Why are men praised for their sexual conquests and women shamed for ours?

Why do guys get high fives and "hell yeah bro" when they add another chick to their sex list, but girls are just easy or slutty when it comes to adding another guy to ours...
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Because it takes effort and skill for a guy to sleep with a girl.

    A girl getting to have sex with a guy requires almost no skill. It just requires that she have the courage to ask.

    Many experiments have been done on this. A girl walks up to a random guy and says "Will you have sex with me?" Pretty much every single guy says yes. The reverse is not true.

    So why should we praise women for doing something which comes incredibly easy to them?

    We praise them for landing a guy into commitment like marriage, by celebrating her on her Wedding Day. THAT took some serious effort and skill, usually.

    • So let me add this twist. If it's so hard for a man to get laid and he sleeps with the girl who always says yes, is it still a conquest won or is he just the pathetic one to go to someone he know won't turn him down.

    • No dude gets praised for hitting a slump buster, anymore than he'd get praised for sleeping with the girl he's been dating for 5 years. That's just.. wow, you did what was entirely expected, what do you want, a cookie? It's not pathetic. It's not praise worthy.

    • I'm just pointing out there's different ways but could go.. it's not just as straight forward as you guys try to make it out to be

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  • Women don't high five men for sleeping with lots of girls, and they don't high five men who are still virgins either. But they will high five a badass if they think he's good with women and knows how to please them.

    Both men and women will shame women for sleeping around. Though a woman will want it to be okay when she's ready to do it, even though she called the other girls sluts first.

Most Helpful Girls

  • There not we shame them just as much they shame up that's why we have words like fuckboy player and dog then for girls we have thot slut and hoe

  • Men and women are like locks and keys. A key that can unlock any lock is very valuable. A lock that can be unlocked by any key is not.

  • Society and what women are expected to conform to. It's taken me many years to realize I'm going to do me.

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  • Not sure this is precise. Men are praised in male circles, and only when in the act of social interaction between them. Many of us (men) who are not womanizers don't regard these as idols or row models, but more like unfair competition and destructors of male reputation over seduction and relationships.

    That praise in social circles is not fuelled by our will to become like them, but by the social pressure of the alpha/beta/omega male status and our desire to have a prominent position in the herd. Does this sound too primal? Well, afterall sexuality is a primal instinct.

    Also don't forget that not only men, but also women (often even more harshly) are very critic and opinionating regarding women who have multiple sex partners, or have a promiscuous (by relative moral standards) life style.

  • Because society is stupid. Its a shame

  • I have not witnessed the "Hell yeah bro" that you mentioned. I think that adding to the number just for the purpose of enjoying recreational sex or for simply boosting the number makes a guy or a girl a slut.

  • It’s true guys get high fives as you pull her out of the guys bathroom lol. Women get slut shamed because the mainstream thinking is “She’s a hot girl, she can get sex whenever she wants.” Because guys are drawn to the visuals so if a girl wants to pimp up her list everyone thinks it’s easy and will shame you for it. You PC Bro?

  • Because how their peers perceive them.

  • Noone is shaming you, noone cares.
    Its just you playing the role of victim same as the guys playing the role of a stud.
    Man manifest their problems or bad thing like "yeah I wanted that, I am the man"
    But women manifest it like "oh no what will someone say" and the act ashamed so people speak of her as that

  • we aren't all like that and personally i like 'slutty' girls

    • Yes you are

    • @Purplexxxx mate i dont give a shit. you believe what you want but dont tell me what i think

  • Because society sucks.

  • Sexual economics: journals.sagepub.com/.../s15327957pspr0804_2

    Essentially it comes down to supply and demand. Men have the demand, women the supply. Men fight for women, women pick which men (according to their own level of biological value). Aka men do need to put much more effort into dating than women. The average woman can get laid pretty easily, the average man not.

    To give you an example how it went over the centuries: We have only half the amount of male ancestors than we have female ancestors. That essentially means every second man impregnated two women while half the male population was left out.

  • there's always been a cultural outlook on women where both men and women believe women to naturally be/supposed to be the more innocent, kinder, reserved, and cleaner gender while the male is the more aggressive/rude, open, dominate, and dirty gender... its how it has always been since the dawn of mankind. Welcome to the reality check, everything will never be identical for both genders.

  • Lol it's your choice if you feel bad about your sexual accomplishment. People will always disagree with you. There's no thing in this world that everyone agrees with. So if you're proud of the sexual stuff you did, why would you care if some people try to shame you for it? It's not their life or their decision.

    • If someone shames me for something I liked doing, I'll be like "fuck you, I enjoyed it and I'll do it again".

  • I've heard enough of this. The only guys who slut shame are those who either can't or refuse to get any to begin with.

    The rest is what you chicks say amongst yourselves to discourage each other from becoming successful with guys. It's basically a hypocritical competition tactic.

  • I don't care. And I've never been shamed for anything by anyone.

    • Yes you have

    • @Purplexxxx yeah right

  • Sexual conquest is shameful for women to do. It makes you look not only like a literal whore, but also an attention whore.

    Yet it is far more shameful for a man, who ought to be the protector and willing servant of his wife, to use a woman in order to get the praise of his colleagues, who themselves are even more shameful for encouraging the enslavement of women to the lusts of men.

    • Very great answer!

  • Praised hahaha? I hate fucbois... bc they fk it up for men wanting more then just a hookup

  • Because women find it desirable for a man to be experienced for sex and relationships while men don't care if a woman is experienced sexually when it comes to relationships but do when it comes to marraige. Plus it's very easy for a chick to sleep with a load of guys even if she is not exactly great looking but extremely difficult for a guy to sleep with a load of chicks, so a guy sleeping with a load of chicks is more of an accomplishment. PS women do nearly all of the slut shaming.

    Why are men praised for their sexual conquests and women shamed for ours?Why are men praised for their sexual conquests and women shamed for ours?
  • Guys get high fives? Never heard of that... I see them as fuckboys... As every other person on this earth... You're obviously delusional. When I hear guys bragging especially in my age I honestly just say "Did I fucking ask? No I didn't so shut the fuck up"

  • Because men are different than women. We are not equal or the same.

  • That's all women's fault to be honest, not all of them of course, but if you think about it, women are becoming easier and easier to get, they don't value themselves anymore and they are spreading their legs to any guy they find attractive, therefore men are taking that as an advantage to get as much pussy as possible and they're happy with women being so dumb, so they don't really care anymore and they see women as toys or sluts you have to work a little bit hard to earn. And yes those women will be shamed because what they're doing is wrong, throwing your body from guy to guy just shows how easily manipulated you are and how low of self-control you have

    • Well i see you clearly are using failed logic here.

    • Tell me where was i wrong? Also i didn't generalize

    • you're basically saying this. Women who sleep with men are dumb (illogical way of thinking) , lack self control (obviously its a concious choice) , they spread their legs to anyone they find attractive (which is bullshit) and should be shamed for it...(which shows how clearly you hold women at a significantly higher standard than a guy for no real reason. We are all human, it should be an even level.)

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  • Because women can't take responsibility for anything and are always victims.. That's why. You're welcome sunshine.

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