Does boob size matter more to guys or girls?

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I had and (almost) still have no boob size preference. It's like women say about dicks: doesn't matter how big it is, but what you can do with it. I'd rahther be blessed with a girlfriend with medium or small boobs, but firm and round. It's no use to have boobs filling D size cups size if when you take your bra off they sag to the floor. The bad thing is I found this out the hard way: for most of my time, I had girlfriends with great shape boobs. All cup sizes. Only a couple of years ago I started "ended up" with girls having sagged boobs; if I'd be a girl, I would probably have a lift job after they start sagging than an augumenting one before.
I know most of my friends say "(big) boobs are great" beforehand but I rarely hear them talking about boobs after they hang out with a girl for some time. It's more important to me and to them how they actually behave, mostly in bed, but also in general.
I fondle big and small boobs alike.
The guys lack of "boob-love" is even straightforward proven in porn: how many porn movies have you seen with the guy paying more attention to the boobs than to the pussy-ass zone? Not calling porn the rule, but hey...
And if we're still at sex-related stuff, most used positions in sex have no boob implication (doggystyle, reverse cowgirl, missionary with her ass up). That's a pity. But I even asked a question on g@g about favourite sex positions and guess what? The answer is above.
Coming back, I had no boob size preference whatsoever. Until I met a girl with big boobs (I had girls with big boobs before) that actually used them for a great titjob+blowjob. 😋
Girls:
Most girlfriends I had always throw a comment or two about their boobs. I recently had a girlfriend with small boobs that loves big-boobs. She has some bff's that were more gifted and they have no problem stroking each other. She loves it!
Other ex-girlfriends I had said they would like to have their boobs bigger. So from my experience, I'd say girls care more about boob size than guys.0|00|0Is this still revelant? - Women care more about their boob size simply because they think men care that much... And men care more about their penis size because they think women care that much about it.
The only real time the average male cares about bigger boobs is when they're a teenager and going through puberty. To them, they are seeing girls their age go from flat chested to boob chested and the bigger they are, the more "mature" or the further through puberty the girl seems to be.
That and as a kid, the only real exposure guys have towards women's breasts is through online porn or through their dad's porn Mags (do they still make porn magazines?) so because of that kind of exposure, they think bigger is always better.
But once you hit your 20's and get older, you realize that boob size is pretty much irrelevant. It's not about bigger being better. It's about the whole package and how the woman carries herself.
I personally don't care about breast size. You could be flat chested or have gigantic planet killers, it doesn't matter. Your personality, your facial features and your overall figure is what counts. I'm not saying you gotta be skinny either when I say figure... I mean how everything flows.
Breasts are only a fraction of the whole package and someone with small breasts can be just as, or more attractive than someone with large breasts, or vice versa.
Granted, girls with larger breasts and who show them off in certain outfits can be distracting and can get some eyes, but for girls with smaller breasts, guys will be checking out your face, eyes, your ass, mid section just as much.2|50|0Is this still revelant?
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- This is the sort of thing that women in general shouldn’t be so insecure about. Once guys get out of their teens when it’s all about big tits (mostly because it’s a trend and as teens they probably want to be as mainstream as possible), they’re able to admit that it actually doesn’t matter as much. Very few have an actual set preference, especially when it comes to falling in love and not just sex. That doesn’t mean some guys can’t be completely ruthless when it comes to mocking girls for their boob size (I know from personal experience), but the ones with an actual brain don’t seem to care as much.
It’s the type of thing where people with insecurities care more about their own insecurities, compared to how much other people care. Same thing with dick size. Some guys will just never understand that having a massive dick only means you’ll be hurting her and stabbing her cervix.3|60|0Is this still revelant? - My boobs are perfect. Like i went to a surgeon and he refused to give me fake ones because he pointed out they were small c's, yes, but perfection in shape. He refused to "ruin" perfection.
