Is Being Promiscuous Bad?

[UnknownReflection]

Yes it is bad.

However; i do not judge anyone accordingly and i never disrespect someone because of it. So in terms of your options; slut shaming is never okay. We should learn to respect people's choices and decisions.

I oppose promiscuous culture. Simply because it's against my values and principles. I've been raised to not undo my belt for every woman in the corner. I'm into commitment and loyalty rather than casual lifestyle.

Moreover; i believe promiscuous culture is hurting people's mentality. It appears fun and liberating but subconsciously everyone get involve in the battle of everything we are seeing today. A world full of stress and anxiety where a noticeable percentage of these anxieties rooted in people's concern and insecurity over Body shapes; sizes and measurements. Many relationships get into conflict because people can't help but to compare each other with their previous encounters and setting expectations accordingly not realizing the fact that everyone are different and suppose to look and behave differently.

Further; Promiscuous culture put sex at the center of life. Personally i am a very dirty minded person. But sex is not the most important element in human life. Sex is part of life; not life part of sex. But promiscuous culture directing people into worshiping sex as the only core and value of our lives. Everything starts; continues and ends with sex. People literally communicating with their genitalia nowadays. The concept of intellectual conversations is sitting in history. Now it's rarely rude to think about sex while interacting with an opposite sex. It's a social norm now; everyone expect each other to get into each other's pants after the first greetings. Which makes me so sad that many people having such horrible social values and loose life principles.

Additionally; health is another factor. We all can get STD's when we get sexually active. Not every STD is deadly. Many remain silent forever. However; the more partners; the more the risk of more and deadlier STD's. Even condom can't protect certain type of STD's. So people don't know in what kind of risk they put themselves into. The worst part; they don't bother to even get STD test at least every six months. Then they question pornstars. Professional pornstars required to get tested every two weeks to be able to work legally. Meanwhile; people get unprotected sex with thousand of partners before 20's without even getting tested even once. The irony.

Good Luck.

[LegateLanius]

Specifics and circumstances play a part for me. If this all happened in a really short time or she happened to cheat, or it was mostly while drunk, no fucking way. I also don't really care for anything involving more than the two of us after starting to date

[oOsecret_starlandsOo]

Can we just keep our romantic lives private and stop forcing our petty opinions on others.

Saying everyone needs to be a virgin is just as bad as forcing everyone to agree with promiscuity.

Its a stupid concept for both men and women, since humans are mate-for-life type organisms that dual parent offspring.

Why on earth would you risk being impregnated or impregnating some random person, knowing the biological and resourceful demand of a baby?

I wonder how "promiscuous," people would be if we had no birth control.

Thats right ladies, how much cookie are you willing to 'share' when your chances of becoming pregnant are 80-90%?

Fellas, is that one night fling really worth having a bunch of kids running around to father?

What about the message you as a promiscuous mom or dad, just adult actually, portrays to the youth?

Its okay for an 18yr old to be promiscuous, but its not okay for a 12yr old?

Why not? she's just following the great example society has set for her.

Its just dumb.

If you're offended its because you realize its dumb, you're dumb for doing it, and support adolescent sex, unintended pregnancy and perpetuating the idea that humans can not reason past that of an animal which is controlled by pure instinct.

In fact, if thats okay, murder should be okay too... why?

Because killing is NATURAL.

How about just being adult enough to admit you can't control your own impulses enough to think about the next generation you're influencing.

Lol and then- have the audacity to say "I dont support a woman getting an abortion," or "I dont support teen pregnancy,"

Guess who they learn casual sex is okay from?

YOU.

If you feel that strongly about casual sex, then dont be surprised about the affects it causes.

Lol promiscuity is "natural," prostitutes are promiscuous and what is their reputation like?

This is basically a glorified way of prostitution, but you dont even get paid, with all the other risks involved.

At least make some money lol

[LittleSally]

It's bad... at least in my moral viewpoint, but slut shaming is not okay. At least not if not asked... If asked - give your honest opinion... and I do... not wanting to shame anyone, just stating the facts... Which can be viewed as slut shaming, because everything nowadays is seen as shaming of some kind instead of just stating the facts.
Shaming is only if it's meant malignantly or worded in an awkward way so it might be seen as shaming, but it may not be in actuality.

[_Enigma_]

If that's what you wanna do, go for it. And I don't personally see anything wrong with slut shaming tbh. I encourage people to speak their minds and not worry so much about hurting someone's fee fees, especially these days. People need to grow up and not get offended by words. Offensive cannot be given, it can only be taken - and if you choose to take offence to someone calling you a slut, then don't be a slut. Or just don't choose to get offended by it.

[MissLogical]

Being promiscuous is okay when both people want the same thing. If one person thinks that it's going to be a relationship and the other wants just sex, it's not okay. Also, if said promiscuous person cheats, it's bad and I believe in that case slutshaming is okay. So there isn't really a yes or no since it depends on the situation. People shouldn't get shamed just because they enjoy sex and have a mutual agreement with another person for sex.

[j3ss1ca]

I don't see anything wrong with it, hell I'm pretty promiscuous myself, but I can understand why people may consider it a bad thing. That said, it doesn't make slut shaming okay because what I choose to do with my body really doesn't have an impact on anyone else and so they shouldn't shame me, or anyone else for it. Besides, I would never shame anyone for not having sex, it's their decision after all.

[SilverRain92]

I would not slutshame promiscous women, but I think that it is not OK... But they have parents and their behavior and education are their and their parents business. But if I will have a daughter (daughters), I would do my best to explain her (them) why sleeping around is bad and that a real lady having dignity and self-respect should not act like that.

[Anonymous]

just let them sleep around, but if they catch some diseases, that's on them, it was their choice, they should have done their homework and recognize the risks beforehand

[JackofSpades]

I think it's a bad idea.
But there's nothing inherently wrong about it.

It's your life, do what you want, but be willing to accept the consequences whether positive or negative.

[nickyBBB]

Yeah and yeahhhh, a disgusting behavior shouldn't be tolerated in my opinion.

[HughDorfritz]

If more people would embrace sluts and love each other the world would suck less. The repressed people, the types you'll see slut shaming, are so full of hate. I prefer to cuddle up with someone friendly... the more the better.

[Slushmuffin]

Id say its bad if you're nasty about it. Like it's fine if you're horny just don't go spreading anything

[Whyte_Myke]

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[Nora_Sutherlin]

Yes it is. #Slutshaming is Okay

[MrDustintun]

If they're single they're ready to mingle.

[CT_CD]

Yes It Is. #SlutShaming is Okay

[omgjassy]

No..

[Cornchipuniverse]

What's Promiscuous?