Guys, My boyfriend constantly pointing out other women's bodies to me. Disrepectful or not?
The start of our relationship he appeared very kind, considerate and mature. As of recently, I'm starting to see different sides of him that are raising a lot of doubts to me. For the sake of this post I'll just start with this one. He has made comments on how much he finds me attractive from time to time, but lately he's been making a lot comments about other women to me.
Everytime an attractive women is on one of his social media news feeds he makes a point to scroll back up to gawk and comment "wow great tits" etc. Normally I just ignore it and brush it off, but lately is become obsessive and crossing a line. I've expressed that I find it annoying, but I don't want to make him feel like he can't be open with me. I understand that beauty is everywhere, and of course there's nothing wrong with noticing and even acknowledging, but I when I'm being ignored mid response bc he's gawking at another attractive women walking by it feels rude.
I just feel like there's a line, and then it just becomes disrespectful to to the women your with. I'm not one of the bros so I dont want to here all about another women's "ass and titties" especially when it's just the two of us. It feels insulting to me. I wouldn't care if he was hanging out with the guys, but you seriously going to make constant remarks about another women's breast or what not when you've got a perfect pair sitting right next you.
He has an extremely flirty personality and his career will require him to be out of state or country for months at a time. I'm supposed to be moving in with him and across the country together next month. I'm getting cold feet. Is this a red flag? Lack of maturity? Respect? Or perfectly normal?
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