Should I approach him?

Question

Alright so there’s this junior at my school who I think is just so cute and I want to mess around with him but I don’t know how to approach him. Someone told me to just go up to him and say “I want to preform cunnilinctus on you” but the more blunt version lol 😂 but I’m kinda scared of what his reaction will be
Should I do it?

Answer 1

fjh80

Xper 6

Well being that blunt might scare the s*** out of him.
Being honest about it is cool and all, but talk to the guy first.
Get to know him enough so he knows you don't just go and "cunnalinctus" and dude you cross paths with.
Let him know you just want to fool around with him, ask him what he wants to try... just talk about dirty things with him, as though it's something between the two of you.
Be careful he may fall in love or think you want to be his girlfriend.

Also, I just noticed that you're 17, and now I'm feeling a little like a creep. lol
So let me add, be responsible, and practice safe sex.
You have plenty of good times, parties and adventures ahead of you, and still plenty of time to have a family, so use protection.
Remember, guys don't respect girls who don't respect themselves. (just a bit of advice I think all young women should have)

xjxssica

+1 y
Should I text him?
fjh80

+1 y
Not a bad idea. Seems easier to talk that way. But if you talk to him, don't do it in front of his friends or yours.
Everyone acts differently in front of people.
xjxssica

+1 y
I’m so scared lol
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fjh80

+1 y
Okay, if you're scared, then get to know him first. Talk to him. It doesn't have to be dirty talk.
Bottom line is, don't open with, "hey can i...(you know what goes here)."
There's no harm in talking to him, and getting to know him. You'll feel more confident.
You have to trust him before you share too much. If he's the wrong ki d of person, you could end up being humiliated like the other guy mentioned.
Being so young, and having to deal with such things, the idea of "exploring" might be appealing.

Also, I'm way older, and trying to give advice. Can someone tell me if I'm crossing a line or being inappropriate?
I want to give good advice, but I don't want to cross any lines.
xjxssica

+1 y
I texted him on Snapchat and I said “Hey you should play me in cup pong”
fjh80

+1 y
Rudon30
Check out his advice as well.

Answer 2

xjxssica

Should I text him?

Answer 3

fjh80

Not a bad idea. Seems easier to talk that way. But if you talk to him, don't do it in front of his friends or yours.
Everyone acts differently in front of people.

Answer 4

xjxssica

I’m so scared lol

Answer 5

fjh80

Okay, if you're scared, then get to know him first. Talk to him. It doesn't have to be dirty talk.
Bottom line is, don't open with, "hey can i...(you know what goes here)."
There's no harm in talking to him, and getting to know him. You'll feel more confident.
You have to trust him before you share too much. If he's the wrong ki d of person, you could end up being humiliated like the other guy mentioned.
Being so young, and having to deal with such things, the idea of "exploring" might be appealing.

Also, I'm way older, and trying to give advice. Can someone tell me if I'm crossing a line or being inappropriate?
I want to give good advice, but I don't want to cross any lines.

Answer 6

xjxssica

I texted him on Snapchat and I said “Hey you should play me in cup pong”

Answer 7

fjh80

Rudon30
Check out his advice as well.

Answer 8

Rudon30

Xper 7

Noway do not do it unless you are planning to really humiliate yourself before him and his friends and the entire school. If you want to approach him. Warm his warmth. Talk about something that's of intrest to him to spawn a continuous conversation. Be polite madam as well

fjh80

+1 y
I have to agree with this guy.
xjxssica

+1 y
I texted him and I said “hey you should play me in cup pong”
Rudon30

+1 y
Hmmm.
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xjxssica

+1 y
You do know iIt’s a game on iPhone right?
That’s good right?
fjh80

+1 y
It's a good start. Get to know what kind of person he is.
fjh80

+1 y
I assumed as much. It's a good start. You're on neutral ground there.

Answer 9

fjh80

I have to agree with this guy.

Answer 10

xjxssica

I texted him and I said “hey you should play me in cup pong”

Answer 11

Rudon30

Hmmm.

Answer 12

xjxssica

You do know iIt’s a game on iPhone right?
That’s good right?

Answer 13

fjh80

It's a good start. Get to know what kind of person he is.

Answer 14

fjh80

I assumed as much. It's a good start. You're on neutral ground there.

Answer 15

HeresssJonny

Xper 2

Fortune favors the bold. Plus he could be like me and be into and just way to shy to put himself out thier. I wish it where more of a norm for girls to put the moves on guys. Its up to brave young lassies like you to help the social structure get to 2018. Go get him lady tiger.

Answer 16

Rescue22

Xper 2

You know what gets me? What if there was someone just like you here thinking about me like this back in high school? Damn, better not to think about that now 😂. Anyways, you could always just approach him. Do that and make yourself open to him and don't be intimidating and he's practically yours if y'all click. Hope this helps!

Answer 17

Cuintan

Xper 6

Er, cunnilingus would be you eating his cunt. You can try it.

Answer 18

RickyRD

Xper 2

Yeah but don't say that just play it cool Say your cute but indirectly

xjxssica

+1 y
Indirectly?
RickyRD

+1 y
Like flirt with him
xjxssica

+1 y
But we don’t talk it’s weirder if I just go up to him and I’m like hey you’re cute
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RickyRD

+1 y
One day go up and talk to him introduce yourself and go with the flow
xjxssica

+1 y
He knows who I am I have him on Snapchat
xjxssica

+1 y
Our school is small we know that each other

Answer 19

xjxssica

Indirectly?

Answer 20

RickyRD

Like flirt with him

Answer 21

xjxssica

But we don’t talk it’s weirder if I just go up to him and I’m like hey you’re cute

Answer 22

RickyRD

One day go up and talk to him introduce yourself and go with the flow

Answer 23

xjxssica

He knows who I am I have him on Snapchat

Answer 24

xjxssica

Our school is small we know that each other

Answer 25

joenno

Xper 2

If you wanna start a conversation just talk about schoolwork/a common interest so it's more natural... then as the convo continues you can flirt, etc.