Girls, I just started dating this girl - should I tell her I masturbate to her pictures?

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I just started dating this girl who I've been crushing on for a long time. I just turned 19 and she will be 18 in February. We've been dating about a month and It's going great. We have not had sex yet but we have done stuff like oral and fingers. I think we'll be having sex soon. I masturbate to pictures of her in a bikini. I am tempted to tell her what I do when I look at her pictures but I don't want to weird her out on me. If you were in a similar situation, how would you react? Thanks for your thoughts.

Updates:

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Thank you to everyone for your replies. Pretty clear consensus - it would be a bad idea - I am definitely not going to do it :)

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MsMusic | 231 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.
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Oh noo. Bad idea. It'd creep me out. Unless it comes up in topic, like she sends you a nude, then you can say something like, "I'll put that to good use ;)", that might be okay depending on context of the situation.

Just tell her she's beautiful and you find her arousing.

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- travisx2019
  
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  Thank you and that is great advice. I hope soon we'll be reaching that point and I like how you suggest saying it without me coming across as a creep ha.
nojokecarmichael | 69 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.
Explorer

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I don't know, I'd probably feel weird about it. Unless I brought it up jokingly and they admitted to it, then I wouldn't feel as creeper out.

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- travisx2019
  
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  Yes - I'm not going to do it - thank you

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MinorIssues
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If I were to be honest it would be creepy but it is kind of flattering-in a weird way- that you do that because at least you aren't masturbating to pictures of other girls. I word say don't tell her just yet. You two just started dating

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- travisx2019
  
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  Hi and thanks. I won't be telling her. What you said about the flattering part is what I was originally thinking but I am glad I asked for all the good opinions - thank you
SlowRoast | 374 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.
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Don't tell her that! It'll ruin everything! It'll make her think she has this super advantage over you and it is kinda weird. I'd rather someone I like get off the "thought" of us together than a picture.

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- travisx2019
  
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  Hi and thank. I appreciate it - I don't want her thinking I'm weird and I like your idea about the thought of her which is really what it is. I just think she is hot which is why I like the pictures but I get what you mean and thanks.
Jmcmanning
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If she asks they tell her, otherwise keep it your secret until the relationship goes a little further. It is way too soon to reveal that to her.

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- travisx2019
  
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  Thank you - I appreciate it - you and everyone else have been so helpful - it is too soon. I'm sure I'll still do it ha but secretively for sure :)
Anonymous

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If you respect her, you'd stop do that and wouldn't have to tell her until you're both so comfortable enough with each other to laugh about it much later.

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- travisx2019
  
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  I do respect her. Completely. I guess I do not think it is disrespecting her but I see your point. Thank you.
Nicole003
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That would definitely weird most girls out. I'd keep it to yourself

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- travisx2019
  
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  Thank you - very much appreciated and glad I asked :)
GraceT
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I prefer not to know about it… I feel terrifying from my experience…

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- travisx2019
  
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  Thanks and sorry to hear you had a bad experience. I definitely do not want her to have one.
Mina072
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No, a month is too soon to say that. You'll seem weird

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- travisx2019
  
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  Hi. Thanks. You and the others replying validated what my gut was thinking. I really like her so I do not want to weird her out. Thanks again. I appreciate it.
Anonymous

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There’s really no need.

Or in other words - what outcome are you looking for? There may be a better way.

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- travisx2019
  
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  Was thinking to show how much I like her and think she is hot but from everyone's responses and thinking more about this I'm going to wait. Thank you.
- Opinion Owner
  
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  Saying “I really like you” is a better bet. 😊
- travisx2019
  
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  Good point. And I've done that :)
Anonymous

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Nah.. tell her after the point in time that you've had sex to make sure it ain't weird.
Still it could go either way but i wouldn't risk it

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- travisx2019
  
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  Thanks - I appreciate it
Anonymous

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NO! That will cost you dear! She would most likely run away!

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- travisx2019
  
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  Hi. Thanks. You and the others replying validated what my gut was thinking. I really like her so I do not want to weird her out. Thanks again. I appreciate it.
- Opinion Owner
  
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  No probs! Take it slow!
- travisx2019
  
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  Thanks - I am trying - she just gets me going so much - in a good way that is :)
Lava_
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Oh my goodness don't tell her that

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- travisx2019
  
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  I won't be thank you - the feedback has been great and unanimous - very helpful
Anon9483
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Don't tell her that, that'll weird her out

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- travisx2019
  
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  Hi. Thanks. You and the others replying validated what my gut was thinking. I really like her so I do not want to weird her out. Thanks again. I appreciate it.
Deydey12345 | 1.2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.
Yoda

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Do you masturbate to her pic every day?

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- travisx2019
  
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  No - just a few times - we see each other on weekends - and we've only been dating about a month
douride2 | 11.7K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.
Master

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I would rather not know.

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- travisx2019
  
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  Thank you for sharing
Anonymous

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Have I answered this question b4? Glitch?

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k269c
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No, never

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- travisx2019
  
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  Thank you. Pretty strong consensus here - appreciate it. One question back please - when you said 'never' do you think if we are together for awhile that it would then be ok? Or do you just prefer never knowing that? Thanks again
- k269c
  
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  I think if you were together maybe a year or something. Just a point in time where she wouldn't leave you over it because it can come off as creepy. But it also depends on the type of girl, I personally would be taken aback but it wouldn't be a deal breaker for me because I feel like most guys do that and I suppose I'm somewhat comfortable with that however the chance are that it'd make her feel uncomfortable. Just wait til you know her well enough to guess her reaction and then decide whether it's worth telling her or not
- travisx2019
  
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  Appreciate it - and that makes lots of sense. I'll keep it in mind. You and everyone replying has got my head on straight - very thankful for that as I do like her.
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- k269c
  
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  Glad you've figured it all out
- travisx2019
  
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  We'll I wouldn't go that far as I am not sure I've figured much out yet lol but this has all been helpful.
Hannajenky | 3.1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.
Guru

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Probably a bad idea

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- travisx2019
  
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  Thank you - and thanks to all the feedback I've realized it is a bad idea :)
CrazyyChick
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What the hell?
NO

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- travisx2019
  
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  lol - ok - got it- and thanks
Rachel74mn
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NO!!! Too soon

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- travisx2019
  
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  Thank you

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