How soon is it to give the guy you’re “kinda seeing” a handjob?

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In a pickle.. just got out of a relationship. As I was at the end of this relationship I started falling for another guy. This new guy and I have been talking everyday and see each other 3ish times a week. When I say “see each other”, I mean he comes into my bar to see me while I’m bartending. But this crazy, intense, can’t stop staring at each other, smiling constantly feeling is mutual. BUTTERFLIES.

Anyway.. we’re making plans for an official date and man oh man do I wanna please him, so bad. But too soon? Would I come off as a slut? Easy? Advice!
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