My fiancé wants to share me with his friend?

[Anonymous]

I lost my virginity at 24 to this man I was waiting for the one. I love this man. Know so much about him listened to so many of his sex stories. Even watched a couple. Helped him move past his ex wife who left him after she cheated on him with his closest relative. He had shared her and she left him after getting out of control so I knew the fetish was there

Im he type of girl who wants that dream relationship. I am always honest never lie. That unconditional love.
After a year or so he started thinking about sharing me.

So I decided to try this with him as a baby step. We spent a night together out at a hotel and discussed what I didn’t want to happen and what not. I told him I did not want to have sex! With anybody other then him. And to ask everything There were ground rules. I took a little mdma so I wasn’t as nervous and more acceptable. They both messaged my legs and were respectable and my boyfriend was showing me off it felt pretty good to be admired seeing as nobody else had ever seen me naked except these now 2 people. He asked me if his friend cOuld see my area then he asked if he wanted to lick it and if it was ok with me. I said ok, my focus was on my boyfriend and I was thinking of this other man as a toy. The joy on my boyfriends face made everything worth it. I was managing although I was scared. He told the guy to stick his dick in me after discribing how it felt. Does this mean anything? I’ve been asking myself. Thinking maybe it was because of how his experience was with his ex wife progressed. For me to let this stranger touch my body was hard for me... and i was just wondering what would be going through a mans head in this situation that would cause him to keep trying to get me fucked when I told him I didn’t want to have sex because sex is special for me and meaningful. One day when we’re married officially I will let u give me away. but I’m not doing that until after IM SURE it’s what I will be ok with. Because I will be pleading my husband.

[Ripper_E]

He wants to see you have sex with another man, whether because it arouses him or for other reasons, I don't know. He's probably hoping that you'll be trapped in the moment and let it happen. Just because you said you don't want to, doesn't take away his desire for it. Still, if you don't want to then you shouldn't do it.

You should probably talk to him about it, and if he doesn't respect your decision, then you have a red flag.

[Asker]

But it doesn’t mean he cares any less about me? That he didn't listen to me? That he was pushing his desire over my feelings?

[Ripper_E]

It doesn't mean he doesn't care about you, but it's not a good sign if he holds his desires over your choices. You shouldn't do it if it's something you don't want to do. If he can't accept that then stop it altogether.

[skittles2017]

Make him understand that you may be up for it with everything and anything after you two are married and have at least a few years of it...
Explain him that this is important to you and he is mote important... so if he wants this to happen as a fetish that he has, you want to be married with him...
To every man this should sound reasonable... if he truly loves you

[Asker]

Yes I will be more willing to make a commitment after our commitment is finalized

[MrNiceGuy02]

Seems like a LARP, but if not you really need to do only what you are comfortable with. Asking him why he likes it would bed a good first step, but mored commonly it's a sign of deeper issues and you should proceed carefully.

[Asker]

What is a LARP? I have. He wants to see how much pleasure someone else can give. If it’s more then what he can. We’ve talked a lot about it. He said he wants to see the expression on my face. If that’s not something that’s going to be pleasure for me tho because it’s not what I’m into... h’mm...

[MrNiceGuy02]

Sounds like he has some issues with self image and the means of inflating his self worth because it's normally more deflated (he may not mention it at all and may be really sensitive) the expression on your face when what? A guy pleases you more than him? The more information you give me the more I can nail down what's going on

[Ephemera1]

So basically he's a cuck and you're wondering why? I think cucks exist because of porn. People get so used to watching others fuck while jerking it and they want to see it live. Basically, I'd say he's a porn addict who's submissive so he likes to watch other guys give his girl dick. In other words, he's a little bitch.

[Asker]

Well I don’t believe it’s like that. He liked hearing what other men had to say about my body. And hearing what they wanted to do. I’m unsure if he was just trying to let his friend have a taste? But why wouldn’t a man value that your girlfriend only wants to be with u

[Ephemera1]

Cuz he's a cuck

[Indio1375]

I enjoy 3 sums but I would never enlist a friend or a family member. I've joined a few couples as a single male. And that was not just important but it was smart to set the ground rules on what you wanted to happen and what you didn't want to happen. Another ground rule I would set if I had a partner would be we don't play unless we both play.

[bubbakong2006]

Me and my wife did it and I understand how you feel I was like that but I to had the urge to want to share my wife and when it started to happen I realized it was turning me on to see another guy play with her pussy and fuck her and she wasn’t sure when it happened but she enjoyed it to once it started and we both really liked it we still love each other nothing changed but we both were sooper turned on we even did it after we got home started talking about it and we both got horny and we had sex again it was great it’s not he doesn’t love you but it’s a major turn on you should try it once you might really enjoy it and you will know why he likes it

[Cigano]

good idea of ​​it, group sex is good, but you need to open your mind first and feel good about the idea. I think you need to have more sexual experiences.

[Asker]

I have been trying to get a feel for it.. but I have never been a fan. I know I can handle it because Of th way I am and I feel. I am worried about if he can handle it... like I’m even willing to get a girl for him and I one of my friends and he is so stuck on a man... if I ever do this does it make me less valuable to him?

[Cigano]

Well I like group sex, but I think you're asking yourself the wrong question, the right question is "do you want to do this?". if you're going to be less valuable or not, it does not matter, because he likes it, it's if in spite of it he has prejudice about it and wants to do it with you because he no longer likes you. But on the other hand if he really is okay with it. this can make you more compliant. But this you will only know doing, so the most important is how you feel about it and if you are prepared to deal with anything that happens later

[Asker]

Well that is another thing to think about. If he is using it so he can find a reason to hold something against me. He has cheated on me in the past. I really hope that wouldn’t be the case. He complimented everything I did tho the first little baby step... I do believe he really likes it though because of he past experiences I’ve seen and listened to when he was doing it with his wife. I am just worried. Because even now he’s constantly looking at my phone to see who I am texting when I don’t talk to anybody

[Asker]

I don’t want to do it. As of right now I feel like sex is something that should be shared between just 2 people. But I am willing to test the waters.

[Cigano]

if you don't to be comfortable about this, don't doing. because you will don't like it. but do you have doubt about. you can try a swinger club. thesse places you can just look. maybe help you think better about it.

[ArtixSareyo]

... this kind of stuff even happen in reality?

[Asker]

YOU WOULD BE SURPRISED! This day and age I have learned and seen thing through his friends that i would have never imagined people actually do.

[Anonymous]

Hi again Derek.

Are you still keeping up with this charade?

There are other sites where there are other people like you. Why do you keep on bothering us with it?

[Asker]

My name is not Derek... I’m a 25 year old woman looking for real advice and I will not reveal my name.

[Opinion Owner]

Are you going by Mahica or Bonnie today, then?

[Asker]

Seriously you’re that persistant. Ok 👌🏻

[Opinion Owner]

Well, you'd know all about persistence, wouldn't you, Derek? How many accounts have you used to troll about this subject, now? Well into double figures, isn't it, you little rascal, you? 😘

[Asker]

Troll about this subject? I wish I was trolling about this subject! This is my current life. I wish it was a troll. I went through the worst experience of my life yesterday and my boyfriend and I are fighting like crazy over something I was TRYING to do for him