Do I need big ass or boobs to get to date a guy who has a body like this?
Anonymous
Seems those guys always go for girls who have big asses or tits.
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Anonymous
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Listen here now girl you don’t “need” to have ANYTHING to date a guy like that. Hear me out when I say that accepting yourself, loving yourself and being confident can get you guys you thought you could never have, no matter how you look. I have a friend who isn’t the skinniest, goes to parties in hoodies and still she’s the one getting most of the attention from guys, leaving every girl speechless. Why? Cause she’s confident as fuck and she learned to love every single imperfection of herself. This might not be the answer you were looking for, but remember, who are they to tell you you’re not good enough for someone? Also, people are different, some like small boobs some like big ones, but I think at the end of the day looks are really something to catch your attention first, cause if your personality isn’t on point, you can have the biggest titties, you won’t be going on a lot of dates. Love yourself, girl
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Anon-ymous1
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Uhh... right.
SLSYW15Xper 6
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You need a good-natured heart and soul and manners to get those kinds of men. But you only need to be a little hot. Not like the girls from night clubs.:)
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himevenusXper 5
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No, you don't. A lot of these guys dig petite or skinny girls. A lot love small boobs and a small butt, banana shaped figure, etc.
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himevenus
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Many guys like this hit on me. XD
MrMysteryMan
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It's also your gorgeous eyes!
MrMysteryMan
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Yes we love girls we can throw around... ;)
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himevenus
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Anon-ymous1Editor
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"Big" ass? No, you need a tight, well-shaped, toned ass. Big asses are bullshit, and the guys who like them are betas. You need to be fit to get a guy like that, since he's fit too. Your tits don't need to be big, again they just need to be shapely and well-formed. What do you look like?
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OpinionatedChapXper 3
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If you're genuinely asking: yes.
If you're saying that it's somehow wrong like many people do, you are going for a ripped guy yourself. Just because they want a homonculus with a huge behind instead of a ripped guy doesn't mean you're any better.
it depends, lots of guys like different things. this guy could like petite girls, or just ass or just boobs or whatever
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himevenus
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He could be into very fat women too.
i_am_shyvana
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@himevenus that too i have a friend whos into fat women
Anon-ymous1
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Most of us want petite girls.
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i_am_shyvana
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@Anon-ymous1 eh i beg to differ, i hang out with a lot of guys and one of them has a crush on ariana grande, and i told him she was like 5'2" or something and i kid you not he said "OH MY GOD THATS WAY TO SHORT I DONT EVEN KNOW IF I STILL LIKE HER" and then there is the thing about her completely breaking during sex and stuff and a lot of my guy friends dont like petite girls
Anon-ymous1
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Lol a lot of them are either 1) joking with you, or 2) refer back to 1.
i_am_shyvana
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@Anon-ymous1 wheres ur evidence that most guys like petite girls? also they r most definitely not joking lol
himevenus
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No one breaks during sex unless you have glass bone disease.
himevenus
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For the record, guys were over me when I was thin, when I was athletic, when I was curvy and even when I was suffering severe depression. But the tastes are different and that's good!
i_am_shyvana
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@himevenus lol fair enough, but as a girl, if i had to pick a girl i would pick a sturdy one that doesn't look like she's made out of twigs but again thats just me I don't know about anyone else
himevenus
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That's totally fine :)
himevenus
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I'm currently into boyish girls lol.
i_am_shyvana
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@himevenus lol im straight but if i were a lesbian i would definitely be into boyish girls, is it weird to know that for sure?
