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Trending & News Do you think it's normal for a straight guy to be curious? Have you?
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- Well the answer to the main question is no. The answer to if it's normal for a straight guy to be curious is... That's called being bicurious. Not everybody feels that way but there are some who do, try it and then either like it and identify as bisexual or don't and remain straight.
There are also some guys who like to try anal sex with their girlfriend and a dildo, which is neither gay nor bisexual. That is just seeking a different type of stimulation.
If you are curious about being intimate with a guy then you would classify as bicurious. I hope this helps.1|20|0Is this still revelant?- Show All Show Less
When a group of boys going through puberty stand or sit in a circle and jack off themselves or the dude next to them and see who can cum first.. it's also called "Soggy Biscuit"
- Any open minded and intelligent person that is not stuck in societal beliefs and paradigms of right and wrong will eventually have such thoughts as a natural progression in exploring life. It shows a healthy curiosity about things that ultimately will lead a person like that to discover things about themselves and others that closed-minded people never will. That includes things well beyond sexual interests as well, since they will be a student of exploration and experience. Enjoy your explorations.3|51|4Is this still revelant?
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Intelligence = experimenting with sexual orientation
Wat?
It shows that you question your sexuality and you maybe should try it. Not everyone can be forced to do something they don't want to because it's "close-minded". If you think otherwise, you have to try all drugs on earth and try to fight each animal that you think could kill you et cetera.
This answer is bullsh*t, even tho it sounds nice@NicoletteKomotov It seems as though you are trying to justify yourself. Lol. Putting other people down will not make you feel better.
Scientific peer reviewed research says what I said is true. She is saying everyone is bisexual.
@Markfishe link to scientific research that every woman is bisexual?
Here's a PDF showing that you're talking out of your arse:
https://www (dot) cdc. gov/nchs/data/nhis/sexual_orientation/asi_2015_stwebsite_tables. pdfAnother PDF stating similar results:
https://www (dot) qcdc. gov/nchs/data/nhsr/nhsr077. pdfJust because they say they are straight doesn't mean they are straight, that is just a survey not scientific research. (http://indiana. edu/~sexlab/files/pubs/Chivers_Seto_Blanchard_2007. pdf ) read this and look up dr reigers study.
A study with a sample size of 345 women is not worth to read. Also just because you get a little aroused while looking at the same sex alone doesn't make you gay/bi.
https://en. m (dot) wikipedia (dot) org/wiki/Bisexuality - "Bisexuality is romantic attraction, sexual attraction, or sexual behavior toward both males and females" Straight girls have no romantic attraction to others.
@Markfish None of your so-called "scientists" will make me believe that I'm bisexual. That's non-sense. People know what they are. You won't force your fantasies on nobody.
@Jenima These scientists are actually real and maybe even good scientists, but people like Markfish jump to wrong conclusions, because they don't realise that a sample size of ~ 350 is not at all represantable for all women.
What about the fact that lesbian porn is by far the most popular genre of porn to the female demographic (pornhub statistics)? That's millions of women.
Just type it into google, pornhub viewing habits by gender, My xpr is 1 so I can't post links
Sorry can't find something that's dividing my gender. Could you just replace the "." with "(dot)" ?
The only statistics I've found were from another side, and not published my pornhub themselves. I would like the actual link to pornhub, not some other website with possibly fake statistics.
(https://www. pornhub. com/insights/what-women-want) here is another one that shows lesbian porn on top for women
Alright, fair enough. Seems like sexual attraction for other women is not far fetched. Still, as I said before:
https://en. m. wikipedia. org/wiki/Bisexuality - "Bisexuality is romantic attraction, sexual attraction, or sexual behavior toward both males and females" Straight girls have no romantic attraction to others.Do you see the word "or" there? it means any of those three things by itself can decide sexual orientation, so the fact that they aren't romantically attracted to women doesn't make a difference. And they aren't straight.
@Markfish Of course, coming up with statistics from porn-addicted women is so relevant !
Most women view porn though. Well as long as you accept that women who masturbate to lesbian porn aren't straight.
- I think almost everyone has had at least curious moments about the same sex, even if they don’t admit it. I do not think that being curious, or even actively fantasizing means that you really want to DO it. It is harmless and healthy, but if my fiancé does, I do not want to know LOL0|10|0Is this still revelant?
