I'm on the verge of breaking up; Should I just because she won't satisfy my physical needs?
The issue here is that nothing physical is happening at all. When we are playing around (not having sex or planing to have sex at that moment) and things start to get exiting I would gesture or initiate sexual touching and she would completely turn off or reject me. Every time she's in the mood I will do whatever she wants.
I want her to please me by giving me oral or at least a handjob, I don't really care which, but honestly it really turns me off when she tells me that she will do something then with zero heart and attention comes with her hand (like looking away or at the TV high giving depressing sighs like I'm forcing her to love me or show me any affection). Because of her attitude towards sexually satisfying me, all the time I end up just telling her to forget about it and try not to give her attitude back about how sexually and mentally frustrated I feel. She just plays dumb and does everything she possibly can to evade the situation and any sexual touching towards me. I always have to ask her and pretty much beg her to please me, she will tell me that she doesn't fell like it, or that she is no longer in the mood. I ask her why and she just says that she doesn't fell like it; I can't get past the answer that she always gives me so in the end that's that and there is nothing else I can do.
She seldom gives me oral probably once a year or less. I get handjobs almost as often. Sex happens only when she fells like it which is about once every month or less, and we live together. I have approached her in the past with this situation several times and told her about the issue and she always feels bad about it and she sometimes gives me another half-assed handjob later on that day, but after that day goes by, everything goes back to the way it was and she keeps doing the same thing again and again. I feel very unwanted. Someone please help me with this issue.
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