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Cock rings. Have you used them? Any words of wisdom to share with a noob?

I bought a cock ring to use on my boyfriend because he has trouble maintaining an erection.

I was just going to slip it on, give him a bj until he's hard then go for it. But I'm thinking maybe I should tell him what I'm going to do first.

Anyway, advice please.
Cock rings. Have you used them? Any words of wisdom to share with a noob??
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Ah, I love one-liners. Simple and to the point, and you, dear person, make no bones or fancy talk about your situation. How do you use a cock ring?
    The words flow off the page like crisp butter in a pan, except that instead of butter and a pan, it’s a cock and a cock ring. Either way, you can expect a pleasure that is bound to stimulate you in very specific rings.

    Simply put, cock rings are a ring that you put on an erect or semi-erect penis, usually around the base of the shaft, though sometimes directly underneath the head or even fully around the testicles. The cock ring acts as a dam of sorts, slowing the flow of blood into the erectile tissues in the penis, thus causing what I like to call the “super-erection,” i. e. an erection that is a little bit more engorged than say, an erection that happens on its own.
    Think of it like anytime you have ever gotten your blood pressure taken. You know when you are sitting there and the cuff around your arm tightens? Your arm gets that tingly, weird sensation and everything feels a bit more urgent – slightly uncomfortable, but super sensational. Pressure has a way of setting our nerves on fire, and keeping blood flow in one particular area, thus, when there is finally that release, when the cuff comes off, there is a stronger feeling of relief.
    This is just about the same process with a cock – while there is a delayed orgasm (great for your partner!), sensation might range from slight discomfort to great pressure. However, what is reached in the end is an ejaculation that is more pronounced and ultimately more gratifying to the wearer of the cock ring.

  • You have to get him nice and fired up first.

    A good exercise for getting a longer better erection is to use your thumb and index finger as though it were a ring, but loosen your grip and have him do a kegle, it will force blood in and then you tighten the grip to trap the blood and enhance the erection.

    You put the ring on when it's at max size. Just be careful to take frequent breaks and that it's not fully cutting off circulation or numbing anything.

    Just doing the exercise without the ring should help over time.

    • I try using my fingers but my big bubble butt gets in the way. So you put it in an erect penis? Oh that's not what I thought. There are no instructions with it.

    • Yea it's to hold the blood in

    • Also this is something you'd do as like forplay so your bubble butt should not be a factor 😂

Most Helpful Girls

  • Don't do it without his consent. You really should have spoken to him about using a cock ring before having purchased one you could of made it a fun hunt together.

    You really need to talk to him, communication is key in relationships, and clearly you aren't 100% happy or wanting to try something different. At the end of the day he deserves to be a part of this sex involves both of you.

  • I want to know a few things before I get into this

    1. Where does it go?
    2. What does it do?
    3. Just why?

    • 1. On the cock 2. it maintains erection 3. to have better sex i guess this was clear from description only

    • My bad. I missed out the "having troubles maiming erection" part.

    • Thinker, do you have any words of wisdom when it comes to using it?

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  • Loll can you imagine how great it is to propose a man with this

    • 😂 lol no that's not my plan.

    • Holding a cock ring in the hand . . will u marry me. . . he says yes and u put the ring on him... sounds a little stupid right?

    • Nah it doesn't sound stupid As that... singer said, "if you love it then ya shoulda put a ring on it"

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  • Google "The Grapefruit Technique" on YouTube.

    • Oh, I meant to reply this to the person below asking what in the hell a grapefruit would do during a blowjob

  • Haa I say just go for it, I don't need however like the idea of the ones that vibrate to make my lady enjoy even more however if you just want upgrade your cock to vibrate they fucking hurt, like something to tight has been attacked, and I'm not some monster, just usual, nothing special nothing disappointing, cock rings just made to stimulate her that are loser to be made, off topic but I surely others have this thought

  • Do u mind me asking why he trouble maintaining an erection? Had had an ex who did and it was bc of an Aderall addiction I'm pretty sure, if was a first for me and hopefully a last. I don't see why a young guy would have an issue?

  • Of course explain it to him and be careful because it can hurt if you misplace it and use a little bit lube (literally a little bit).
    BUT! It won't maintain the erection but it will make it more exiting though and it might make your bf's penis be teeny tiny thicker. Just exiting thought nothing more, I've used (was curious) it and it didn't do much.

  • Tell him about it, it's an advice from a man. I never had this problem but I can imagine what will go through his mind if you doesn't talk about it. He will think he doesn't satisfy you, that he's not good enough, he will lose his already difficult hard on and won't be able to do it at all, plus he will complex about you. Don't use it oncyour own but ask him in a very soft way

    • Probably a good idea but I mean our sex life is almost non existant due to his erection issue. My goal is only to keep him hard

    • I understand you situation, you must be frustrated... Anyway, if you don't want him to totally lose his erection, talk with him. It will help him to not feel guilty at the first time. Because such feelings are the ennemy of a good hard on

    • Ok. I'll tell him I bought one and I want to try to it for fun.

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  • I haven't used one..

  • Yeah you should probably tell him first lol

    Its kinda like surprise buttsex, you really want to be warned about it ^^

  • yeah you should ask him if he wants to try. you don't have to tell him it's about sustaining the errection. just tell him that it makes it more veiny and you wanna give it a try.

  • lol stupid

  • you have to know what ring to buy.. there are a few different model in the market. most of the ring doesn't fit me becuase my girth. my recommendation is , talk to him about your idea.. if he agree, buy a rubber ring (don't use a metal one), even better if you can find an adjustable one...

  • Had I used them : Nope (no need :P :P)

    didn't knew anything exist until a minute back (so can't share any experience)

    but as a thinker will say you one thing, dont directly put it on his dick

    rather than talk to him first because otherwise it may hurt his ego

    • I can't expand your reply for some reason.

    • In a nutshell "talk to him, otherwise it may hurt his ego. I dont need ring :P :P, so have no experience thus can't comment)

  • Get a vibrating one

  • Give him a deep throat blowjob and hold his penis for 5 to 6 sec deep on your throat

    • Or have a mouth fuck

    • This isn't a question about blowjobs. I think it's pretty clear in asking about using a cock ring.

    • I'm telling u that u can avoid cock rings that's y

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  • Take it slow and experiment

  • What is a cock ring?

    • It's a tight band you wear around the base of your penis. It restricts the blood flow back out of the penis keeping the cock hard. Makes for earth shattering orgasms for the man when he finally cums, too.

    • Sounds painful...

    • It can go wrong. You don't want it to be too tight. That's why I bought a slightly stretchy one.

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  • Use lube, get a vibrating one, and enjoy. Tell him that it enhance things for both of you

  • Buy a thinner one.

    • Why is that?

    • that grip the veins well and they are specifically made for it. join me private would share how to use them n proper way.

  • Slip it on. You still gotta get him hard.

  • Sprey or lubricant is best

  • I would think that’s cool and hot of you. Then again I do already use them. My fav is the pivot by WeVibe. It’s a vibrating cock ring I love to use on her during intercourse. It rubs on her clit and is amazing. Cock rings are great. They hold the blood in for a firmer hard on. They desensitize.

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