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- Well what is straight? Setting one way of only being attracted to the opposite sex? That's not real. emotions in humans are strong and just like you cry when you are sad but also happy you can appreciate a man's characteristics the same way as a woman's. I think you are overthinking the label people have for how you think you ought to feel. Ask yourself what you want. People on the internet will never know what YOU as an individual want, that's all that matters. What is normal only means you've chosen to listen to a certain opinion, there will always be others...1|01|0Is this still revelant?
- Definitely not everyone, especially guys. There's such a negative stigma against guy on guy action in the straight community. It's definitely normal to be curious. We know it feels good to play with ourselves, so it makes sense that we might like another guy to do something to us, or to help another guy. Yes, I have been curious and done things with guys. I definitely don't talk about it with my guy friends, but it is a pretty fun experience. I will say guys definitely know what other guys want better than woman do. No offensive, it just makes sense0|30|0Is this still revelant?
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70109- no, if you think they do, how many guys you had fun with?0|00|0
- I think everyone is curious and most people (male and female) have tried it at least once. I have done it several times and will do it many more times.5|32|1
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Anonymous+1 yI don't think that everyone experiments at some point of their lives. Yes, they might be curious, but some people never act on it.
It's not up to me to say if it's normal for a straight guy to be curious or not. All I know is that if they're curious (men or women) should try it. So, they won't spend the rest of their lives wondering how it would be.
I have to admit that I'm curious about it. And I might try it someday, just need to find the right woman and being under the right circumstances.0|10|0- I think it is more likely to find girls more into curious experimenting than guys. I know and have been with girls who just enjoyed a girl/girl thing but either had a boyfriend or spouse and girls who were just curious and gave it a try once or twice. As far as men go I know gay men who that is exactly what they want, but I do not know of any guy who was just curious and maybe wanted to give it a try or did give it a try. Undoubtedly the vast majority of men and women go through their entire lives without ever being curious or any notion of giving it a try.0|11|0
- Sexuality is a spectrum. There are hundreds of shades between straight, gay and bisexual. Bicurious is one there are also straight people with bicurious tendencies there are even gay people with bisexual tendencies. As well as bisexuals with gay tendencies and bisexuals with straight tendencies. Not everyone falls into exclusively defined categories. Nothing wrong with that, but I do think there are still people who fall exclusively in the straight category as well.2|21|1
Let's not make this more complicated than it is. If you ever find yourself being attracted to someone of the same sex, you're either bi or homosexual. It's as simple as that.
Lol, thought processes are incredibly complex and there is no exact science to it that's well understood. You might like to model it on a spectrum, but it doesn't mean it's proven scientific fact. What is fact is the definition of homosexual, the definition of bisexual, the definition of heterosexual.
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@Kkaos As you said the human thought process is incredibly complex, which is why it only makes sense to view human sexuality as existing on a spectrum. Straight and gay are very rigid categories. Bisexuality while more fluid is still too rigid a category for some. Viewing it as a spectrum helps give people who don't fit in exclusively one category gain visibility as well as validity. For example bisexual people can still prefer one gender over the other, despite being sexually attracted to both. People don't always fall into nice neat little boxes for you to categorize.
That ignores basic semantics. Even the kisney scale which tries to explain sexuality as a spectrum acknowkedges that if someone isn't a 0 or 6 on that scale, they are bisexual.
What does it matter? Bisexual doesn't mean 'I like both sexes equally', it just means I find both sexes attractive. If you find both sexes attractive, you're bisexual. That's the definition. End of story.
@Markfish No it doesn't. The Kisney scale doesn't even use the word bisexuality it uses equally heterosexual and equally homosexual to describe bisexuality. And refers to people falling on a 1 or a 2 as mostly heterosexual and 4 and 5 as mostly homosexual.
@Kkaos If you comfortable being placed into one of three categories that is great, but that doesn't mean other people are. Someone who has been exclusively heterosexual all there life but meets one person of the same sex who catches there eye once and it never happens again, may not identify with the term bisexual. Does it really effect you if they choose to identify as bicurious instead of bisexual? Choosing to view sexuality as a spectrum rather then three categories helps give visibility and validity to people who don't feel like they fit.
No, it doesn't effect me and that wasn't my point. I agree with you now that people can choose to view it however they like. The only thing I had an issue with was the idea that 100% sexuality is a spectrum and there's no other way of viewing it, which is what I felt you were saying.
@Kkaos I don't mean that there is no other way to view it just that viewing it as a spectrum helps some people claim an identity and come to terms with their sexuality. If you fit into one of the three categories, that's great so do I. But, not everyone benefits from viewing it so rigidly.