So I'd say neither cares. I dont have to worry about an ounce of sag at 40, running without a bra, aching shoulders... guys that have seen them kniw they are gorgeous, nipple size, shape etc. Maybe we could reason women care more bc i went to the surgoen in the first place. But now i love them1|21|0Is this still revelant? - We seem to as women care too much about boobs. Men are men they all have their preferences in different ways. Legs, butt, boobs, looks, kindness, humor, being a good listener, show care for them, praise them in whatever way. The list goes on. Point is boobs for most men aren't the most important as generalization. Maybe a one night stand sure it turns them on but brains and pulling yourself together in the looks department counts.0|60|0Is this still revelant?
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76504- It matters a bit to the majority of non-gay men, but men don't necessarily prefer big. Some say more than a handful isn't important to them, others want enough to motorboat. There are as many varieties of boob sizes as there are opinions on what is preferable to them.
With that said, most guys are very liberal with "too big" or "too small", like you'd have to go quite far before they say that, quite a wide berth of tolerance! I think boob sizes matter more to women because of the health implications, so a woman's idea matters more in a difference of opinion between a guy and a girl, obviously she has last say. As such I think girls care more about their own boobs than guys care about them.0|00|0 - Now now, it's another stereotype you've fallen into my friend. It is true that some people choose bigger boobs over people with smaller ones, but it goes to show that the faulty ones here isn't the one with the boobs, but the ones lookin at em. They don't like the way you are, then let em go. But since you're asking, its actually a more conscious question asked among the girls, as they're aware and concerned about their looks. So we'll, in this context, girls give a higher importance to their boobs then guys.0|00|0
- Guys like all tits. They may have a preference for larger or smaller - full bosom or athletic types, but they're all good.
So it's girls that worry about them, and think they can do something about them, which they cannot unless they get bolt-ons, and most guys don't care for fake ones. Some don't care, "If I can touch them they're real."
But fake ones are hard, not soft and squishy like real ones.
The moral of the story is quit worrying about it and just find a guy that like YOU just the way YOU are. And quit the celebrity comparo shtick - it doesn't look good on you. :)0|00|0 - Anonymous+1 yWow! There are a lot of commenters in this lol.. Oh well here's my opinion.
Boob size only matters to me in they're too big. Like, pretty much anything bigger than a B or C cup is kind of a turn off. Mainly, it's because when I'm having sex with her, they flatten out and flop all over the place which is really distracting to me.
I'd she's on top, they hang low and loose and makes me think of the sole purpose of them then I picture a cow.
It's fucked up, I know, but that's just what happens when I'm with a girl with big boobs.0|00|0 - I believe girls worry considerably more about this than guys do.
The only time that it might not be the case and that it does matter is when it's the small subset of guys that are absolutely sexually obsessed with bigger cleavage and are only going after looks and sex.
It's definitely not something to worry over at all because it's just a quality that guys are specifically going after. A guy will think a girl is cute, beautiful, sexy, etc because of the way she carries and cares for herself.
P. S. Guys do not talk about breast size at all let alone for hours like some videos and articles have been starting to note in recent times. It's just ridiculous to think about as I don't know what one guy could possibly go on about in that sense. We're usually talking about stuff we're doing with the occasional jokes or sexual innuendos.0|10|0 - Women do compare themselves for a few reasons including sizing up their competition. Although my anecdotal observations suggest that men and women look at different things and men tend to more often see chest size as a priority. Both can cate and some men want other things that others even on the same body part (I like smaller to medium chests not large ones as much).
I personally see confidence easily too. Smaller but firmer racks are hotter to me, and I cannot be attracted to a girl with a bad personality no matter what she has physically.1|00|0 - I'm gonna go with girls. They are often searching for ways to make them bigger, perkier, or smaller, trying different techniques with clothes, and whatever else they can think of. Guys are more flexible and don't really demand her to have the perfect boobs. Every guy has a preference but guys don't make a big deal out of it. Small boobs? No problem. They will probably be perkier and less saggy. Big boobs? No problem. More to see and more to grab.0|00|0
- i feel like guys have preferences but they are also open to most sizes. i feel like boob size tends to impact women more in terms of their levels of self worth or appeal to men... basically similar to penis size. women may have preferences some women may care a lot but i think penis size tends to impact guys self worth and thus matters more to guys than women0|00|0
- Both really.
