Long distance boyfriend always talks about sex, could this relationship be only for sex?

[Anonymous]

So I have a boyfriend he’s in the marines & we have been together for 3 years and some months now. He’s been away for about almost 2 years and he is coming back around the summer time. Anyway, every time we would have a conversation he would always find a way to make it about sex & I don’t mind having conversations about it, figuring out our sexual desires and what not but I feel as though that’s the only thing that interests him. I would try to bring up things about life & have conversations that have meaning & have in depth conversations just to keep the flow going & see where our head space is at, but always ignores it & makes a comment that is related to sex. Whether it’s about what he’s going to do to me , where we are going to do it, the foreplay and all that kind of stuff. It makes me upset because we could never have a real conversation. If it’s not related to sex he would not talk to me. Sometimes he would make excuses and say he’s going to sleep (mind you he’s in Japan so the time difference is way different). Also another thing is that we are both virgins. I have not felt ready to take that big step, I’m taking it slow it might be the reason why he’s so sexual but I feel like that should not overpower our ability to have true conversations. Another thing that really upsets me is that he never talks to me about anything, but talks to my sister about ANYTHING and EVERYTHING & that doesn’t sit right with me at all. I feel like he likes talking to my sisters more than he does with me. All he does is talk about sex and that makes me mad

[SnapTsch]

Obviously because when he comes back, he can get right into action with you.
Where as he is friends with your sister and feels comfortable sharing

[Anonymous]

How many times have you guys actually met eachother?

[Asker]

We spend a lot of time with each other whenever he is in the states, so a lot

[juststrollin]

Yes get out now, I was in the same predicament and it left me feeling very used and like he would show up again but he never did.

[Sandra44319153]

I think he's just missing you and craving a female touch. Once he gets back and has sex he will probably settle down.

[thisgirl102]

I think you need to communicate how you're feeling with him!