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My white boyfriend has a black girl fetish but look at me?

My white boyfriend has a black girl fetish but look at me?


My white boyfriend has a black girl fetish but look at me?



Basically the below message was what I recently posted. Now here is my picture not that it matters, but what can I do make myself more attractive to someone who has a black fetish? Is it the skin colour only or body or what I’m fucking confused!! I tried a fake tan once which is stupid because I’m already tan and he said I shouldn’t without any reason which just made me feel like I’m not good enough to that dark sexy skin that he likes.



We’ve been together 4 Years hell even have a baby together. I know he loves me, but do I stack up against his black girl fetish?

he's never had a girlfriend who is black, he has only ever fantasised about them. His porn always comes up on his phone and they are always black girls.

He never intentionally does anything to hurt me or patronise me, he doesn’t even talk about it. He’s almost ashamed.. he didn’t admit it for so long. But he is still sexually obsessed with him.
is it possible to only find them
sexually attractive? Why does he find love with white women instead of black women if he likes black porn?

We split once and he immediately tried to have sex with a black girl for the first time. for some reason he had to admit it to me he basically couldn’t get it up because she wasn’t what he expected yet he still fucking watches them fuck!
And it’s usually black on black sex not a white male having sex with a black female.

i know he has his thing and I don’t want to but am I better off finding someone who prefers my look/skin?
Does this mean he loves me less?

im also not a racist, I don’t have a fetish for black women but I do find some to be extremely beautiful and that just makes it worse.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • If he wad overwhelmed by it when you split, have you asked exactly what about it is hot? Maybe it's the woman's behaviour in the porn. Seems like you could role play. Watch a porn with him to figure it out. Everyone has a forbidden desire. Finding a way to explore it and not him feel bad about it is true intimacy

  • A petty fetish that he has no real interests in exploring or it seems like or he already would have. I don't date black women either even if I think their pretty because ultimately I like white women more.

    • What do you think about him attempting to sleep with one when we took a break? It didn’t happen as he said it wasn’t what he thought it would be like.. yet he’s still watching them?

    • I don't know , maybe he just needs a black woman if that's really his thing. Shame to snuff out races by mixing them together like that but if it's really his thing maybe that's what he needs to be satisfied.

Most Helpful Girls

  • If he wasn't attracted to you and didn't love you he wouldn't be dating you. It's amazes how many girls have yet to understand that.

    If he wanted a black girl he would be dating one.

    • So if he doesn’t want a black girl why is that his sexual prefernce? That’s what I’m getting at. I’m not saying he doesn’t love me, but my ideal would be for him to find me as sexy as he does them obviously. Dont be amazrd

    • Maybe he's always fantasized about having sex with a black girl. After all porn is more fantasy than reality. He probably does find you as sexy but when it comes to porn he probably just wants to watch something that he is curious about (black women and sex with a black woman)

    • Do you think fetishes like this usually end in them making a move?

  • Hmm honestly if he really enjoys it and craves it sexually why don't you enjoy it with him at least once explore his fetish

  • He's weird and creepy and that's disrespectful to you. Don't change. It's not you, it's him.

  • Wow your replies to some people are instant racist. Darkies? Wow really? Way to be racist

    • Thanks but no thanks Kitty. My mother is black, I have a black cultural background and In fact I’m the only white skinned person in my family besides my father. I am in technically a “darkie” myself.

    • That's still a racist term sweetie

    • And you’re just an idiot. BYEEEEE SWEETIE

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Maybe he's curious but probably can't handle it if it was a real life situation soo no I don't think he loves you less because he's fetishizing black women it's like when guys dream about having a threesome but then choke on the last minute
    grabporn. me/.../

  • He is a closet racist

  • You’re worried about something that is not a threat. It’s similar to worrying about the end of the world

  • i didn't read a word... but if he leavin, i know a dude :)

    #noshame

  • It's alright. It's a fetish. Guy nature wants to bang variety, but we won't because we are not animals. lol.
    So, we compromise and rub one out to a pornstar or something and end it there.

    You should worry when he wanting girls who look like you. That means you're getting replaced. LOL!!!

  • If he really loves you, he'll dump any girl for you. It sounds like to me, He'd rather be with someone else. I'm so sorry! You're so cute, why would he want someone else?

  • Coal burners should not be dated, its a red flag.

  • A fetish for black girls doesn't mean that he doesn't find you attractive or that he will ever feel the necessity to find a black girl

  • You're black

  • Baby 😮😮😮😮

  • He doesn't know what he will be missing.. you are gorgeous!

    • But he will loose out on you.. if i were him i would leave the fetish atsomething i fantasise about but i would be thrilled that i have someone like you

  • your awesome

  • It’s probably just a fetish watch black porn with him see what happens ur very sexy to

  • I know this is old but the ignorance in the post is strong, it is evident that u are insecure in ur self and you find that in what ur boyfriend is interested in. First off ur boyfriend is weird for fetishizing black women bc we r more than sex. Second ur responses r distasteful , I truly believe u and ur man need to do some self reflecting bc this is weird.

  • I know this is old but the ignorance in the post is strong, it is evident that u are insecure in ur self and you find that in what ur boyfriend is interested in. First off ur boyfriend is weird for fetishizing black women bc we r more than sex. Second ur responses r distasteful , I truly believe u and ur man need to do some self reflecting bc this is weird.

  • Why are whities so jealous and insecure, not only are you a racist insecure white female but your just projecting your low self esteem on to black women. You and your imaginary boyfriend are just a bunch of weirdos.

  • Damn he a fool but ask him if you can fuck a black man
    Now question is do you want to fuck a black man be honest

  • You look great, if he wanted a woman of color he should have started dating outside of his preference. That's not fair to you!

  • Hell, I don’t understand your boyfriend. You look gorgeous!!

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