I met a guy on new years, we made out m, he fingered me and I gave him a blowjob.. he added me on facebook?

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I went out to a club with my friends to celebrate new year.. There were some friends of my girl bestfriend and one of them started dancing with me right away.. I was a little bit drunk and I enjoyed it. After a few minutes things heated up and we started making out and he was feeling me up (under my tshirt, he touched my butt a lot and kissed my neck...). We did that for about 20 minutes and then he said he wants to go out. We went out and he put me against the wall and started kissing me, he was telling me how hot and attractive I am and what he would do to me.. Honestly, I really liked it :) he invited me to his place but I said I can’t go, because parents are going to pick me up later.. we went to a park, where we were alone and he started fingering me, he said he wanted me so badly and his dick was really hard for one hour.. he wanted to have sex with me, but when I told him I have never had sex before he was really understanding and said that we should do that some other day, in bed.. Then he put his dick out and I gave him a handjob and later I continued by giving him head.. he really liked it.. Later he fingered me 2 more times and then we went home..
A day later he added me on facebook and asked me what did my parents say and that we should take things further.. the problem is that he is leaving to go study abroad in 3 days.. i said I would love to meet him (which is very true) but I have to study for an upcoming exam, which is exactly on the day of his departure.. he understood me and said that he returns home often.. after that i asked him what he told my friend about what we did, and he said that the only thing she knows is that we made out..
it’s been two days and he hasn’t texted me nothing else, I am concerned, because I really like him.. what should I do, he is leaving tomorrow... do you think he genuinly likes me (if he added me on facebook and instagram)..
Thank you for your answers!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I know that you won't want to hear this but unfortunately, by the sounds of your interactions with him you do not seem to have any deeper connection than sex, your main priority together is to have sex but not to meet so you can get to know each other more. If he is leaving soon I wouldn't just hand your virginity to him because he fingered you a few times.

-Beonkia · Accepted Answer

Uhh you were drunk. And you only met him for how many days? If meeting someone starts out with sex then he doesn't love you like that

QueenofCups · Accepted Answer

Sounds like he likes you, but he's really busy. Give him like a week to get settled in, then Messenger him.

Buckzor · Accepted Answer

I would say he wants sex more than anything else. Most obvious from the "take things further" comment, seems his intentions are set on a fling more than anything else, especially since he's leaving to study abroad.

chaostheory81 · Accepted Answer

If he has ignored you since figuring out he isn't getting laid before he leaves... What does that tell you?

ch1pmunk143 · Answer

He seems like he kinda just wanted you while drunk and then wanted in your pants

justjoshky · Answer

It's highly probable he just wanted sex with you and that's it and since you are unable to put out that may be why he's warning in but there could be other reasons to you now so hopefully you guys