Do all women need foreplay for great sex?

[GracefulCharm]

If you are measuring great sex as in the women having a orgasm, then it depends on lots of factors. I have read that a women is more likely to have a orgasm with a partner if he is has physical symmetrical features.

www.psychologytoday.com/.../the-truth-about-female-orgasms

Also on average women take longer to orgasm than men, so foreplay would only increase the time of sexual tension and stimulation which will allow a women to orgasm because most men cannot control their own orgasms and will end up finish before her.

From my own sexual experiences, as privileged as I was given them by amazing women. I can confirm that these studies are true. I've made a women orgasm only from foreplay, and made a women orgasm only from penetration. I take pleasure in making women orgasm during sex, and it usually requires more effort on their end to make me orgasm.

[Prof_Don]

The women *I* have been with, although she may be already wet, can always be revv'd up to a higher gear with some foreplay.

The investment of time and work in foreplay is so worth it, when I see my lady damn near begging for me to stick it in. :-D

[selfishstars]

Well, I think you need to be turned on to have great sex. When a woman becomes aroused, she produces lubricant and her vagina expands to accommodate penetration. If she isn't turned on, then sex will likely be uncomfortable or even painful.

So, the question is, is foreplay necessary for a woman to become aroused? I'd say usually, but it is possible to get turned on before anything happens with your partner, for example, if you're turned on by your own thoughts.

The type and amount of foreplay necessary for a woman to be ready for sex will vary from woman to woman, and can also vary for each woman, depending on her mood, her cycle, throughout her life, etc.

[Anonymous]

70% of women require direct clitoral stimulation to orgasm, so if they don't get that orgasm during foreplay they probably won't get one at all.

But each woman is different.

Even women themselves may avoid the things that bring them orgasmic pleasure because we are taught that the man's orgasm is more important than ours.

[kaylaS91]

no, not all.
Just like guys don't need physical stimulation to get a hard-on, some women (myself included) are already wet beforehand and can jump straight to sex.

[Kiki98]

I dont need foreplay, but the longer the foreplay the better the sex, because it just build up the intensity so when the moment of relief comes it becomes heavenly

[Being_a_good_Indian]

It's particularly important for women to have successful foreplay because it takes a woman a longer time [than a man] to get up to the level of arousal needed to orgasm.
A man can just think about sex and have an erection, but for most women, wanting sex is not enough

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Foreplay serves a physical and emotional purpose, helping prepare both mind and body for sex. Many women need to be kissed, hugged, and caressed to create lubrication in the vagina, which is important for comfortable intercourse.

Woman especially needs emotional assurance that the man she's about to have sex with really wants to be with her.

Hope it Helps. 😊🇮🇳

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[hahahmm]

No but I suspect that in most cases where foreplay does not happen & she is turned on (without physical contact) she’s using memories of past foreplay events or even somebody else’s memory (movie/video/saw other couples making out). So in that sense it is kinda foreplay.

If you have good chemistry with someone it means you can trigger that stuff very, very easily in each other.

[guilly18butnot]

Not to my experience, although I believe they do in a great amount.

But so do men, as foreplay can be as fun or more fun than real sex, and that is a fact for both men and women alike.

However, as you are a male seeking for advice, beware that a good foreplay could be the path to great sex. And also, beware, that the best sex you will experience will be the one in which your generousity leads her to inmense pleasure, which in return should turn you on in equal measure.

[GuyAdviceFromGuy]

Foreplay is most of the time necessary during sex, but sometimes a girl needs to have a quickie or just bang animal style so in those cases, it's not warranted. It really depends on the situation, like if you're with a girl and the atmosphere is romantic, trying to bone her as soon as the pants come off is a huge no-no, whereas, if you've been dating for a well, then a quickie without much foreplay usually happens.

[EpicDweeb]

Virtually all women need foreplay for actually good sex. Foreplay makes their opening expand and causes their body to produce natural lubricant. In theory you can substitute this with artificial lube but you're just making it harder on yourself if you go this route. If you have trouble with finishing early just use a lot more foreplay. If you don't have that problem and have a ton of endurance you should use foreplay anyway. If you do it right she may have multiple orgasms. NEVER NEGLECT FOREPLAY. It may be possible to have good sex without foreplay but GREAT sex always includes foreplay AS WELL AS INTIMACY afterwards. (Give it like an hour or two of just intimacy with your partner after wards and it will provide a much better experience at least for her).

