Insecurity: I've only made a guy cum from having sex once?

I usually make him cum with a blowjob But vaginal sex only once did he cum inside the condom or after sex and a blowjob or a handjob to help him when he's about to and he probably doesn't want to cum anywhere near my vag. I don't know but i want the truth, am i bad at sex?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Heavens no, you are not bad at sex! Oral sex is sex! You're doing good. You probably just have a guy who needs oral sex in order to cum, that's all That's a good thing in my opinion. That he is cumming for you is also a good thing. That means you're doing it right. Enjoy sucking, licking and stroking his cock. Thoroughly enjoy swallowing his cum and sucking and licking his cock squeaky clean. It's fun, enjoyable and satisfying. Enjoy oral sex in general and you'll both be happy. All of us girls who like oral sex are superior lovers too. :)

  • i get pretty wet and slippery. depending on the guy it's the same 4 me. I used to be self conscious of that but realized most guys like it and it's better than not being wet enough

    • This is my main issue lol

  • It just depends on what he likes. All guys are different, my man loves cumming inside me.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Hmm that's interesting. Everyone is different may be this guys sensitivity just isn't that high and more direct pressure than vaginal intercourse can generate is needed. I have had times where the girl is just to wet and a BJ or HJ was needed to finish things.

    • OMFG THATS FUCKING IT THEY ALWAYS SAY IM SO WET AND ITS TRUE I can't CONTROL IT ITS SO SLIPPERY there's NO FIRMNESS ITS JUST A SLIP N SLIDE WATERFALL

    • THANK YOU FUCK

    • Hey don't worry you are young and younger women are more lubricated don't be afraid to take a towel and dry things up at some point or you may find a guy who's really huge and you'll need the extra lubrication

  • I am seeing almost identical stories from other young women on here. And in reading details in I believe that it as usually the guy’s fault. Then they blame the gal and move on to destroy another woman’s self esteem. Have more confidence in yourself!

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  • Try Kegel exercises next time you have sex, that can help a lot with that issue.

  • Do not sweat this girl. Its probably his issue not yours.

  • It depends... but with oral you have much better control. Sometimes shaving can help because skin on skin contact really helps. The hair desensitizes some of the sensations.

  • It means your pussy is too loose and doesn't grip hard enough on his dick

    • I haven't been around lol this has always been the case even when i was a virgin

    • Loose doesn't mean that you've been used a lot only. You could genetically be like that

  • Lucky him

  • Reading the comments I don't believe your wetness is the problem. I've always preferred a soaked pussy. Love the feeling of a very wet pussy and seeing a nice big wet spot on my sheets. Just relax and try to have fun and enjoy the experience. The wetter the better in my opinion

  • Maybe he dont wanna get u pregnant

  • I don't think so maybe the "trouble" is as you said that he probably doesn't want to cum near your vag but it's up to you to discuss that with him

  • I'm all about doing the ladies mouth. Maybe that's what he likes too. Do you Swallow it?

  • Oh look... it seems it's always the mans issue... couldn't possibly her majesty.

    • Are you replying to the other opinion bc im asking if im bad lol

    • I was referring to the typical comment that the blue made. When it comes to sex, I think it's about a 50/50, but since guys are a lot easier to please than women, it could go either way. Without knowing more, no one can really tell you.