I have a boyfriend, so I’ll tell guys “no thank you” when they ask me. But, when they just come up behind me, or grab my hand and pull me, despite my attempts to break free, then i become rude. I’m more likely to dance with a man who is polite and will ask me. I like to feel respected, and not feel like i am being forced into something (i. e., a man coming up behind me, a man grabbing my hand and pulling me into him).
I am a person, i like to be respected :) if a guy seems kind and i get a good vibe from him, i would dance with him
Neither, but I’m extremely uncomfortable with someone coming up and starting to dance on me. I don’t like clubbing, but when I do hang out at a club it’s to hang out with friends. But my night is always ruined when a guy comes up and start dancing on me, it’s creepy.
Does it change anything if the guy asking you to dance is attractive
No, I might be somewhat flattered afterwards. But I hate physical contact, and social interaction with new people.
I don't mind dancing with guys but only if it's in a friendly and non sexual manner. I don't want anyone grinding on me while I'm out with friends. I'm out to dance, not to look like I'm having sex on the dancefloor.
That's pretty much how everyone dances toghter if your at a hiphop/rnb type music club
What if the friends you were with were already grinding with guys would that make a difference
What now? Grinding or just friendly dancing? I wouldn't know, I don't listen to that music
If he’s dances on me I totally will dance even if it’s for a minute because I love just getting out there and seeing others do. I really love dancing so my answer would be both!
Don’t ask, just go grind on her. She’ll either reject or accept you depending on whether she finds you attractive. Either way it’s a quick decision and you can move through the whole herd of them quickly.
Success rate will be higher then more girls you ask so speed is important.
True its a numbers game but at a point it could also work against you. My one friend tries to dance with every chick he sees and when other girls notice that kinda kills your chance I think
Girls like guys who dance with them ON THE DANCEFLOOR ALREADY rather than ask. Girls like guys who ASK FIRST if the conversation started first OFF the dance floor.
Agreed what about when your on the dance floor and you make eye contact with a girl on the dance floor but she's not in your proximity. would you go up and ask her to dance then or just dance
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Asks first. I would say yes to a dance from almost anyone but I wouldn't appreciate someone sneaking up on me or touching me without my permission.
Even if they were ugly?
Yes, even if I don't find them attractive. I'm out to have fun. Dancing is fun. No one goes out with the intention of being bored. Everyone should have a dance partner when they're out. Unless they do something to not deserve it.
You said almost anyone so who's the exception
Asks first. If someone just started dancing on me like that, I'd probably just walk off.
True. Arrogant.
Neither but at least if he asked I wouldn't think he was a total ass
No he must ask first. Else it's a definite no.
You best ask first.
It wouldn’t matter to me. Damn especially at Mexican parties where’s there’s like 6 kids all my age up to 16 and a bunch of adults. Everybody was grinding on everybody. That shit was FIRE! TBH!
Lol you were dancing on guys too lilpump?
Lmao. I’m a girl. That’s just my user, I didn’t know what to put so I put the first thing that cam to mind was little Pump. But yea why wouldn’t! They were hot to!🔥
Lol this question's fine but why is it under "sexual behavior" topic?
What else would it be on grinding is sexual behavior
Nah, this should be under "dating" or something.
Dancing on girls isn't dating
I guess it depends. Back when I used to go to the club old creepy dudes would try and grind up beside me... no thanks. Not interested.
What if you found him attractive
I'd still be uncomfortable with it. I mean if I'm there having fun with my friends, he should at least ask.
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