[r4ngeF]

some foreplays are part of every sex to men, such as they are for women.
when you "define" any action in bed as "foreplay" you already commemorate it as "something that is not a part of the sex".
99% of the women would appreciate a good "foreplay" if had the it, regardless of their own preferences... (in my opinion)
for some of us foreplays are just the viagra and restraint we need to implement on ourselves in order to have a proper fu**.

[sexywhispers]

Sometimes it's not needed, like when I wasn't my hair pulled, my wrist held above my head and my husband has his way with me. Then there are times when I love foreplay, like when it's a romantic encounter and the glide of his hand upon my skin is enough to make me cry out in ecstacy.

[Kacik]

I would say - not always... and sometimes foreplay doesn't have to be physical, if you get her in the mood some other seductive way, she can get so very horny that she can come soon and easily :-)

she can just jump on you, no foreplay and enjoy it :-) depends also on the guy´s skills

[UltraGamer]

Most due that I hear but I got lucky? My girlfriend rushes through foreplay straight to sex. And its pretty damn great sex according to her, I rather her pleasure over mine. So she's already a gushing waterfall before I eat her.

She cums extremely fast, so usually 10-14 times during sex so I probably don't want to know how much she would cum off just foreplay.

Oddly enough I've made her pass out while eating...

[Anonymous]

Usually yes, now many people many not consider that sometimes foreplay doesn’t mean physical contact, it can be simply eye contact and chemistry, particularly in situation where you can't have physical contact such as a public setting with other people in the room. The chemistry can build if they are both into each other, and then all of a sudden have sex right away once they get a chance, some people may think there is no foreplay involved in that situation, but there was

[gwail]

Not all but I would say most. Because we need to get wet before sex can start. And foreplay is what will get her wet. If you don't wait until she is wet it can cause tears in her vagina

[Hal2002]

It depends on what you mean by great sex, everyone has a different opinion as to what is great sex.

I know a few females that are into quickie sex, the say it is great sex and in most cases they don't have time for foreplay.

[MarkyyG123]

You know I never understood why a good majority of guys feel foreplay starts in the bedroom, it starts with text messages, gentle touches, sneaky pictures... it can start HOURS before you actually get to the room

That being said yes, foreplay is needed and wouldn't you want it!!!
Regardless of how wet she is, include it! She will be that much more willing and eager after it plus selflessness goes a long way

[ladsin]

My assumption is that most of the time it's appreciated, but sometimes you can have great sex by sneaking in a quickie in the Walmart dressing rooms without any foreplay.

[Lynnh]

Yes. Women take about 10-12 minutes to orgasm, if I'm not mistaken. Foreolay helps to build the orgasm up, so if you want your partner to climax, definitely go for it.

[VoidSkipper]

All women? Of course not. Quite a few of them? Yes.
And even those that do NOT need it usually don't mind coming a few times more before sex starts.
Especially if you remember that the more often a woman comes the more excited her nerves are to stimuli and the quicker she will come the next time. Making it easier for the man to look especially good during sex.

[ScottL]

Most, if not all, girls need to be sexually stimulated before having sex. Their vagina is pretty dry otherwise. So, yes, if you want to have "great" sex with them, you need to get them wet first.

Most girls only reach orgasm by clitoral simulation. Like it or not, guys are not biologically designed to stimulate the clit AND have intercourse without some form of foreplay... Which is why most girls will play with themselves while you're in them.

[amarahorrorstory]

You don't always need it depending on the woman but it's like having a meal without a drink.

[Robsinsf53]

I answered yes knowing thats not the right answer. Everyones body is different so I answered yes because I love performing the foreplay as much as she likes to recieve...

[_Amanda]

I don't need much in order to be satisfied in bed. I can totally have a great sex session without foreplay. So no, not all women.

[sawno]

Why would you skip on foreplay? Teases greatly enhance the experience and strength of anyone's orgasm male or female.

[RBD12]

I don't know but I don't think so. For those who are married sometimes you may need to do a quick one lol.

[Anonymous]

I voted "no" because there is nothing abut women and sex that is universally true. However, great sex means both people are equally aroused and most women need much more foreplay than men to get sufficiently aroused to have an orgasm. MOST women need seduction, a slow build up, gradually more frenetic foreplay, before they are ready for the grand finale.