I'd say larger breasts are consistently more impressive to fellow girls as a sign of sexual endowment.
Men, however, have varied tastes. While some prefer larger, for certain, many don't.
It's definitely more important, in my opinion, to women.0|00|0 - As long as the boobs are proportional to a woman's body type and woman is comfortable with them (not too big they hurt or small and they feel insecure) then any standard size (A - DD) is attractive. The only plus to big boobs is the cleavage. Some women really know how to show off their assets...0|00|0
I think I'm proportional to my frame. 5'3" a 100-105 lbs. depends on what I've gorged out on that day. 34D cup. I'm comfortable.
- Some guys care a lot. But many do not. I want here to have boobs that are sensitive to touch, so she can enjoy me touching, sucking, etc. Although my preference would be for smaller, it really does not matter that much. Whatever she has, that is what I will like.0|00|0
- Some guys like big ones some guys like smaller ones but it's not that important to us. It's just a nice addition. I prefer in between though. Not too big but not super small, but it's not the end of the world if they are super small. If they are super big there's a good chance they are fake though. And I'd prefer it to be all real0|00|0
- This is good clickbait.
It matters more to women because they want the attention. If not just the attention the added bonuses that come with it.
Its a matter of right of passage for them.
Grow big boobs. - leader of the pack
Grope big boobs - leader of the pack0|00|0 - I dont really know if you say girls get jealous of big boobs then I guess I'll have to go with you and say girls for me it doesn't matter as long as the girls is happy and she has lots of sensation she is happy with lots of sensation then that's the ones I like0|00|0
- They do matter to guys because we're generally wired to be like that. However, I remember reading about some research a long time ago that concluded that breast size is not as important as figure shape (hip to waist or chest to waist ratio, or lumbar curvature or something).
I personally agree. As long as you have boobs, and certain proportions within a certain range, you'll be very attractive to a lot of guys at least.
Ih, and the answer is, I think women care more, but only slightly so.0|00|0 - The appearance of women matter more to women. Don't get me wrong, guys care too, but where a guy will see someone who is beautiful, a girl will keep trying to fix things in her appearance that don't need fixing. You tell her you like her body, but to her, she could burn some more fat. You tell her she's pretty, and she feels the need to put more make up on.
I'm not saying this is all women. Just what I've seen.0|00|0 - I think more women do because they are the ones who get surgery to get them bigger. A lot women worry about what other think because what they all ways when they get the surgery is "I feel So much better about myself after I gotten them do and I have more confidence now.0|00|0
- Probably men, but I don't know the true extent to which women discriminate based on breast size. Honestly, i'm more into butts, but breasts are a lot more upfront & noticeable, so I feel like even men who don't care if the breasts are small will be more taken with large ones on average.0|00|0
- I think women does because she thinks that men wants/like them big because society tell them to. It doesn't matter to me because I rather date someone with a big heart then someone with 38 dd. Hey got me to thinking women can get a permanent breast enhancement that adds sizes but men can only use a fake add on if he is on the short end.0|00|0
- Am pretty sure it doesn't matter to the men at all. Unless the girl has something like a minus A cup. I am not an ass man and a big on boob guy. I only look for natural ones and I like them firm, at least till they hit the 30s. So that's it from me. It's more like how the men are worried about the penis size that the women are worried about their boob size. I think0|00|0
- Guys.. Why? Because boobs attract men. Men like big boobs. Which means women want big boobs because of this. A woman with big boobs makes another jealous because she wants to attract men like Her.
If men didn't find boobs attractive would they be jealous... No0|00|0 - It's not really important. As long as they are a source of pleasure for her, they are perfect :) I think women overestimate the importance of size for men. Understandable of course with the media and guys' locker room talk. But don't worry ladies, it really doesn't matter0|00|0
- I dont care about size of boobs... these days, I find it a pointless topic now. I use to want boobs (though Im a guy but... you could guess what I was like growing up) but now, if I were a girl with with big boobs, I would hate that, envying girls with small boobs. Like my size... I use to be short-wanting to be taller but, I ended up being too tall. So now, I get a little jello over smaller people.
