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What does getting your pussy licked feel like? Does it hurt?

I'm a virgin so I'm curious. I've heard it hurts as much as penetrative sex... I don't know.
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  • Oh my God no, it doesn't hurt - you and your partner are in total control of pain in sex, even in losing your virginity.

    It is a myth that losing your virginity has to hurt a woman or make her bleed. It only hurts and bleeds if the couple are trying to have intercourse before the woman's body is prepared for it - not because there is some membrane that must be torn open to even enter.

    Likewise, something like fingering or oral sex never has to hurt either. If you are feeling pain that is caused by being rough on purpose. People just don't realize that. They think pain is necessary because the woman needs to be ripped open and broken in - but this is not so. The hymen doesn't work that way, nor does the vagina.

    I have to assume you are at least familiar enough with your anatomy to carry out basic hygiene. So let us assume you have washed or rinsed your groin area - and I am sure you have found it doesn't hurt to touch at a normal pressure, whether you are touching the clitoral glans and shaft, the mons, the labia, even the opening of the vagina. Oral, by itself, is no more invasive than those things, so of course you can see, if someone controls the pressure and the friction, it never has to hurt.

    Do not put up with doing what hurts in sex. None of it is a "given". When something hurts, stop and do not keep going until you know how to do it without making it hurt. And I mean this for anything sexual from holding hands to anal sex. Pain is always avoidable and never required. Choosing pain for it's erotic potential is something you do when you know your own body well enough to know when you're experiencing "fun pain" like a spanking and bad pain like someone causing you an injury. Even this innocent looking choking that every young person seems to be into today is in-fact incredibly dangerous, and I am afraid not enough teens know enough about anatomy to do this without incredible risk.

    I'm drifting off topic now.

    No, it doesn't generally hurt, and it certainly never has to.

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    • Wow... you're... like... really knowledgeable... um... I'm very inexperienced and I would like to learn more and how to better prepare myself. Could you help me learn more? Like teach me stuff.

    • @QuintinGaither I am not open to endless question in DM, but if you would like to follow me and invite me to answer on your questions that youpost to GAG, I will be happy to help you. I understand you feel your questions are very private, but remember, no one knows who you are on GAG. If you ask your questions openly, you can get multiple perspectives and other people who have the same questions can see what the answers are. That's what GAG is for, after all.

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  • Not unless you're doing it wrong. Same goes for penetrative sex by the way, even the first time. Even if you're breaking your hymen, that should be a fairly minor pain and should not make the whole experience painful. All hymens are different, it should be said, but I barely felt mine go. Plenty of women do report painful first times, I think I have to attribute that to tension and maybe not being wet and prepared enough.

    Going back to oral sex, it definitely should not hurt anymore than someone licking any other part of your body, which is to say not at all. Okay, eyeballs would probably suck, but that's the exception to the rule.

    Also like someone licking any other part of your body, it can be awkward. I feel as if I should like getting head more than I actually do, but I'm just not all that comfortable having someone's face between my legs. Lots of women love it, though, so don't let my weird self consciousness scare you off.

    About the only reason I can imagine oral sex hurting is if your partner was too rough. Some things down there should be caressed, not prodded. Prolonged stimulation could make you oversensitive, I for one need to give my clit a rest after an orgasm.

    So, as long as your doing it with someone you can trust to listen to your feedback, it shouldn't be a problem. And really you shouldn't have any kind of sex with someone who wouldn't.

    • Almost no women have hymens that must be broken or torn - tearing the hymen is rare, and avoidable. Pain is never necessary. Even with women who have imperforate hymens, pain can and should be avoided.

  • hurt? its a tongue. lol. No, if anything for me its uneffective coz i can't feel a lot, takes forever to start feeling enough from it. And I don't know about penetrative sex hurting. it USUALLY doesn't. lol.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Well if the guy is trying to stimulate the clitoris he has to be doing it right. If he is touching the clitoris straight on that would hurt a lot. This is because the clit has thousands of nerve endings and is too sensitive. The proper way is to do so by touching the clit through the clitoral hood. If you have no clue what parts I'm talking about google it.

  • This has to be a joke... It feels amazing!. It's warm, wet, and soft. The tongue isn't long enough to penetrate anything. Use ice cubes in the summer. Try it sometime 😜

    • I'm single and I don't know anybody that would do it to me

    • I'm sure any guy you know would do it for you

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  • It doesn't hurt at all. It's very wet, for obvious reasons. His tongue just kinda, glide over everything

    • Just glide over? It won't go in?

    • I mean, I didn't say it doesn't

    • What does it do, then? XD

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  • If the guy is gentle and pays attention to your desires, it will feel amazing. But yes it can hurt if he careless with your feelings. Help him out and express to him what feels good and what doesn't.

    • Is this different for every girl?

    • I know that sounds dumb, but are there any desires that will stay the same with every girl or are they all different

    • some things are universal like most women needing foreplay. What's individual is how you like it. You will know and if he loves you, he will be in tune with you and respond to your uniqueness. Make sure the guy loves you first.

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  • It feels great actually. If they're good of course, you'll know when it gets super wet and the juices are dripping off their beard.

    • I love my bears for that

    • Beard

    • Beard sounds painful or scratchy?

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  • That's silly. If it was painful, why would women allow it?

  • Get your pussy and fingers really warm and slippery. Enjoy? Tongue feels even better

  • if it hurts then he's doing it wrong. I like eating pussy and all I ever got was a pleasure moans not pains lol

    • Are you good at it?

    • I dont wanna sound arrogant but yea I am

    • How many times have you done it?

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  • No it should not

  • First the guy needs to lick very slowly and softly, all around you pussy lips and gently inside. This should bring on a great orgasm

    • I don't have a boyfriend

  • Ask women who feel the pleasure or experience any pain.

  • It shouldn't hurt. If it does hurt then the person doing it is doing it wrong. Mostly it just brings pleasure

  • Well licking your pussy won't hurt you!!!

    • It would give you pleasure!!!

  • It does not hurt at all. Run a wet finger over your clit and that's kinda what you'd get but a toung is wider wet and hot

  • No. Only in case if he bite your ****y

    • Like when a girl would bite a guy's dick?

    • Yes. exactly

  • Feels ok

  • It doesn't hurt u... But it gets u more pleasure

  • Hahaha

    • What does that mean?

    • It's just funny

  • Virgin too don't know how it feels when dick gets sucked 😳

  • lol, it definitely doesn’t hurt or she wouldn’t want me to do it every-time

  • Depends whos doing it I suppose, if they exposed the head of your clit and solely focused on it it may hurt.
    If they know what they are doing then no, it will feel great.

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