Why are people surprised when they find out I'm a virgin?

I'm 19. And sometimes I can't help but be a little offended by it.. even though I know there's no reason to be, but I assume it's because they suspect me to be a woman that "knows what she's doing?"
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  • Maybe it's based on your looks. They might look at you think :"No, there's no way that she's a virgin, she must know what she's doing".
    Or it's because they're not expecting a 19 year old to be a virgin.

    • So.. I look like "a slut?"

    • No, I'm sorry, that's not what I meant. I mean, they might find you attractive, so they assume you have a boyfriend.

    • Haha, I'm kidding. But maybe, you're right

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Most Helpful Guys

  • Why should you care? It better to take your time then to rush it. Its like this saying "love is like a fart, if you force it, it might be shit"

  • Do you give off a certain look/vibe which screams... well... slut?

    • I suppose I do, which is why I'm lowkey offended!

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  • Probably because a virginity is a rare thing to possess after the age of 13 in this day and age.

    Wish I still had mine to be honest.

  • Maybe they are just shocked because you are attractive and could get with anyone you pleased?

  • I’d your good looking typically people are surprised when they haven’t slept with anyone