My boyfriend tricked me into pregnancy, what do I do now?

I was on the pill but one day I couldn't take the pill because I was throwing up constantly. So I asked my boyfriend to wear a condom, after we had sex I saw that he actually made holes in the condom. I confronted him but he said it just broke. It's obvious he was lying. Anyway, a month later now I found out that I'm pregnant. I feel totally devastated for being tricked into this. I don't know what to do now
0 0

Most Helpful Guys

  • Abortion.

    It's technically a form of rape as you didn't give him consent to impregnate you.

    Do they still have bastard bonds these days? In the olden days, if a guy raped a woman, he wouldn't get much of a punishment unless she was important. However, if he got her pregnant he would have to work to provide her and the child. If he doesn't, they would sell him as a slave and make him work.

  • Now you have a few options, have an abortion as soon as possible, or give birth to your child and go to court and get mandatory child support from your boyfriend, or you can also give your child up for adoption. Take your pick, because it's too late to go back now.

Most Helpful Girl

  • If you don't want the kid, abort. Also you could sue him since it's a kind of rape. I'd definitely sue him on your place.

    • OK how is this rape

    • It's like as if he took off the condom without her consent. Just that he perforated it, instead of taking it off. Everything could be rape if it happens without the consent of both partners.

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

What Girls & Guys Said

2 17
  • Get an abortion and consider reporting him for sexual assault. But leave his ass either way.

  • Abortion is an option. Depending on where you live you could get him in legal trouble

  • This isn't rape. please don't abort its murder

    • What is it then?

    • Do you know the definition of rape? Poking a hole in a condom isn't rape

    • I'm sorry this happens to you but don't abort give it up for adoption or raise it but abortion is murder

    • Show All
  • That's almost a form of rape, as in without consent. He's a low life piece of shit and you should go to police straight after leaving him.

  • well suing is one option but it'll be a tough case to prove. he seems like he is insane if he actually poked holes in the condom. the other option is abortion. this is not the way to bring a child into this world

  • Go on Maury Povich

  • First of all. Men dont poke holes in condoms. They want to have fun and they dont want to have kids. And sedond of all depends on your age if you are under 25 i recomend an abortion. Sorry for that.

    • I second that.

    • You're either defending him or me. Also not every guy is the same so think about what you are saying.

    • Why do men poke a hole in the condom? Makes 0 sence to me...

  • Fuckin take him to court and get his money for the rest of your life. Or abort the kid and still sue the bitch either way you need to get away from him

  • One could argue wether its a form off rape but, get rid off the baby if you dont want it or dont have the time or moeny to support it and break up with him.(what i would do if i were you, get rid off the child without his knowledge, break up and report it to the police or so because it is a form off rape. Because you didn't want to get pregnant)

  • it was not with your consent kind of a rape..

  • Sue him

    • You said it Rick

    • Damn right I did!

  • You're going to make a great single mother!

  • Please just don't abort

  • A little hard to get pregnant with just one time... Pure luck? Does he want kids?

  • 1 put the child up for adoption 2 abortion 3 keep the child and raie it. your choice but if you can't support the kid I recommend 1, 2 I recommend for cases of rape and incest.

  • You have only two options: be a single mom ( and sue him) or abortion.
    No 3d option

  • Try to convince him to accept it.. if not abort it

  • Abortion. Unwanted child forced onto you. Cross his plan and simply get rid of it.

    • So technically murder doesn't matter if its legal your literally killing a living thing!! your sick you don't just "get rid of it"

    • @kk123help its legal for a reason.

    • Its still murder

    • Show All
  • Abort if you don’t want the child. But I would be making that boyfriend into an ex.