- I think it's great that they're exploring their sexual preferences and that they're comfortable with their sexuality. I'm perpetually curious about what girls look at online, and always fascinated to hear about it.
I think that all people have a private, personal component to their sexuality and that I'd prefer to date a woman who uses porn and masturbates over one who doesn't as long as it doesn't get in the way of our shared intimacy.
I especially like sharing porn and fantasy with my girlfriend. We like a lot of the same stuff, and that's really, really nice. It's just one more part of myself that I don't have to hide or pretend not to have around her.0|00|0Is this still revelant? - That they are normal? I think it's more weird not watching almost. But in the end I don't really care either way. I guess it's little hot to think about if that is the answer you are looking for :)0|00|0Is this still revelant?
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- Anonymous+1 yI watch porn, but I'm trying to stop. I take it you watch it or you wouldn't ask a question like that?0|00|0Is this still revelant?
Why try to stop? Don't get me wrong, if it's causing problems in your life then you should cut back, but porn isn't unhealthy or bad on it's own, and in fact a lot of guys find it to be a big turn on.
Exploring your sexuality, finding out what you like, and spending time taking care of yourself (read: masturbation) are all healthy and normal activities. Depriving yourself of them is like depriving yourself of a favorite food forever. Sure you can totally go without it and you don't need it to survive, but WHY would you when you could just... not?God wants you to take care of others and do your best to help yourself and other people to live happy, healthy lives. He doesn't want you to abstain from harmless, fun, and healthy activities just because they're considered taboo by many of his followers.
The bible says nothing about masturbation being wrong, actually, and while it does condemn "coveting" other people's partners, it's pretty clear that it's talking about harmful actions (like acting on a desire to flirt with a married man) and not merely feeling desire and looking at attractive people.
Numerous studies have helped to form the scientific consensus that masturbation is good for your physical and emotional health, that it's an important part of self-care, and that people who try not to do it suffer from a variety of pretty serious problems at a significantly increased rate.
In short: God wants you to help others and take good care of yourself. He isn't interested in flawed human ideals of purity.- Show All Show Less
Read these carefully and tell me: What does it mean to call something "sexual immorality?"
What does it mean for your desire to "lead you to sin?"
What, in essence, is sinful or immoral? None of these passages call out to masturbation as being sinful, but rather warn you away from giving in to your base desires when they would LEAD YOU TO SIN.
We all already know what sin is; it's the many ways in which we can hurt ourselves or others, the children of god. Sorry to burst your bubble, but masturbation isn't one of those ways, and not one of these quotes imply that it is.
If I "look upon my neighbor's wife with covetous intent," that means I'm intending to act on my desires, letting my desires lead me to sin. If I go flirt with her, betraying my girlfriends trust in me, I have sinned. If I pursue her further, come to her house at night and try to ply her with alcohol, or other actions that carry the weight of that intent, then I am being sexually immoral.
See the difference?
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171- Doesn't matter to me. My girlfriend and I watch porn together from time to time. Maybe it helps that's she's bisexual, though.0|00|0
- i think its a good thing. do you watch porn and do you think men would be put off knowing that?0|00|0
- Nothing really, mostly everyone does it these days. Just make sure you're not overdoing it to the point it controls you.0|00|0
- I don't mind, most of them do. The only problem I could see with is when they start comparing porn stars to their boyfriends.0|00|0
- I had a ONS with a good female friend because she found porn on my PC and we watched it together... So I think it's cool0|00|0
- She's ALL the fun and doesn't shun some of it, best type of girlfriend and poll position for The One Forever1|00|0
- So? You are human with feelings, just like everybody. Nothing wrong with that.0|00|0
- i love them :) actually, i am fucking with all the one who told me they watch porn...0|00|0
- I love it! I love a very sexually girl that likes to pleasure herself. That is such a huge turn on!0|00|0
- I think I'd need someone that could keep me on the straight-and-narrow, not drag me off of it0|00|1
- Nothing wrong with it in my opinion. Women want have sexual desires just like men. It can be very fun watching porn together.0|10|0
- I'm indifferent. I mean, it doesn't surprise me when she does, and it doesn't surprise me when she doesn't1|00|0
- Anonymous+1 yOnly positive would be that at least she would be good in bed. She would know what to do.0|00|0
- Anonymous+1 yI think that she is a healthy girl with sexual needs which should be satisfied0|00|0
- Nothing. Almost everyone watches porn. Those who say they don't are liars.1|10|0
- Perfectly normal. A one night stand i had , the girl was watching porn on her phone while she was sucking me0|10|0
- Most people do it, I don't care0|00|0
- Normal and nothing wrong with it.0|00|0
- Porn kills or changes your sexuality and your view on sex in love.0|00|1
- I think its hot even when sound of porn going on as were having sex1|10|0
- Hot plus your learning new moves0|00|0
- Anonymous+1 yi think more should. i also think women should be able to be more open, sexually, not live by societal standards of saying "you can't act sexual"0|10|0
- I don't have a problem with it and that could be fun to watch porn with a woman0|10|0
- I would exchange porn with her...😉โ0|00|0
- A girl watches porn. So what?0|00|0
- I watch porn. Not a lot but some.1|10|0
- Their desires running high in anticipation0|00|0
- She will be best performer in bed 🛌0|00|0
- Sexy and hot what kind of porn do you watch. ?0|10|0
- Anonymous+1 yA sick deviant. Those are the kinds I like.0|00|0
- Either nothing or is hot. Why do you ask?0|10|0
- Weird. Porn is for men, not women. Do women stuff.0|00|1
- Anonymous+1 yIts pretty common these days0|00|0
- Would love her!!!0|00|0
- It's a turn on for me when a girl watches porn.0|10|0
- Anonymous+1 ythey need a new hobby0|00|1
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