Thing is... why do women get jealous over bigger boobs anyway?0|00|0To be quite honest there's nothing enviable about smaller boobs so I don't understand why girls with big boobs envy them. Still the same shit you have to go through- still have to wear bras (it's a myth that we can go without them), bras don't fit, a lot of women's clothing looks ridiculous on small breasts, and the added bonus that a lot of guys make it clear they can't deal with small boobs in bed or anywhere.
Sorry for unloading on your comment, just pent-up titlet frustration on my part lmaoUnloading? o. o What dies that mean? But yeah, I understand that the length thing is the same with boobs...(I should of thought of that... lol... derp lol) Anyways... for me, if a girl with small boobs couldnt fit something bigger-by breast, I would find it cute. :3 (Im talking about slightly bigger, not overly big lol) Then again... some girls may find that uncomfortable. My sister for example, she wishes she had smaller boobs lol. (Her friend-who is now related to us but not by blood) had bigger boobs at first but then it switched. I kinda feel for my sister... but, I believe things like that for a reason. (*´∀`)
Backup info with me and my sister: We are so close and she is pretty much 90% how I think I would be like as a female. X3
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I just meant sorry for singling out your comment lol
I remember the smaller girls in school all got more shit from both girls and guys that's why I say it's not enviable in my opinionlol oh?
I thInk everyone get things like that in school. X'D Some worse than others. ( ;∀;) Not just for sizes. The school life has so much ups and downs, depending on the school too. :3 I was in 4 schoo! s (an extra school where I live) and yeah... it depends on the school. n. n'
- Definitely women. I hear them talking about it more than guys actually. When a guy does its like "She has nice tits" "Yep". But with girl look at eachother and compare and sometimes feel worse about themselves. If i could see my mates dicks id probably feel shit too XD0|00|0
- I think the girls think it matters because some guys thinks it matters. Me personally I forever a small handful. But if the guy is really into you then it doesn't matter unless it's just lust he feels but if he loves you then he will love all of you including if your boobs might be to big or to small0|00|0
- I think boob size matters to females slightly more than guys. Mainly because a lot of women are told since birth by mainstream and social media that bigger tits and ass are best. I personally prefer large b cups or medium c cups, as they are usually perkier than anything bigger than that. 😋0|00|0
- Good question. Guys want to play with em; girls are jelly they're not big enough to get the same attention as other girls
Most guys like myself get over size once you've had em; not sure about girls; I'm sure most get comfortable with a B-cup or larger; Itty bitty titty committee may be a different story.0|00|0 - Anonymous+1 yMost popular women's bra size with men is 34C, which is not the biggest. All boob sizes can be great, as long as they are reasonably firm and the nipples are pointing straight out or up.
Even if the boobs aren't great, women come with many compelling features. If a woman has an insatiable sex drive and isn't fat, she can absolutely be flat-chested IMHO.0|00|0 - For sure girls, even if we don't admit it all that much. Like a friend of mine asked how big my boob's were and when she said hers were bigger I felt a shock of jealousy. Even though I say I don't typically care LMAO3|30|0
- With girls, I think, from having seen it, its jealousy and envy with a splash of threatened thrown in the mix. Nice size breasts, C or bigger, is very appealing to some men. So if a girl is a B cup and her friend is a D cup, the girl is going to feel envy and threatened because the friend is going to get the attention most. At the end of the day though, men are more concerned than women. No debate possible.0|00|0
If two girls are together and both want a guys attention the girl with the smaller chest is going to feel threatened in that she's gonna know her friend with bigger breasts is going to get the attention she wants. And jealous hers aren't as big to have been able to get it. I've been the guy. I seen it happen.
- I personally find im attracted to woman who have larger breasts. But I am going to enjoy them no matter what size... so long as they are bigger than my man boobs bahahaha. Honestly just be comfortable and confident with yourself. We have free will and individual tastes for a reason.2|00|0
- I think guys care more... and as a result of their wants/caring, women focus on that and act accordingly.
