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How soon is it to give the guy you’re “kinda seeing” a handjob?

In a pickle.. just got out of a relationship. As I was at the end of this relationship I started falling for another guy. This new guy and I have been talking everyday and see each other 3ish times a week. When I say “see each other”, I mean he comes into my bar to see me while I’m bartending. But this crazy, intense, can’t stop staring at each other, smiling constantly feeling is mutual. BUTTERFLIES. Anyway.. we’re making plans for an official date and man oh man do I wanna please him, so bad. But too soon? Would I come off as a slut? Easy? Advice!
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I wouldn't get sexually involved without a commitment. On the other hand, I don't think there is an exact timing for sexual relationships beyond that. I believe women tend to think men loose interest due to giving it up yet I do not believe that is the case. I think they loose interest because the shift in the relationship after. Example: A girl has sex with the guy she's been seeing then all sudden he notices she tries harder. Well, now she's going to come across more needy. It will be a turn off. Good luck.

    • Get response, thank you!

  • Dress nice and sexy and let your hand slip into his lap at dinner as you sit next to him in the booth, your silky leg touching his. Tease and squeeze, tease and squeeze... if the restaurant has enough privacy below the table line, unzip him, slip a rubber on him and fill it. After dinner, I'd be wanting to suck him off in the car next... and then... Oh yeah.

    How soon is it to give the guy you’re “kinda seeing” a handjob?How soon is it to give the guy you’re “kinda seeing” a handjob?

  • There are ways to do both things. Please him and then not come off as easy. Plus, I think that guys don't think this way. They don't think that you're a slut if you do this for him. If you value yourself and hold your standards and boundaries, you can have your fun as much as you like!

Most Helpful Guys

  • Give the man what he wants.
    And remember to finger his butthole. Guys like it

  • Not a slut but my advice is to wait until the second date

    • Kinda what I was thinkin too..

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • You do you, girl. Not slutty at all

  • Do what you want and are comfortable with.

  • It's up to you what you want to do but I wouldn't do that on the first date, tease him a little more first and work up to it so that he feels like he's earned you a little more.

  • Handjobs are ok anytime

  • I'd sex would be pretty damn slutty, but a handjob isn't really.

  • I think you should wait till the second date... you don't want him to think you're easy

  • What feels right for you. And of course if you feel you can trust him

  • Do whatever you feel like when the situation arises (no pun intended). If giving him a handy seems like the right thing to do, go on and do it!

  • Whenever you're comfortable

  • The right time is "whenever you're comfortable and want to"

  • I say wait

  • Do what feels right

  • The first time my girlfriend and hung out we kissed a little and I fingered her pussy. Made you can in her panties. We have been together now 16 months so my advice just do what feels right in the moment

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