Anon-ymous1
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Lol girls aren't "made of twigs" or some crap like that. Stop listening to Meghan Trainor songs. You're seriously asking a guy about what guys like? Or saying you know better? Would you pay attention to me if I started telling you more about what girls actually like, like I know better than you or something? You're joking right?
himevenus
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Just check out Katrin Ratto or Ylenia Riniti. ❤
i_am_shyvana
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@Anon-ymous1 k first of all ANALOGIES, when i say twigs i mean she just has no visible muscle or fat and it looks like you can break her leg by just kicking her. and im simply questioning your logic, because most of my friends are guys and most of them dont like petite girls. they date girls who are not petite.
i_am_shyvana
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@himevenus those would be the kind of women i would date
Anon-ymous1
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Would you like to know why they don't date petite girls? I can tell you if you'd like.
i_am_shyvana
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@Anon-ymous1 sure
himevenus
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My guy friends are into all kinds of girls. Some love petite girls like Emily Browning or Ariana Grande, one is exclusively into BBW women, especially japanese girls.
i_am_shyvana
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@himevenus exactly my point so many guys are into different things
Anon-ymous1
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Sigh... never mind. Sure, tastes differ, but we're talking about majorities here. Just like you CAN FIND people who are like, I dunno turned on or made horny or whatever if their crush were to literally vomit on them. I'm betting you could find people like that. But you can't then point to that and say "lots of people like to be vomited on." Noooo, SOME people like that. It's definitely not the norm.
Your guy friends who don't "go after" petite girls? Most of them (sure, not all, but most) do not actually *prefer* heavier girls. They get with heavier girls because they themselves feel under-confident or chubby themselves, and they feel like they'd never get a hottie. But if some girl who looked like this www.usmessageboard.com/.../
straight up came up to them and propositioned them like "hey I noticed you across the bar, how's it going? I wanted to buy you a drink," or she wanted to kiss them, you really think any one of them would turn her down? Uh no. They'd do it in heartbeat.
i_am_shyvana
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@Anon-ymous1 that would mean they are not loyal to whoever they like. im not exactly petite, im 5'6" and i like to go to the gym and build muscle and i play basketball, baseball, and i box. more than one person call me thick and stuff, and then there have been more than 5 people who ask me to dance and who tell me they like me. and the majority of my friends are guys, and the majority of them dont like petite. my brother does not like petite. and scientifically, the most attractive woman will have some meat on her, and have a 0.7 waist to hip ratio. yes, that girl is pretty and yes, i feel like someone whos single would kiss her in a heartbeat, but if a girl who looked like sommer ray (look up pics if u dont know who she is) asked that guy out, i dont think he would reject as well, and sommer ray is not petite, nor is she short or anything like that
himevenus
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Petite has nothing to do with height but with body frame. So you could be petite too :)
himevenus
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Sommer is not fat. She's athletic.
Anon-ymous1
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I just looked her up... She is also a model, like there's barely a difference between her and the girl I posted. Of course we wouldn't turn her down either-- she's fit. Which is the point. And no, her body frame is also definitely petite, the only thing that is really stopping her is she is 5'6", but that's still not TALL, like it's very average. Lol I dunno man you kind of are comparing a girl that looks exactly like the girl I posted too, like again there's barely a difference. Sommer's ass is a bit bigger, but the point is that it is *toned* and shapely and well-formed and fit.
i_am_shyvana
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@himevenus of course she's not fat lol but she's definitely not petite and she is SO STRONG i admire her and its all natural and all that stuff but in my mind petite means meek looking, and short of course like under 5'4" and not much curve
himevenus
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I'm 5'7 and petite :D
i_am_shyvana
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@himevenus well, im pretty sure girls or guys (whichever way u swing or if ur bi) will be going after u so guuuurl rock it
himevenus
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You too!
i_am_shyvana
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@himevenus thx:)
himevenus
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Girl Positivity yas.
i_am_shyvana
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@himevenus ikr every girl is beautiful
Anon-ymous1
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@i_am_shyvana Sigh. Sure. Anyway, good luck out there.
i_am_shyvana
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@Anon-ymous1 bruh what kind of girl is gonna go for u if you think with ur dick?