I know a lot of guys say "small boobs more than a mouthfull" are a waste, yet show them a girl with big round D or DD boobs, and they stare with you in the room.
Even more, be out with your guy, see a big breasted woman and if he doesn't say something then, just wait until you are having sex and he will mention it... somehow, someway, but it will make me feel inadequate.1|10|1I can't imagine having sex with a woman, and talking about the boob size of another woman, or saying your boobs are to small or too large It sounds like you are around some immature guys, or guys with no understanding of the feelings of others.
When a guy says breast size doesn't matter, that doesn't mean he doesn't find large breasts attractive. It means, that he likes small breasts too, and that breast size is of little consequence when it comes to having a good relationship. Same with sex. If the relationship is good, then there is a high probability that the sex is good too. I find small boobs cute and sexy, and big ones good looking and sexy. But if I were in a loving relationship with a girl who had small boobs, smaller than what I prefer, I would still find them sexy and attractive, and boob size would have no affect how I felt about her, and I'd still have great sex with her. Maybe it's a little like, if you preferred a guy with a seven inch cock, but your boyfriend had a 6 3/4 inch cock, the quarter inch wouldn't really make a difference.
- Breast size doesn't matter, especially if they're fake. What should matter most is that you're comfortable with your body. However, I think it's more of a girl thing than a guy thing. Just always remember that flat is justice and chest pillows are fun.0|00|0
- According to 'Le Internet', this generation of guys are more into butts. Honestly I don't know why, I mean everyone has an ass, its the boobs only we girls have. But honestly I don't think it matters, in Brazil they're into small boobs but a big bum and while some men like bigger boobs, others like smaller ones. Just a subjective issue. I mean, they're just boobs.1|10|0
- Its the shaoe that matters and hownit suits the body, not so much the size. Sometimes I like smaller perky boobs on a fit body... Sometimes i want big tits to play with. Different flavours of your favourite ice cream really.0|00|0
- For guys I have dated dey did not say anything as such but they were really attracted to my boobs which r big so I am assuming SM guys dat is d case.. as in ass guys nd boob guys r dere depends on your guy completely0|00|0
Big boobs are amazing if you have them but an ass means a lot too. It's about curves
- Girls, I would think. You girls have to deal with what the media deems as attractive and if you don't meet those standards then you probably feel self conscious, but guys like your boobs no matter what. Boobs are awesome0|00|0
- From my observation, girls. Guys always say they like bigger boobs but at the end of the day they work with whatever and don't complain. Girls are much more focused on their size from what I heard from both genders.0|00|0
- I think its on are side of woman that care more then the guys
I have walked around many communities of the web, some of them completely anon that no one know if you are a guy or a girl, and over all il say that as one of them said "Boobs are boobs"
I really don't think it matters to guys as much as it matters to some girl
Me my self it dose not matter at all, i like what i got, i think i may will have been looking better with some bigger, but i am really not up to back pains and the like :P0|10|0 - I think it's in both the genders have a natural tendency and view towards women boob size does matter in many ways in present generation, especially when it comes to fashion, looks, trends n looking gorgeous, diva etc.. Boob's curve n size matters.. these days0|00|0
- I prefer bigger boobs but it’s not everything. Big ass is kind of a turn off but medium one is preferable. Woman make a bigger deal about it because the media and movies portray the best woman looking like curvy flawless porn stars or actresses. It’s reason plastic surgery is such a big business these days. I think most guys are more flexible even have a preference most of them wouldn’t stick to them so rigidly.
