Do all women need foreplay for great sex?

[Pegases]

[GracefulCharm]

If you are measuring great sex as in the women having a orgasm, then it depends on lots of factors. I have read that a women is more likely to have a orgasm with a partner if he is has physical symmetrical features.

www.psychologytoday.com/.../the-truth-about-female-orgasms

Also on average women take longer to orgasm than men, so foreplay would only increase the time of sexual tension and stimulation which will allow a women to orgasm because most men cannot control their own orgasms and will end up finish before her.

From my own sexual experiences, as privileged as I was given them by amazing women. I can confirm that these studies are true. I've made a women orgasm only from foreplay, and made a women orgasm only from penetration. I take pleasure in making women orgasm during sex, and it usually requires more effort on their end to make me orgasm.

[Prof_Don]

The women *I* have been with, although she may be already wet, can always be revv'd up to a higher gear with some foreplay.

The investment of time and work in foreplay is so worth it, when I see my lady damn near begging for me to stick it in. :-D

[selfishstars]

Well, I think you need to be turned on to have great sex. When a woman becomes aroused, she produces lubricant and her vagina expands to accommodate penetration. If she isn't turned on, then sex will likely be uncomfortable or even painful.

So, the question is, is foreplay necessary for a woman to become aroused? I'd say usually, but it is possible to get turned on before anything happens with your partner, for example, if you're turned on by your own thoughts.

The type and amount of foreplay necessary for a woman to be ready for sex will vary from woman to woman, and can also vary for each woman, depending on her mood, her cycle, throughout her life, etc.

[awesomespoken]

You are right about that. Each female vagina is like a micro universe. And I'm on a journey each time

[Anonymous]

70% of women require direct clitoral stimulation to orgasm, so if they don't get that orgasm during foreplay they probably won't get one at all.

But each woman is different.

Even women themselves may avoid the things that bring them orgasmic pleasure because we are taught that the man's orgasm is more important than ours.

[awesomespoken]

Some sexual positions stimulate the clitoris

[Opinion Owner]

@awesomespoken For some women, yes. But for 70% of women that isn't enough.

[awesomespoken]

So then you would prefer oral stimulation? Would you like me to eat you out before or afterwards?

[Opinion Owner]

@awesomespoken I already explained that. Go back and read what I said.

[awesomespoken]

You said clitoral stimulation is preferred. But you do know there are ways to stimulate without oral. Such as manual stimulation or toys.

[Opinion Owner]

@awesomespoken Did I mention anything about oral? All I said was direct clitoral stimulation.

[awesomespoken]

Let's bypass that for now since there's something else you said that interests me. You said a girl is taught to withhold her orgasm for the sake of the man's pleasure. Is that something you often do?

[Opinion Owner]

@awesomespoken Not so much "withholding her orgasm" but just not seeking it, and it can happens for many reasons. It has happened to me in life, but has not been much of a problem since my 20s because I am assertive about what I need and asking for it.

[awesomespoken]

What made you change?

[Opinion Owner]

My first husband and I split up.

[Pegases]

How did you come up with 70%?

[Opinion Owner]

Oh, several studies have been done. Google "what percentage of women orgasm from vaginal intercourse".

[kaylaS91]

no, not all.
Just like guys don't need physical stimulation to get a hard-on, some women (myself included) are already wet beforehand and can jump straight to sex.

[awesomespoken]

But you aren't always wet. Something beforehand must make you get turned on. If it's not foreplay then what is it m

[kaylaS91]

@awesomespoken true. It is my mind and dirty thoughts I have.

[awesomespoken]

So can you make yourself orgasm from thoughts alone?

[kaylaS91]

@awesomespoken .. orgasm? No. orgasm=/= wetness.

[awesomespoken]

Yes I realize that. However I was curious that if you can make yourself wet maybe you could make yourself climax. I've heard it's possible. So you would say you have a very dirty mind then

[TallGuy96]

Men can (and do) turn themselves on too using only their thoughts, but they definitely don't need foreplay to orgasm, either men are too fast to orgasm or women need time to.

[roycejohnson]

Agreed. Not necessarily necessary. Esp if the guy has a great big cock and is an awesome fuck 😂

[roycejohnson]

Sometimes you can just throw a little spit on it

[Kiki98]

I dont need foreplay, but the longer the foreplay the better the sex, because it just build up the intensity so when the moment of relief comes it becomes heavenly

[awesomespoken]

Have you ever timed your orgasms?

[Kiki98]

Well I said it makes sex better, but I don't "NEED" it. Sometimes I'm already so turned on and want it right away

[awesomespoken]

Do you cum harder from sex or masturbation?

[strangytie]

Foreplay is what makes the hips go round.

[awesomespoken]

What kind of firewood drives you crazy?

[Kacik]

I would say - not always... and sometimes foreplay doesn't have to be physical, if you get her in the mood some other seductive way, she can get so very horny that she can come soon and easily :-)

she can just jump on you, no foreplay and enjoy it :-) depends also on the guy´s skills

[Gyrfalcon]

Is it more common or less that you don’t have foreplay?

[Kacik]

@Gyrfalcon depends on the partner... with my current one I have it more often, I enjoy it greatly... but I enjoy everything a lot with him... He´s the best yet ;-) so even building the mood is easier and quicker... he enjoys eating me and I enjoy giving him bj, more than with previous ones... It´s also about giving pleasure than just receiving it :)

[laurieluvsit]

For the girl foreplay and great sex are one in the same.
For most guys great sex is "Does she swallow?"... lol

[awesomespoken]

I get off only by watching her get off

[dizmuhjam]

Mmmmmh.. No.. it is funny of you to say that but Thats not true. If she's awkward or a dead fish that simply lays there and receives instead also taking a little of the active part, Its Bad sex.

