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Sex tips for virgins?

I’m dating a older guy, he’s 10 year older then me and i so happen to be a virgin I’m ready but I’m scared and he much more advance and gets mad that i know nothing. Tips?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • His negative reaction toward your lack of experience is a red flag that he isn't worth the time.

    I would wonder if he's only interested in a physical conjunction, based on such a reaction.

    Were I in your position, I would exit the relationship.

    You really should ask yourself what you want an intimate relationship to be. If your answer is simply physical, this current guy may fit.

    If you're feeling afraid, you're not actually ready.

    I realize this might not be the answer you were looking for, but you'll be glad later in life that you treated intimacy with a little reverence, and your partner treats you with respect and a dash of honor.

    • Thank you !

  • Make sure you do it when you're fully ready. If you're scared, then you're not really ready. He should also be willing to wait. When the time feels right, and you feel comfortable, then do it. Remember, sex is the best when the girl feels super comfortable. Seeing his girl feel comfortable will make the guy feel comfortable too. Just be careful and don't rush it :)

Most Helpful Girls

  • First of all. Of he gets mad that you are inexperienced. Drop that motha fucka like a hot potato. Secondly, I think the most important thing is knowing your limit. If you haven't masturbated or anything before then it may hurt so let him know when it's too much, also. Don't be afraid to make noise. Men LOVE when women moan and it also turns you on. Don't be insecure. When a guy is balls deep in you I promise you what you are concerned he might not like is the LAST thing on his mind. But just have fun. Sex is an amazing thing

  • Drop this guy, he will turn around and show you that he is a real ass and you'll regret that you ever lost your virginity to him. Losing your virginity doesn't need to be magical and perfect (it never is) but it shouldn't be something you regret.

    • Don’t listen to this pretentious cunt. Any guy you have sex with for your first time will end up breaking your heart. So you may as well get it over with..

  • Gets mad that you know nothing? Don't think he's worth giving it up to. You should have sex with someone who understands and appreciates it, not get upset over it. For a 30 year old, he sounds immature.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • In my experience, sex hurt in the beginning but gets better After. I suggest foreplay and lube first. Also, instead of him doing all the work (it gets tiring), provide half the effort.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F_hGkcrgtdc&t=119s

  • Mad at you? Tell him ok. Ill go bang of buch of other dudes and then get back to you.

  • Tips? I forgot my wallet il be right back.

    Sex tips for virgins?

  • Make Sure He Eat It First Because When You're Horny And Wet It'll Hurt Less Then After Y'all Are Done Give Him A Bj (Just Watch Some Porn )

  • How do you know nothing? I'm fucking 14 and I know everything. It's time to cram in some study. WATCH ALL THE PORN!!!

    • >does nothing but watch porn >thinks he knows everything >top kek

    • Shut it you cuck. You don't know what I know. I could show you but frankly it's illegal in the United states for a minor.

    • Thanks for the laugh, dude.

  • Find a man that has enough respect for you not to get mad and that your not afraid to have sex with.

  • Watch porn, do what is comfortable for you.

  • Use lube, and don't have super high expectations.

  • Be honest if he is a good guy he will be willing to teach you a few things.

  • If he gets mad at you for being a virgin, don't lose it to him.

  • Take it slow and absolutely communicate. Make sure the mood makes you feel relaxed and safe.

    Also, No means no. If you say you don't want to do something, he doesn't do it.

  • He gets mad? sounds like a dropkick.

  • If he’s mad that you know nothing, he’s probably not the right one for you

    • Well said. 100% agreement.

  • Use lube, and don't have super high expectations

  • Just be honest

  • Tell him to fuck off if he is mad that you don't know anything. He doesn't deserve you.

    But for tips make sure you're relaxed

  • learn to be comfortable naked, lots of lube, lots of foreplay, you may want to preinsert something to loosen up a bit and become engorged, or have him perform oral.
    Make sure the act of sex is nice n slow, and gentle.

  • He shouldn’t be mad! That’s terrible! He should help and teach you and be patient. Just be yourself and what you’re comfortable and willing to do and keep practicing and exploring and be open. You’ll keep getting better and more comfortable. Watch some porn to help or reach out to your close girl friends too. Good luck and have fun!

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