I also agree with think logic85 he hit the nail on the head earlier.1|00|0 - I think it's a bit of both but mostly girls because if a female has bigger boobs than her they might be jealous, imitated, etc. But it might just be a handful of females. Men because some men like girls with a big chest.0|00|0
- No, for me personally it doesn't matter. And even for most of my friends, they don't care about the size. What I really prefer in a women is her face. How pretty she looks. I guess, a perfect pair of boobs is an added bonus, but not something which matters to me. And it matters to girls more than it matters to men.1|00|0
- It’s just like men’s penis sizes as well. I’m not saying the opposite sex doesn’t completely care or have no opinion on it, but it’s usually the individuals in our own gender that induce worries and insecurities in us long before we even talk to a member of the opposite sex0|10|0
- Girls for sure! Just looking on this site there are SOOO many questions on it, you obviously are incredibly insecure about them, but you shouldn't be, no matter what size you are. Because yes, us guys all have our preferences, but they aren't usually "deal breakers", we like them all generally, especially if we are genuinely interested in you! Women are sick of the penis questions but there are a lot more boob questions in my opinion LOL0|10|0
- I’d have to say it matters more to girls. Girls seem to be more concerned about size, whereas guys just seem to be happy that we have them regardless of size.0|00|0
Yes, we guys too busy playing. But my nurse wife cared about being larger... She said the last thing to go in a man's brain is grabbing at Hooters.
- With the mainstream media environment it would seem so as girls grow into womanhood but at the same time it's an individual thing. The social peer pressures and pop culture references dictate the acceptable images that girls feel they should aspire to. The question is! Can you find what matters and can you own it as a unique version of yourself for the mirror on the wall is either a reflection of yourself or somebody else.0|00|0
- Women care more about the comparison. Men tend to have a preference which goes straight out the window if they meet someone they really like. Personally the size doesn't matter. It's the cleavage or the sensitivity.0|00|0
- It depends on the perception of the individual whether its a boy or a girl. It matters only for the sexual arousal for gents and breastfeeding purposes. Obviously as a boy I won't deny the fact that boobs aren't sexy. It definitely adds to more beauty. But, appearance isn't everything. Is it?0|00|0
- Some be confused some guys prefer small boobs, some guys perfer small and when they perfer small means they love internally but not externally. So make sure few guys perfer size they want to sex with and they don't live with you forever. Really I mean it, And also you can see by you friends or family0|00|0
- Honestly it's fine if you have big or small, it's just a matter of preference.
most guys out of high school look for a lot more than boob size in a girl. And is usually just a bonus (depending on preference) but ultimately not super influential on the guys opinion of the girl.0|00|0 - I think it depends on the person, some women don't care about the size, it's a bit like men's penis size, some men think it's small, some think it's too big, but it depends on how you see it.0|00|0
- When I did a poll on this question last year, 25% of guys preferred big boobs, 25% preferred small boobs, and 50% had no preference. I think it is a bigger issue for women than it is for men.0|00|0
- I feel like men care more about them cause it's a sad world where women just have small boobs and are shamed for having them like that.
Most Men really do care about the size, meanwhile women with large tits don't care, making only the small percentage of smaller chest women the ones in the female category to worry about sizes.0|00|1 - I do get jealous when a woman has bigger breasts than mine, as I feel like my attention diminishes.
But I wish I had smaller breasts lol because they are hard to handle.0|00|0 - I used to be jealous and want bigger boobs, but my friend (with bigger boobs) said they're awful and a faff on with new outfits and shit so im happy with my smallies0|00|0
Depending on your size, no bra and a nipplepiercing (for example) turns me on way more than big boobs. But as stated before, size does not matter
- I know this may be unhelpful, but it really depends. Petite/smaller women can be really gorgeous even without big boobs, hell even larger women too, as long as it looks proportionate. And some girls are just ugly despite having big boobs. It totally depends on the person.0|00|0
- My honest preference is well proportioned huge boobs tiny ass no good for me huge ass tiny boobs also no good. The more symetrically proportioned they are they better.0|00|0
- I only like medium size puppies aka boobs anything "more than a handful is a waste" my ole' pappy used to say lol and I agree.. some of me friends like big boobs ahh not for this guy lol0|00|0
- I prefer to have a slightly mire sizeable chest for someone my size, however, I do think guys enjoy curves more than flatness. Personally, I think it's an evwn sect.0|00|0
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