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Guys, would you rather have sex with no condom and not cum, have have sex with condom?

This happened to me with this guy. He would not use a condom and just never cum (I use birth control but he doesn't know). Is this common? He also told me he has always used condom with other girls because he is really scared they have his baby (I know him as friend for too long so it's definitely true). It's a bit weird but just wondering what's going on in his mind when doing this. Does he not mind if I had his baby?

would appreciate your opinion!
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  • Oooooooh. God damn it. That's a really unsatisfying ultimatum. I frankly loathe condoms. It's difficult for me to stay hard when I use them. I just won't have sex, if she wants me to use a condom. I need to get a vasectomy, so that will become a non-issue. So, that would be my solution. But I don't want children, ever.

    I mean. I would reaaaaaaally want to cum. So, I would try the condom, I guess.

    He doesn't cum, at all? Or he just pulls out?

    I would easily pick sex without a condom and pulling out. Which has been shown to be as effective as condom use, when taking into account people misusing condoms. Which most people do.

  • Without is always better, condoms get in the way and take quite of bit of the turn on away. Also, If you are on birth control and having sex it's fine to began with. But the second part of your question about you having his baby is only able to be answered by him. To be honest.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Why don't you tell him you are on BC?

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  • For your question, no condom. I used the pullout method and shoot the cannon above the foxhole for years. Can't feel anything with one on. His fear about babies is the responsibility unless he is in a highly committed relationship.

  • There are no other girls.

    I don't think having sex without a condom when you don't want a baby is very safe at all.

  • Just an FYI, guys still release some sperm before they cum. That's just when most of it comes out. If he's relying on that to not get people pregnant, he's going to have a kid before too long.

  • You can still get an std from him. If he does not cum that means no orgasm for him... sounds kinda stupid.

  • Stupid question. Why would you want to miss out on the most pleasurable act as a human? Condom of course.

  • No he knows you wouldn’t deliberately trap him

  • I would rather have a condom on and cum than not cumming. It's a waste of time if I don't!

  • I'd rather have sex without a condom but I don't have an issue with condoms

  • Have sex with condom.
    I don't trust myself

  • Sex with a condom is nice certainly not as sweet as bareback but nice. I’m sure a guy can cum with a condom on it just takes longer for certain guys, I would think that should make things even better but some people just don’t appreciate that prolonged time when it takes a little or more effort to cum. Those guys you girls love so. Smh

  • Condom and cum obviously! What's with all the posts about not using condoms - if it's a new partner it's an obvious choice, if it's not a new partner then birth control is cool

  • I'd rather go bareback. Nothing about his actions seem odd to me - he probably just trusts you more since you've been friends awhile

  • Nope... May be he might know that u are on birth control...
    Or his dick should feel ur actual taste

  • No condom for me. i hate it.

  • Condoms don’t bother me.

  • Few gals out there that will experience me not cumming no matter what
    so faced with a baby changing our lives, careers, future insulation from hardships... rubber please + BC pills + whatever else possible!

  • Condoms are always the better bet to use. The protect against a lot of STD's and the guy can also orgasm. Use a condom just to be safe.

  • That's risky I Would never do that.

  • Condom definitely

  • Pull out and cum on your fAce if it is an option

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