Anon-ymous1
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@i_am_shyvana Huh? If you want sex with someone, is that thinking with your pussy or your ovaries or something? Like what does that even mean? Lol I want to have sex with pretty girls, same as you probably want to have sex with handsome guys, which is really, really normal. But hey don't you dare think with your pussy! Haha I don't know what you mean.
i_am_shyvana
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@Anon-ymous1 lol touché can't argue with that but i mean if any guy wants to be in a relationship with a girl it should be becuz of personality
Anon-ymous1
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Sure, but we aren't talking about relationships here are we? I thought this was purely a discussion about what is hot, what is not, and wanting to fuck someone. Like OP's post is asking how she can get a hot guy like that. Lol that has nothing to do with asking a relationship question.
i_am_shyvana
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@Anon-ymous1 thats true also but i said every girl is beautiful and u were like "hahahaha u wish" i laughed but i mean every girl is still beautiful
Anon-ymous1
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Okay. Are all boys handsome? Every single one?
i_am_shyvana
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@Anon-ymous1 personally i prefer cute/pretty guys over handsome or hot or whatever, so let me rephrase the previous statement: there is always at least one guy that will love any girl, which in my mind is the same as stating that all girls r beautiful. vise versa, there is always at least one girl that will love any guy
Anon-ymous1
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Maybe. That's very generous of you. But yeah it's true to a point I suppose; there's someone out there for everyone is the point you're making, right? I wouldn't say that makes someone beautiful in an objective sense, but definitely in a subjective sense. If that's your point, then sure, anyone can be beautiful in a way.
i_am_shyvana
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@Anon-ymous1 yea but also i hate people who call other people ugly (unless its an ugly personality)
i_am_shyvana
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so i prefer to say that everyone is beautiful
Anon-ymous1
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Sure, but acknowledging that someone isn't attractive enough to be a model or isn't an 8 or 9 or 10 doesn't mean that we should call them "ugly." Their self-image is up to them to craft, and it's hard out here for people to love themselves sometimes. No sense in putting them down, unless yeah they have an ugly mean personality I guess. I would never call someone ugly to their face, I just would avoid saying that they're cute or attractive if they're not. It's not the same thing.
i_am_shyvana
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@Anon-ymous1 well i can't say u r wrong by doing so of course i mean why would u call someone a 10 if theyre not in your eyes, but what im saying is that they r a 10 in the eyes of someone else. no one is beautiful to everyone, its just a fact
Anon-ymous1
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Sure but there are people who are considered objectively attractive, like the girls we posted, Sommer Ray and the other one. Being objectively attractive is okay, you know. Studies on human attraction have been done for a long time, and they have consistent results. Symmetry is attractive, fitness is attractive, slimness is attractive. And that's all perfectly fine and there's nothing wrong with it, it's normal and natural. Is there any single person alive that literally every single other person of the opposite sex in the entire planet would all agree "yes they're hot?" No, of course not. But there are people that MOST people, millions upon millions upon millions, would all agree are hot. And also people that most people would agree are not. It's harsh, but that's life. Humans are animals.
i_am_shyvana
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@Anon-ymous1 i dont exactly know what pansexual is but i heard its the most open of the sexualities but yes, what u said is entirely true
Anon-ymous1
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Fair enough. Good luck out there.
i_am_shyvana
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@Anon-ymous1 why thank you, and best of luck to u too
MrMysteryManGuru
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Not necessarily. There are guys that take care of themselves who want more out of a woman than just looks. Show them your immense personality and humour and sensuality, and a guy looks at more of your overall benefit than just your looks.
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summiterMaster
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No just be yourself and if he does not like it then move on.
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Asker
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But all those fit guys care is ass and tits
summiter
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I am not as hot as the guys in your picture but I have an excellent body and workout everyday. I like a girl for who and what she is. It is not all about ass and tits. I want one with a nice smile and one who enjoys sex as much as I do.
Asker
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Yeah but u also want her to have fit figure
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summiter
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Yes I like a girl to be fit. But she does not need to have big boobs or a big ass. As long as she takes care of her body.
Guxci_28_03Explorer
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He Looks Gay
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sophia141Xper 4
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Looks aren’t everything so neither
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contemplatorXper 4
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Every guy is different. Some want more cushion for pushing. I like small tits and a small butt.