It says a 1 has sexual attraction to their own gender even if it isn't a huge attraction, that still by very definition means they are bisexual
@Markfish It says mostly heterosexual. If using three categories works for you that is fine. But, there are many people who benefit from a broader categorization not everyone who falls in say one identifies with being bisexual. Someone who has been attracted to say two members of the same sex while being attracted to hundreds of members of the opposite sex for example might not identify with bisexuality as their attraction to the same sex is incidental and rare. Bisexual might be a broad enough category for you but it isn't for everyone. Choosing to view it as spectrum allows for more people to be able to come to terms with their identity. It doesn't mean that people can't fall into one of the three categories just that not everyone does.
How is someone who has been sexually attracted to their same gender straight? That's absurd. Somone isn't something just because they say they are. Is someone who has only been sexually attracted to a few children but lots of adults not a pedophile?
- Having another dude bust at least 3 nuts inside of me has to be one of the nastiest ideas ever, to me.
Even the idea of girly dudes... it just wouldn't feel right. I reckon guys have to work up to another dudes penis unless they're into it already. Lots of practise runs, I reckon.0|00|0 - Heterosexual people do not have and act on homosexual desires or curiosity.
You are trying to normalise your own homosexual curiosity or desires instead of just owning it. You are not heterosexual deal with it and move on.1|21|3 - That's gay and not normal. Being sexually active with opposite sex at any point in your life is not normal and will never be. Also, commonly occurring, occurring in nature etc does not make homosexual behavior normal or ok. Its often due to chemical imbalance, mental illness, or genetic deformity.2|03|2
The only thing retarded is accepting homosexual behavior.
The only one closed minded is you. I have entertained the idea, that at homosexuality may be normal, but it is not, because homosexuals can not reproduce. only heterosexual sex allows both parties to achieve both aspects of a sexual encounter, procreation and physical pleasure and stimulation.
homosexuals can only derive physical pleasure from sex. also homosexuals tend to be more sexually deviant and are more likely to HIV or AIDS as well as other sexual diseases. Maybe you are closed minded, or ill-informed about homosexuality.- Show All Show Less
@Deformate Yes because everything I said is true. I roll with truth.
*It is ok to acknowledge homosexuality as an occurrence. Homosexuals should be treated with respect, and equally under law, however homosexual behavior should not be accepted by society as normal.Which society? I dont think there are many people in todays world that would think to ridicule gay people. Its more live and let live in the free world.
*With the same sex
I wrote "with the opposite sex. . . is not normal" lol! what a typoWhich would be what you are doing now? I will lay it out for you here. What you percieve as normality will never allign with anyone elses perception. Normal is thrown around without a general consensus. You may consider something normal and yet, to another person, it may be considered wrong. Its not up to you to decide what is right and wrong, just as its not up to you to decide what is good and bad. You may, of course, have your own opinion of them but it doesn't make it fact. If two members of the same sex want to be together then its entirely their decision. Its up to their own conscience to decide if something is right or wrong. For you to condemn people simply because their ideals and lifestyle differs from yours makes you a bigot. The fact that you are so convinced in your own opinion and their validity across humanity is why I call you close minded.
You can't see past your own belief that what you say is how it should be, and anything that differs isn't an alternative, that its just plain wrong. This is why I said what I did initially.
@Deformate Let everyone be free to have their own opinion, to think what is right or wrong, or what is good or bad. It doesn't affect you in no way. People like you who preach that everybody should be free with their lives are the one who try to prevent others from thinking their own way as long as they think differently from theirselves. You want people to respect the right of others to live their lives, then respect equally their right to use their brains and minds.
If you read what I said again, you will see I didn't preach anything, I never told you how to think or what to think. I never told you to do anything. You basically started your comment parroting me.
@Deformate "Its not up to you to decide what is right and wrong, just as its not up to you to decide what is good and bad." He has all the right the define his own system of righteousness and to express it. He has not empeach anyone from doing anything. He has not forced anyone into anything. That's his point of view and he his more than free to think that way.
@Deformate You can only state what you believe. You're literally saying that if he thinks it is wrong, then he has no right to speak.
He stated 'That's gay and not normal. Being sexually active with opposite (he meant same) sex at any poiny in your life is not normal and will never be.' That isn't an opinion. He is telling them its wrong, not telling them he believes the homosexual lifestyle choice is wrong. Seriously, did you even read what he wrote?
@Deformate So you would have prefered that he had wrote "I believe..." before writing that sentence? Seriously would it have made some difference for you?
It would make a difference completely to the context. didn't you know that? Seriouslu now, I can't figure out if you are just a troll or not. If you are its pretty boring, if not then you really are pissing in the wind here for the sake of a warm shower.
