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  • temporary insanity.

    nah, maybe he wasn't in the mood, or doesn't enjoy them. ask him, no judgement.

    • If I ask him it will be a huge ordeal. That’s pretty much out of the question. He’s a yeller and I can’t handle it. lol

    • and sounds like its a casual thing until his long term "comes back". i'd assume he's in a bad headspace by the rest of your descriptions of the night. either doesn't feel like sex, or doesn't want it from anyone but her at that moment.

  • Have you gone down on him before? It could be a lot of things. Are you having sex?

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  • Personally I am not a fan. Some guys just aren't into it.

    • Yeah there's sanitary to think of too

  • Might not have been in the mood and didn't want to present you with a limp dick

  • only because he is holding out for vag/other sex
    or
    he's not meant to be with you, so many others a better match that always say YES

  • If I hadn't freshened up. Don't want to be funky.

    • Very true. It did cross my mind earlier in the day. 😂

  • Maybe too much teeth scraping

    • I understand that but we have sex quite often and he says he would like a bj a day? Tonight it was all going fine and he simply turned around to the opposite side of the bed? He has been talking to his girlfriend of 15 yes. I’m so confused and feel really, really dumb!

    • So he's dating both at same time?

    • Supposedly not? I know he’s in love with her so I feel like he’s using me until she finally says come back.

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  • either you're using your teeth, or too much soft so he's not enjoying it !
    you need a firm lip grip and slower act, concentrate more on the shaft (especially the backside of it) and more sucking once a while ! ...

  • Don;t read too much into this? He might just not feel like being touched. Women say it all the time. Old girls friends is not a reason. Rash, soreness or hot and sweaty are more likely. Bad day at work or bad news is just as likely. About your age? with real man concerns? Thia very or most likely not about you.

  • Maybe he was insecure about how clean it was or he had issues with his penis (does he have to plan sexual activities lately?) or he is an idiot

    • He does have that little problem at times but they certainly wasn’t the case tonight. lol. The only thing is I can figure it he got his goodnight from his ex earlier. He certainly didn’t seem to mind last night.

    • If he's messing with his ex he doesn't deserve a bj

  • Maybe he didn't think he would get hard... maybe he needed to say something.. I tried to pm you but you need to be following me

  • Perhaps his junk was stinky... or he was tired and just wanted to get to the deed and then sleep..

  • Because he doesn't want a blowjob

  • I am. at a lost or you have horrible lips lol

  • Maybe his dick broken, idk? But if you looking to give head, I'll gladly take his place 😂😂😂

  • Thats one stupid boyfriend 😂

  • i dont know

    • I understand that but we have sex quite often and he says he would like a bj a day? Tonight it was all going fine and he simply turned around to the opposite side of the bed? He has been talking to his girlfriend of 15 yes. I’m so confused and feel really, really dumb!

  • He is not interested in u

    • I’m leaning in your direction. For instance, they may have made some sort of “romantic” jester towards each other to stay faithful to one another! lol Heck, I dunno. Maybe?

    • Lol... Move on

    • Yep! Will be moving in the next day or so. I’m pretty certain he will be very mean about it all to make me the “bad” one. I am a bit worried about it. Any advice on keeping it amicable and adult like?

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  • Are you asking the right question? You say he is seeing his ex and you can't ask him, because you're sure he would yell at you. I don't know you, but seems like you could do better.

  • You migh not be that good at them.

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