Is giving a blowjob to someone else cheating?

I was a party last week, and I have been really drunk. I meeted a guy, but I have a boyfriend (named Kenny). But in the party the guy started to make my body warm and I have what I done in the toilets party. It's for that reason that I write you now. "is giving a blowjob to someone else cheating?". Kenny don't know this story but I'm really nervous and anxious about what I've done. Thanks for your answers.
Yes
Vote A
No
Vote B
It depends of a context
Vote C
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  • It depends on your relationship. if you're open about it and have a mutual understanding of what's acceptable in your relationship, and if giving BJ's to other guys is okay, then that defines if it's cheating or not based on that agreement and in that case it wouldn't be. Maybe the agreement is it's okay for you to perform fellatio on other men while he watches, if so, if he were watching it would be okay , and if he wasn't it wouldn't be. My advice is to discuss the parameters of what's acceptable for you both and set the rules. Then, feel free to enjoy!

    Is giving a blowjob to someone else cheating?
  • I answered C.
    I personally consider it cheating. Most people consider it cheating. Though, I answered C because it's actually up to the couple. If they decide together that's it okay, then it's not cheating.
    However, since it doesn't seem like you mentionnend such a possibility with him and your nervous, I assume he'll considered you cheated.

    • ☝🏽And that is the best answer put

    • It doesn’t seem like Kenny was given the choice.

    • @Meninist That's what I think as well, that's why I wrote that he'll consider it cheating.

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  • you sucked someone off xD a step later youd be banging, so yes its cheating. IMagine your boyfriend said "oh honey i ate out a girl in the bathroom but i was drunk so its ok, i didn't cheat". You wouldn't feel good would you if he said that xD just break up with him

    • Not if it's me lol

  • Obviously yes. How would you feel if the situation was reversed? You should tell your boyfriend about it.

    • I was drunk. I'm so sorry for him, and if the situation was reserved I could easily understand

    • Being drunk is no excuse.

    • If the situation was reversed you would be really upset and feel betrayed. You wouldn't care that he was drunk it will still hurt. You wanted to blow that guy. Now you know it's a mistake. I'd tell your guy and hope he doesn't leave you. It's all you can do. He has every right to leave you for this. So you can only hope he doesn't. Don't argue with him or make excuses just tell him what you did.

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Most Helpful Guys

  • Probably yes. There are some couples that are fine with it (like mine, actually) but that's not the norm and that's something you agree to beforehand.

    Long story short a good rule of thumb is if you consider it cheating if he did something similar with another girl then you should consider it cheating for yourself.

  • Did you have sexual contact with another person? Yes, ergo you cheated on your boyfriend. Its a despicable thing to do and claiming to be drunk doesn't change that in the slightest. Your boyfriend deserves some one better then you.

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  • If he cares that you did that as he thinks you are committed to him, than the answer is yes.
    If you each don't mind if the other fools around a bit on the side, than the answer is no.

  • Anything that can be constituted as a sexual act towards someone outside the relationship can be considered as cheating in my opinion

  • Oh my. That is definitely cheating.. Some people even consider such thoughts to be cheating!

  • I think by posting this here, you know the answer to your own question. The nervous and anxious is because you know what was done was wrong and it’s starting to consume you

  • If you do something that you must hide from a partner, it is cheating.

  • yes, it is cheating

  • Yes, any form of sexual/ physical contact with someone else other than me is cheating.

    If a girl cheated on me, I'd dump her and move on, I wouldn't marry a hoe, drunk or not, cheating is still cheating.

  • Yeah not cheating. Blowjobs are just blowjobs. When I gave my first blowjob I didn’t consider it losing my virginity. So it’s not the same. Your boyfriend should just be thankful he has a fun girlfriend.

  • Well would you mind if your boyfriend ate another girl out?

  • How is this even a question you know it is if he ate out another girls pussy would you be fine with that

  • Lol of course it is not only you weren't being loyal now you're being stupid

  • It is 100% cheating. You're horrible. You should just break up. Kenny needs to know immediately.

  • Best way to know for sure is tell Kenny. What do you think his reaction will be?

    Maybe he already ate anither girls ass but didn't tell you. Would you like it if he got a blow job from some random girl at a party?

  • Yes your anxiety proves you know it’s wrong.

    You cheated on him. How would you feel if he went down on another girl?

  • The fact that you have to even ask this question means yes, it is.

  • Yes it is you in trouble now.

    You better come clean.

  • if I'm the boyfriend, yes it's cheating. if I'm the random guy that got the BJ and don't know Kenny, then no

  • That’s cheating lmao. Why would you have to ask if this is cheating?

  • Lol this is hilarious! If you are genuinely having a moral dilemma in your head if this is right or wrong god help your boyfriend

  • Anything you wouldn't want to tell your SO about is cheating.

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