[Samantha07]

Yes , love it! But I don't mind diving in right away, I prefer to have all kinds , with foreplay, without foreplay, with long foreplay, with short foreplay etc , lol

[shreya_shiry]

Some women need it some don't. In my case foreplay is very important for leading to great sex. I don't mind long slow or hard foreplay. Makes me really horny n ready for real action. It's kind of build up for great sex.

[CindyRuns]

To me, the more the better... that said, a quickie once in a while is nice too !!!

[babygirl646_2012]

Good and long foreplay always helps to have an even more intense orgasm.

[kaskas19]

Of course not ALL women do. But most do.

It helps get them in the mood, it even more in the mood. It also helps lubricate the vagina.

[DanishSaint]

ummm... In my experience, not all women, no. Not every time anyway...

That only goes for myself, apparantly...

[Mlily55]

Yes. Sex without foreplay leaves me feeling like I’m lacking something

[chris1984]

great sex is possible without foreplay, but foreplay makes sex better.

[smølf]

All women do need foreplay for great sex, if foreplay includes mental play or anticipation.

If you by foreplay mean something else then you need to elaborate.

[jen_phils]

I think most of the time it's really important. Having said that I've had some great sex that was very passionate where we skipped foreplay. For the most part it does make a difference though.

[Anonymous]

It depends on what they're looking for. Usually, if they're in the mood for just old fashioned pleasurable feeling yes. Sometimes they just want you to wrestle them down to the ground and fuck their brains out (the feeling of being desired that a guy just goes carnal with them because he's just that aroused by her). It depends on the mood and what they want out of it.

[Cursewords]

Most of the time yes. But you can include the foreplay stuff in with the sex.

[Aeru1231]

When I do with my boyfriend, we often don't have foreplay because we want each other soon.
Then we use a lub to get wet.
But after we do, pillow talk and flirting is important.

[23779639]

Most but not all. I personally hate it but it’s more because I hate the having attention on me it honestly turns me off. But every other girl I know needs it.

[legendaddy]

I can't really answer because I enjoy doing foreplay, Im a king on foreplay and they appreciate the effort when it's all set and done I feel like a god when they compliment and pamper me. But that's just me and my opinion.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes i imagine most women need foreplay for great sex.

[TheTruthMayHurt]

My wife used to like 15 orgasms in an hour. Now one or two and back to TV. Foreplay? Hah.

[Duke1985]

Not especially for great sex, but for great orgasms it id highly recommended

[front2back]

From my experience, good foreplay is like 80% of it for the woman.

[Anonymous]

I certainly do not need foreplay. I am always wet and horny. That is why a Saturday morning quickie is so good. Start the day with a terrific orgasm!

[raggmopp]

If I'm already in the mood then I don't necessarily need it but if I'm not then yes I need foreplay to get there.

[laurieluvsit]

For the girl foreplay and great sex are one in the same.
For most guys great sex is "Does she swallow?"... lol

[Anonymous]

Not if it's with a girl that we're having sex, so no...

[taleswapper]

Not all of them, or at least not extensive. My first wife was a fiend for spontaneous sex. We'd be out in public, and she's suddenly drag me around a corner, lift her skirt, and ask me to make her cum.

[hiteshtanwar]

Its all about the suitation and how intimate you are at tht time

[Philyouup]

I know a couple of women that aren’t big on foreplay

[clampfan101]

I know I’d like some. Not everyone is the same, though.

[EvilAngel114]

Not necessarily. Sometimes foreplay can ruin it for me.

[Elliegirl]

No, but it helps. Sometimes it’s just like let’s get down to business, but about 95% of the time, I’ve got to be warmed up first for it to be good.

[Anonymous]

I (mostly) need foreplay to get on the mood and really horny, otherwise I don't enjoy it. I can still have sex though.

[MissDyno]

I think the many do, but some women like me don’t need it or want it. I’m definitely a minority in that though.

[Anonymous]

I need my pussy to be eaten to multiple orgasms before getting fucked. I'm single right now so I haven't had sex in about a year, I'm horny.

[Anonymous]

The whole point of foreplay is to get ready for the real action so I firmly believe that it is necessary.

[SarahsSummer]

It never hurts but isn’t always required sometimes we’re just good to go.

[PinkMichae]

Most of the time. But from time to time you can take us by surprise.

[hotgirl55]

You need it if you don’t have lube so the body can make natural lube aka getting wet

[DeadEnd_32]

God damn females are annoying. Such tedious creatures.