Because some really do.
Factor for this can be psychological or physical. For the first, the visual pleasure of a well equipped man which their primal instinct might identify unintentionally with fertility, and on a more down to earth plane, with pleasure.
And with this comes the second: vaginas are not all the same, as much as penises differ in shapes and sizes. And some vaginas feel more pleasure with bigger penises, and some feel pain. And many don't feel that much pleasure at all if the clit is not stimulated too.
Often is a combination of both, plus the social pressure put upon this matter to men regarding their virility, and to women regarding the perfect sex partner.
I think that in general terms size really matters drastically when the penis is way too small to penetrate the vagina, such as with the condition called micropenis. Huge penises can be hurtful with many women but that can be worked around if you know how to use your tool.
If you are a woman and you are going to tell me you don’t care, that just means you never had a huge one or given the opportunity to get hooked on it because they do. Even if they have to hurt some to take it in they will do it instinctively because having a huge one in them is as much bragging rights to her as it is to the guy it is attached to. And besides they get off easier with a glans stretching her vagina a little and stimulating the whole thing. I have been told “I love feeling it all the way in me”. of course some women can only get off orally and they almost always have extra small clits
I personally don't think size really matters. Unless it is ridiculously too small. But I completely disagree with getting little pleasure from having a penis in my vagina. I actually enjoy penetration more than oral sex. Sometimes I just love the feeling of having a penis inside my vagina. We are all different! Don't assume that just because you don't get enough pleasure, it means every girl is the same.
Because we do. We don't have as unrealistic expectations as they think we do, but we do care. I do anyway. I love getting pounded, and plain and simple a tiny 3" peepee is not going to satisfy me. You don't have to have an 8" cock, but average or a bit more or less is doable.
What if a guy does only have a 3-incher? What can he do to satisfy her?
because a minority of women do care, because of porn, insecurity, bravado and competition and there is a lot of pleasure for me when I guy enters me so don't assume most women get little from penetration
Great answer. You summed up everything and thanks for pointing out her mistake of thinking that what gets her off is universal.
@Thread02 thanks 😊
I don't know what kind of sex you are having but penetration does way more for me than oral sex. And most women do care about penis size.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Because women do care about it. Now porn has really messed things up and given people a whole lot of unreal expectations. Even still, size matters. Even if you like an average sized penis, that's your preference right? Some guy that is 9 inches and thick is uncomfortable to you. So it matters for you to be with someone who is a bit smaller.
I've seen a lot of guys asking questions about penis size to girls here. Is seem like to general consensus is that they dont care as long as the wanga isn't on either end of the spectrum <4 or >13
With the upper end being dictated by what will fit.
I'm also not sure if you speak for all woman kind with your oral over penetrative.
I know that there are girls out there that arnt able to enjoy penetrative sex but that is not the magority at all.
Please don't be offended
Personnally all girls I sleep with are able to achieve orgasm frankly multiple times and they all prefer penetrative sex to oral. This isn't an advert im just saying these are two different experiences.
Its just the porno industry that has put the notion in heads of the guys and its just insecurity which triggers the worrying.
While I agree we care far less about penis size than guys do, Speak for yourself on the rest of it. Lol.
Well, guys are competitive amongst other men. There’s a lot of things that they concern themselves over because they think it makes them more masculine and desirable. There’s a lot of useless things that men do that make them feel they’re on top of the “Alpha Totem Pole.” Things like fighting, arm wrestling, who has the biggest cock, etc. Even guys hazing and humiliating each other is related to all of this. Guys saying to their bros, “you have small hands,” or “she’s out of your League man.” Meanwhile, girls in the background are like 😐😐😑
Actually be cause it does... if it's very small or very big.
The DUMBEST Reply is "Size doesn't matter".
The Problem is girls give dumb/Non specific/sarcastic replies on here to those questions. If the girls where honest and actually "thought" before they commented it would be Helpful for those guys that are worried.
1. It's our main insecurity, we are taught/teased about the size of our "man-hood" From a very young age.
2. A good amount of guys want to satisfy/pleasure the girl they are with.
It's actually more important/relevant then all the questions girls ask about boob/ass size, how their lips look that girls ask.
How much pleasure a woman gets from prnetration sex is very individual but it's true many women don't get most pleasure from that act. The main reason men are insecure about small penises is because it's part of manculture to think bigger penis equals more pleasure, which of course is true in some cases but far from all.
I don't enjoy small ones and I also don't really big ones (more than seven inches). I prefer average size ones as they don't hurt.
What would you consider small?
Probably because women are always talking about it among themselves.
It is a stereotype somewhat based on truth on average, that white guys have bigger ones than Asian guys. Shortly after I started dating this Indonesian girl, she introduced me to her gaggle of friends. They were all very happy for her and a bit jealous. One of the friends asked her (they were speaking in Indonesian) "Is he really big like they say?" And she said, "oh, yes!" and so on. The friends didn't know that I could mostly understand them.
"That's why women don't really cum when they have sex in that manner."
That is just you. Most women I have sex with orgasm during penetration. Some do it every time. Most most of the time. A few only sometimes. I can't think of anyone I've slept with more than a four or five times who didn't orgasm with penetration. I understand how believing all women don't respond the way you do makes you feel better, but it isn't true.
I will add that my Indonesian girlfriend didn't have any other penis to compare to, as she was a virgin when we met and had never done anything sexual before. But she wanted her friends to know all about it. The point being.. the women are the ones who are talking about ti.
That depends tho some women do care for the size as they do prefer sex over oral not discrediting what you said just that it's not as simple as you put it
Enough women care that they like sex with certain races of men and fly out the country for it.
Women care like us men care about your boobs. Not everyone cares about boobs or penis size, but most do and it's ok
True, most of the girls I've been with can't handle mine, and mist of the time oral please is what I preffer, maybe cuz I like giving oral to a girl...
Because usually as an insult girls always mention penis size when arguing with a man. You never hear a guy call a woman small pussy, or baby pussy.
Because we do care..
*snickers* If you don't enjoy coitus, you're doing it wrong.
Imma have to disagree witchu because yeah getting some oral s nice but sometimes I just want DICK. I wanna feel it go in and out and penetrate and make me moan. Lemme quote my grandmother "Sometimes we need a little more dicky and less licky"
It's the same as asking why do girls think guys care about boobs or butt size lol. The majority of girls feel a lot of pleasure during intercourse by the way
cause you DO! Given it's not the only thing you care about.
So women don;t enjoy sex? I thought they did more than men... now I am confused
Please don't tell my girlfriend that she shouldn't get pleasure in vaginal penis penetration!!!
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