Guys, why is sex no good if a girl is too passive?

[Anonymous]

I hear a lot of guys complaining how girls are often too passive in bed. That they don't do anything, just lay there and let their guy do all the work.
I personally like it that way. It's not that I'm lazy, it's just that it feels better when he fucks me and does all the work. I like to be fucked. I'm submissive. I like him to have his way with me. My favorite position is missionary when he's on top, I often spread my arms wide open or hold onto him or onto something, spread my legs and enjoy the ride. And I sometimes kiss him during it. I don't understand what you mean when you say that girls do nothing, what are we exactly supposed to do while we are being fucked? Is it what we do with our hands? I guess it depends on position, but the only thing I can really do is grab him and ride him when I'm on top or suck him when it's 69. I'm not a big fan of changing positions, I prefer one or two positions til the end. Especially when I start climaxing, then I don't want to change position because I will lose that feeling and we have to go from the beginning.
In my opinion, men are meant to fuck, and women are meant to be fucked. So why do some guys complain about doing all the work? Why is it boring? What should women do more to make it more interesting?

[FýrdracaDócincel]

There's a difference between "submissive" and "passionless."

Wanting a guy to do most of the physical work is fine. But if you aren't willing to add to the vibe and contribute your enthusiasm to the experience, all you amount to is a tool the guy uses for masturbation.

What I just said may sound like a good thing but it's really not. A sizable chunk of us might not admit it, but guys crave that fiery and sensual communication aspect of sex just as much as girls do.

Guys often prefer to be dominant and women often prefer to be submissive, this is true. But it's no excuse for slack. There still needs to exist that unspoken conversation, and what good is a conversation if one party refuses to say anything?

[brennanhuff]

Men are meant to fuck, women to be fucked? Very outdated view. It would seem that way, yeah you see women dancing, they seem to like to pelvic thrust just as much as men. You're just submissive like you've admitted, which is why you think that way. I think a matter of sexual compatibility and you need to find a guy who is dominant or who likes to dominate and also vanilla with sex. And whom likes or doesn't mind having sex in just a few positions

[Anonymous]

It makes ch more enjoyable for either (man or woman) when they know their partner is really into it.

[Opinion Owner]

Plus it's just a hell of a lot of fun to tease!

[Opinion Owner]

Try bringing him to the edge and then slowing it down to tease him some more until he can't handle it and takes over.

[random56286]

It isn't the work. Her desire is what drives me and filled with desire she would be more likely to ravage me.

[Logorithim]

We want to really feel that you are truly as turned on as we are.

Here are a couple of things that will rock his world- flexing your vaginal muscles (do Kegel exercises) and pompoir (Google it, because you need to train yourself to do it).

[winterfox10]

The sex just gets really boring. If you act like you want to be there, fucking us as hard as we're fucking you, the sex will never be boring.

[Volvagia]

cuz then they dont know if ur alive or not

[MysteriousCreatures]

I lost it. xD That's why I'm not into choking people. Lmao

[FýrdracaDócincel]

Brilliant.

[CrazyyChick]

Well I guess you have to find the right guy to make the whole thing happen,
Personaly I like to take control

[Demiurge6]

Would you like if guys are passive? Even if they enjoy that way more? I don't think so

[MrDustintun]

Maybe you could try struggling a little or moan for him. Not really sure though.

[DiegoO]

Fuck no, I want a live girl, not a dead fish.

[kurdice7]

If i wanted to have sex with a girl that didn't participate in the activity it would be a lot cheaper to just go get a blow up doll, or pocket pussy or something along those lines. But i want a girl who will participate in the act as much as I am. Otherwise it's just like screwing a dead fish pardon the pun. But it takes the fun and emotional connection out of it when she just lays there and does nothing.

[gobsmacked3]

starfish sex is no fun

[DamnMan]

I have nothing wrong with the stuff you listed. Actually I like that a lot!!
Missionary is my fav position too.
Good deal!!

[astonb]

I would be happy with your behaviour in a partner

[Maatthew]

A no-brainer, who really wonders about this? Because its deeply imbedded in our heads as a interactive activity. Masturbation is 'ah-ite' right? But doing it is SUPER! And doing it with someone your into is WAY SUPER. And doing it with someone you're into and who is freakin' horny like a teenager is SUPER WAY SUPER. Or you could hump a Playboy centerfold, staples and all.

[masterkamasutra]

Dead holes are boring.

[ZanyInternetName]

Let me prove you wrong: porn. com/necrophilia I hope there isn't actually a site called porn. com...

[Seppelson]

It feels like she has no fun

[thegr8lion]

Too big but there are ways to excite a girl

[Hotscorpio3]

I'll put it like this would get upset with your b/f or s/o if you asked him what he thinks about what your wearing. But he doesn't say anything

[Rs7677]

We like it when you are as into it as we are. We want you to react, show us what you like. It is a give and take so therefore both parties need to be actively involved

[Somil11]

Sex is still good but us guys start to lose interest as we think the girl is not interested in sex

[Anonymous]

It isn’t good to me, because I don’t know if she likes what I’m doing or if it even makes her feel good. More importantly passive women lack the confidence to take control. It’s a huge turn on when a woman gets on top to ride me without being told to do so.