[guilly18butnot]

Not to my experience, although I believe they do in a great amount.

But so do men, as foreplay can be as fun or more fun than real sex, and that is a fact for both men and women alike.

However, as you are a male seeking for advice, beware that a good foreplay could be the path to great sex. And also, beware, that the best sex you will experience will be the one in which your generousity leads her to inmense pleasure, which in return should turn you on in equal measure.

[Aeru1231]

When I do with my boyfriend, we often don't have foreplay because we want each other soon.
Then we use a lub to get wet.
But after we do, pillow talk and flirting is important.

[Being_a_good_Indian]

It's particularly important for women to have successful foreplay because it takes a woman a longer time [than a man] to get up to the level of arousal needed to orgasm.
A man can just think about sex and have an erection, but for most women, wanting sex is not enough

consciouslifenews.com/.../...-woman-compressed.jpg

Foreplay serves a physical and emotional purpose, helping prepare both mind and body for sex. Many women need to be kissed, hugged, and caressed to create lubrication in the vagina, which is important for comfortable intercourse.

Woman especially needs emotional assurance that the man she's about to have sex with really wants to be with her.

Hope it Helps. 😊🇮🇳

#WomenForeplay

[Mlily55]

Yes. Sex without foreplay leaves me feeling like I’m lacking something

[VoidSkipper]

All women? Of course not. Quite a few of them? Yes.
And even those that do NOT need it usually don't mind coming a few times more before sex starts.
Especially if you remember that the more often a woman comes the more excited her nerves are to stimuli and the quicker she will come the next time. Making it easier for the man to look especially good during sex.

[snowangle]

Generally yes, but occasionally a quicky is fine.

[awesomespoken]

When do you want the quickie?

[snowangle]

@awesomespoken I don't know, when the mood calls for it but time is short?

[awesomespoken]

Do you ever go for quick hookups?

[AthleticMom]

Great sex cums in all forms
from quickie lunch sex
to all night long resort hotel sex

[awesomespoken]

Would you say you get more sexual as you age?

[AthleticMom]

@awesomespoken Of course, the kind that is not so hormone driven

[awesomespoken]

What do you mean not hormone driven?

[ScottL]

Most, if not all, girls need to be sexually stimulated before having sex. Their vagina is pretty dry otherwise. So, yes, if you want to have "great" sex with them, you need to get them wet first.

Most girls only reach orgasm by clitoral simulation. Like it or not, guys are not biologically designed to stimulate the clit AND have intercourse without some form of foreplay... Which is why most girls will play with themselves while you're in them.

[Lynnh]

Yes. Women take about 10-12 minutes to orgasm, if I'm not mistaken. Foreolay helps to build the orgasm up, so if you want your partner to climax, definitely go for it.

[awesomespoken]

How long does it take you personally to orgasm?

[babygirl646_2012]

Good and long foreplay always helps to have an even more intense orgasm.

[awesomespoken]

What's the longest orgasm you have had?

[babygirl646_2012]

Felt like an eternity to me I don't know maybe like 2 or 3 minutes

[babygirl646_2012]

What was your longest?

[Mattbowles]

Really girl are lucky tho they can cum and keep going it's harder for lads

[awesomespoken]

Wow. My longest isn't that long but I'll last for an hour or more usually

[babygirl646_2012]

Lucky for the girl

[awesomespoken]

I wish I had a girl who could orgasm for several minutes too. Do you get super tense when that happens?

[EvilAngel114]

Not necessarily. Sometimes foreplay can ruin it for me.

[Pegases]

That's interesting. Do tell

[EvilAngel114]

Most times I just want to get right to business. If he waits too long... the feeling goes away. And other times guys are just bad at foreplay to a point where it’s a turn-off.

[awesomespoken]

You mean a turn off like biting a girls clitoris? Because that's something a girl told me actually happened to her

[Dee12]

Pshh fuck yea.. I know I do lol

[CindyRuns]

To me, the more the better... that said, a quickie once in a while is nice too !!!

[awesomespoken]

Can it ever be too much?

[GuyAdviceFromGuy]

Foreplay is most of the time necessary during sex, but sometimes a girl needs to have a quickie or just bang animal style so in those cases, it's not warranted. It really depends on the situation, like if you're with a girl and the atmosphere is romantic, trying to bone her as soon as the pants come off is a huge no-no, whereas, if you've been dating for a well, then a quickie without much foreplay usually happens.

[amarahorrorstory]

You don't always need it depending on the woman but it's like having a meal without a drink.

[awesomespoken]

That's the best way to explain it that I've heard yet

[gwail]

Not all but I would say most. Because we need to get wet before sex can start. And foreplay is what will get her wet. If you don't wait until she is wet it can cause tears in her vagina

[Aparnam]

Don't mind me asking but what's foreplay?

[awesomespoken]

Foreplay is the getting ready for sex part. Teasing, stroking, licking, petting, etc

[gwail]

@Aparnam long hugs. Dirty talk. Kissing. Spanking. Groping. Blow jobs. Fingering. Massaging that kind of stuff

[Aparnam]

Ohh... thanks

[awesomespoken]

Let me know of there's anything else

[Aparnam]

No no Thanks

[mspngs93]

Yup!