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Anon-ymous1
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Most guys who like "cushion for the pushing" *gags* are chubby themselves or have lower confidence and just know they can't get a hotter girl. Got a few friends who are like that.
contemplator
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@Anon-ymous1 a lot of guys here in Kenya and Uganda love the chubby chicks. They have high confidence, have a physic as the pics above and to them "the bigger, the better"
Overblown cartoonish looking women are what it takes if they guys head is thick.
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Asker
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What is that?
FashGordon
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Just the female body taken to the extreme, she looks like a porn star, dresses the part, does her hair and makeup like that. It's like you have to really shout when someone can't hear good if you can get what I'm saying.
Asker
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So you mean I need to look like that in order to get a guy like this one?
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FashGordon
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There are exceptions but generally those men lack subtlety.
Asker
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What is subtlety lol?
FashGordon
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English is a tough language to learn if it's not your native tongue. It means the ability to reason in fine detail, depth of comprehension.
Asker
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We dont use that word in britain much never heard of it
FashGordon
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Oh UK , that doesn't surprise me then there are a lot of differences in the language. I would never have guessed that subtlety wasn't used , its such a common word.
CaaarlYoda
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No, but you need to be pretty damn hot.
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Asker
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Well thats ass ir boobs lol first u say no and then u say yes lmao
Caaarl
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You can be hot without big boobs or a big ass. You just have to be pretty enough.
Asker
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No those guys care only bout titties and booties
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Caaarl
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Why ask if you're going to tell everyone who doesn't agree that theyre wrong? David Beckham probably looks like that but look at his wife.
Big asses and tits are the so called "poor man's gold". The really high quality men want petite and athletic women, as those are the most attractive.
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Asker
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AHAHAHA yeah sure..
HamAndCheeseYoda
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Probably, yeah.
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Flower-petalYoda
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Holy fuck he's hot. It shouldn't matter what anyone looks like in order to get a date lol everyone likes different stuff
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TheUglyMonkExplorer
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No, all you need to do is go to the Gym and meet a guy who looks like that there.
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JackofSpadesExplorer
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Most guys who look like this are complete douchbags. So yes you do.
"Most" guys. You might get lucky, but don't count on it.
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falseXper 7
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round ass and a cute face will do
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Asker
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How big ass?
false
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6 very bigs
Asker
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Hahahahahahaha
krishmasXper 2
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It's just like with women. The more socially accepted you are the higher you choose up
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Asker
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What do ya mean?
krishmas
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Do you see beautiful women with ugly/average men In general?
krishmas
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The only thing people want brought to the table here is just sexual output and nothing else.. this whole topic is depressing
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Asker
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Oh that... yeah no.. and I meant u need to be extremely fit to get a guy with body like this
krishmas
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It depends on the guy, same with girls I suppose. It's what's on the inside that counts and all that xD
DecentguyMaster
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depends on the guy, every guy has different likes and preferences
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Asker
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What do you think personally?
Decentguy
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like i said, depends on the guy. Guys like those also prefer some skinny girls and not with big boobs or ass. but in my opinion, yeah i do think that maybe you would need a body like that, to date a guy like that. it depends on the guy's personality too
Asker
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Tnx 👊
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Decentguy
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No prob
Asker
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N what did u mean by "also depends on guys personality" ?
Decentguy
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by that i meant, some guys dont really cares about body and looks, they more care about the inner beauty
Asker
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Ohhh , yeah maybe 1% of the guys are like that 😂
Decentguy
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hahaah yeah, i agree, those guys are really rare, im one of them by the way
Asker
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And whhen u said bout the body, skinny girls, u meant like perfect slim body like a model?
Asker
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Ohh it would be great if most guys were like you lol wouldn't have to worry bout looks lol
Decentguy
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well im not sure about that, but thats a possibility.
Decentguy
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haha thanka
Asker
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But you are good looking so I wonder why r u like that 😂
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