- Anonymous+1 yI don't think it's the norm but I have tried it, because YOLO! It made me realise that it's okay, but I don't identify as bi and I wouldn't date a woman. I am straight but I can appreciate the beauty of a woman. At the time of doing it though, I probably wasn't in a good state of mind and I kind of regret it. The people who knew would tell me I was definitely bi, but only you can know your own sexuality. I don't really feel anything if I sleep with someone of either sex, but I prefer men so I still stand by being straight.1|01|0
- There's nothing particularly abnormal about same sex experimentation. About 10% of the population is attracted to their own gender. So unless you've been conditioned to find it off-putting, you'll most likely give it a go at least once or twice.
Yes, I'm straight, but I have a fondness for giving oral sex to guys. It's not about attraction, but about sex. I've experimented with other homoerotic acts, but mostly, this is the one that I like; the rest leave me cold.2|21|0 - No, I have always considered women the only option. I believe it is on a sliding scale rating. In ancient Greece, culture may have played a role since evidently heterosexuals willed themselves to lie with the same gender. But for a combination of nature and nurture I have not.0|00|0
- No not everyone does. Is it normal for a straight guy? No it isn't, if you think about it then your straight membership has already expired and now you're in either the curious or the bi club, you can't ever go back to the straight club, because its for people that are never attracted to the opposite sex or are repulsed by it, in terms of sexual thoughts. Again, there is nothing wrong with being gay or bi or curious, but you're not straight any longer.2|01|0
- I do not think it as common as some people make it seem to be.
If any one sex experiments more than the other sex with the same sex, I would expect it to be females and not males.
I have a hard time picturing heterosexual males being turned on by other heterosexual males. Just probably is not going to happen that much... I would think. :)1|10|0Those girls who experiment with other girls and are turned on by girls aren't heterosexual either.
- I mean the poll shows that around 1/4th of guys experiments with the same sex, that sounds about right. I've never felt interested in other guys sexually at all and I honestly doubt that's gonna change.0|00|0
- I haven't personally, but a lot of my male and female friends have, or are exploring Bi-sexual relations. What's the problem? They like who they like, and I don't think there is anything wrong with that, at all.
What about trans-gender people? I have a few friends that are, and they are 'Normal' to me, because I know them, and have known them for so long, and OF COURSE, they are trans!! How do they 'Fit in' to the same-gender experimentation thing that you ask about?1|01|0 - It's normal to be curious. I've tried thinking about it, but it wasn't for me.1|11|0
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- Two different questions. I think it's normal, at least when going through puberty, to be curious.
It is not true that everyone does anything about it. Some do, some find they are Gay, most don't.0|00|0 - Interesting results. Personally, I’ve never been curious about womenand wouldn't accommodate a three way.
Just not my thing though sometimes I wish it was.0|00|0 - It really all depends on the person? Some people never think about it and others are like "... I'll give it a shot." Either way, it's not a bad think to play around and see what you might like.0|00|0
- No, that's what homos and half animals in prison do.2|12|2
What ever, it's homos and half animal psychopaths that will fuck a corpse that think like that.
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- Well, your title question is rather strange. You want to know if everyone experiments. No, of course not. The other question: well, not exactly normal, but i guess it's ok to be curious. Third question: no.0|00|0
- I think it’s normal for everyone to have curiosities. Across a broad spectrum of things, including sexuality.2|22|2
If they are sexually curious about their own gender they must have some degree of sexual attraction to their own gender, which by very definition means they are bisexual.
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@Markfish if I’m curious about people who don’t eat meat, am I now a vegetarian?
How is that relevent? That's affect to effect, doesn't matter if it's wrong, that is not relevent, the fact that him being sexually interested in someone determines sexual attraction is the point.
And listen to yourself, someone who is sexually interested in their own sex is straight? You obviously don't know what straight means.
@Markfish he didn’t say he was sexually interested, he said he was curious. Those two words are miles apart. What I’m asserting is curiosity in general is good, normal. it’s the first step to learning. Without curiosity, we’ll never know what we like, dislike, agree with disagree, fail or accell in.
