment each partner you can emancipate themselves from this school of thought and enjoy the very act for what it is, we'll be fine.

[CeCe94]

I find it such a turn on when the guy makes noise. And I'm always ridiculously noisy, I can't help it 😂 I feel like I should tone it down but when I get lost in the moment there's no stopping me.

[truthbeknown]

That is fine. Moaning non-stop can get annoying.

[lsd15]

If i dont know that girl enough to know that she is still enjoying it.. it would freak me out.. but if she is still having pleasure and can get to climax.. i would be okay with that :)

[TommyDv]

Have you seen those Asian women in porn? Sounds like someone is skinning them alive, hate those sounds. No qualms about being silent personally, but always hated those crying whining and screaming types.

[HungLikeAHorsefly]

Yes. That's when you know to ease up on the belt you have wrapped around her neck.

[winterfox10]

Yes. I would woner if I was actually pleasuring her.

[genericname85]

if she made noises before, i'd wonder what's wrong.

for us it's kind of a benchmark of how good we're doing. if she's silent, we assume she must not enjoy what we do.

[hellacray]

in my opinion sounds make up at least 50% of porn. Who the hell wants to watch porn with no sound?

So there you go.

[sp33d]

I'm not a hush hush in bed. Try as hard as you can, you will be screaming eventually ;)

[whatarewedoinghere]

No it wouldn't bother me then I just have to try to figure out how to make her stop talking and maybe I can get the trifecta of you know being seen not heard from her

[madmonkey1968]

If she didn't make noises in the first place then that's ok but to make noises then suddenly stop I think I would feel like I was doing something wrong and maybe she's not enjoying it as much

[Modu1234]

Because if you dont make noise hell think ur not much interested in it n hell also feel sad and if make some noise it feels more interesting and tge boy charges n then tgat sex is really awesome

[sri90]

Nothing like that, but if she moans it will be more fun and turn on for guys... it's encouraging for guys

[neveradavid]

Absolutely

[CT_CD]

No. I would prefer if she never made noise

[omda-aden]

i hate silence when she moans it turns me on and makes me more horny

about men why are the always silent i think it's because it dosn't matter for women if he makes noise or not

[rayhere]

Moaning is a reflex. If one dsnt have it from first, it might be that her voccal chord is irresponsive to sex. If she used to but recently she haven't then:
1. Check for her other affairs.
2. Consult a doctor for your errection issues.
3. U cum early.
4. She needs it hard and deep.
5. She doesnot get excited any more being with you. U simply dont turn her on amymore.
6. She is stressed. Give her some time.
If my opinion was helpful, give me an upvote

[hsshannah96]

What’s interesting is that if it goes hard and deep the G spot isn’t getting hit as well but yet when the first guy I dated did not go hard and deep I didn’t feel much. It was whatever.

[brennanhuff]

If that's the case, then it should be a reflect for dudes and she brought up how guys are silent for her

[ValiantMD]

It's sorta like an ego booster for us when we hear you. My lover has also raised this issue to me and I did try to be more vocal since she says it turns her on. She did have a minor insight as to why when we watched some porn together and the guy was grunting and making noises, her face crinkled in disgust and said he sounded like he was digging a canal... Hahaha I just laughed and asked her what she would do if I sounded like that, she told me she's stuff her panties into my mouth.

[masterkamasutra]

mute girls are boring.

[Chubcheck]

I make them remain quiet any way.

[StallionDuck]

Something about hearing that your doing well is a turn on for most men, if she's quite most guys assume that it means they're doing a shifty job and they get turned off