- Anonymous+1 yI was assaulted in the gym showers by 2 girls way back in college. Although that experience didn't actually feel good, it was probably that which always made me wonder how good it might have felt if it was a consented sexual act instead of a rape. 20 years later, I invited a another woman to have sex with my man. I soon joined in and fulfilled my 20-yr-old curiosity. I have been a confirmed bi-sexual woman ever since that FMF 3-some.0|21|0
- i'm 35 turning 36 next month. i've never had a sexual interaction with a man. i highly doubt i ever will0|00|0
- I'm not really interested in having sex with women, it's just not my thing, but other women may feel differently.0|00|0
- I haven't and I also dont want to. I couldnt even watch a gay porn, just thinking about it makes me uncomfortable.
But thats just me, if someone wants to, have fun.0|00|0 - Is it normal to wonder what it would be like? Yes.
Is it normal to try to answer your question by "experimenting?" No.2|21|1 - Its possible, even just one, a guy kissed me one, didn't do anything for me but at least I know, I'm totally into girls but my future self may have sex with the same sex even just once.0|00|0
- He wouldn't be straight. Straight people... true straight people isn't interested in the same sex. That is like saying someone who steals isn't a thief.2|20|1
Anonymous+1 yI have and I also wanted when I was little to feel like a girl and since I have tried sex with a man who wanted me to dress up I am going to transition because I feel right as a female and I have not ever wanted to be a man0|00|0- I doubted for a moment but I never experimentated. I went back to my first pick0|00|0
- I can recognise when a guy is attractive. But I've never once found myself attracted to another guy.0|00|0
- Not everyone but the increasing numbers of bisexuals send a clear message.
0|00|0 - I will not say everyone dose it, but i will say its normal over all for one to be curious1|20|0
- Not everyone. But it's a normal thing to do, many people are curious. However, I find it more common for women to experiment.0|11|1
- Yea I have but I think it's because I always try to be open and I'm very curious by nature2|11|0
- I'm straight but I've had a couple of wet dreams about girls. When i wake up I'm always like "wtf?"0|20|0
- I do think it's normal for a guy to be curious, at first it might seem wrong, but if you let yourself think openly and imagine what it would be like , in total privacy , then if your turned on unexpectedly , try watching porn and see how you feel about it afterwards, it's ok to fantasize and experiment safely, same sex experiences are sometimes seen as taboo or naughty , but that usually makes it sexier, doing something you think you shouldn't do, is absolutely fine.2|01|0
- I think everyone is curious. I don't think men being bisexual is as common as it is in women. Society has put a focus on hyper masculinity and that doesn't allow for curiosity.1|11|0
- Its not a negative thing if you feel attracted to the same sex as your's but be careful, people aren't very underrstanding as you can see being bi gay straight is not important what is is your heart 75% of the world is filled with the hearts of judgmental assholes knowing that will save you from pain do you homie do you0|01|0
- I never experience with a man. Not interested I only been with women.0|00|0
- I don't know personally of anyone that has, but I'm sure people do.0|00|0
- Curious? For some. Experiment? No. It's not normal to play with other men.0|00|0
- I have tried and I enjoyed but I still prefer a man.0|00|0
- No, not everyone. I never have and I have no intention of ever doing so. I don’t feel any need or desire to.2|00|0
- There's nothing abnormal about it. I haven't but that's only because it's not something I want. If you want to try it, go for it. It's not weird or abnormal.0|01|0
It is abnormal, because I'm sure the majority of people haven't been intimate with the same sex.
Yeah but it's not like he's some kind of deviant weirdo. It's 2018, let's get over the whole homophobia thing already!
- Anonymous+1 yI think any guy who thinks about guys in that way is gay.. Nothing wrong with that just own it! I wouldn't want to be with a guy who has ever been with a guy.1|20|3
I fooled around with a guy friend in my teen years. Fast forward 17 years and I'm only attracted to women. Guess I'm gay.
- I experimented with the same sex. I hooked up with anther guy we both got naked and gave each other blow-jobs and some kissing.2|11|0
- No not everyone experiments. Some do, some are content with their sexuality.1|20|0
- Anonymous+1 yNope. I never had nor have any urge to and don't say I ever will.0|00|0
- I've heard that everyone questions it at least once, so I'd say it's pretty normal. Then again I'm bi/pan so I don't suppose I'm not really sure for straight people.1|02|0
- When you put it down to being mammals. its totally normal. Other mammals do it the whole time, monkeys, dogs, cats etc. It's normal to experiment regardless of the gender. It's all to do with chemicals and hormones anyway.1|02|0
- Anonymous+1 yThe answer will be different for women versus men. Women are far more likely to experiment sexually with other women. Most men have no interest.0|00|0
- No. Even the thought of it makes me feel a bit sick0|00|0
- That's no longer a straight guy then. He's bicurious.2|00|0
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