What does it mean when a guy cums really fast?

[Anonymous]

I had intercourse with a guy and he lasted probably 3 minutes I know it wasn’t past 5 minutes for sure. We’re the same age. He was all over the place and I had to tell him to lay down. He came really fast 😒. Is that good or bad? I feel horrible I feel like I did something wrong but when we were having intercourse all he kept saying was wow amazing. I don’t understand. I feel like he embarrassed now. I am but I don't know why am I feeling embarrassed. Help lmao

[azzntittiz]

Has nothing to do with how long you haven't sexed. If you got good kitty you'll know that and won't be surprised when men pop fast. Men cannot last with me so I had to learn to please myself and yes he's probably embarrassed. One guy didn't speak to me for months because he put it in and came in a second, then messaged me months later trying to be friends again. He probably felt fucked up for being mad at me for something that ain't my fault, but I never saw him again.

[Asker]

Ok so I didn’t do anything bad in making him cum fast? So I shouldn’t feel embarrassed.

[Sexydeni]

i think maybe he finds you way more attractive than you realize and has done for a while... maybe that's why he came so quickly. He is probably a little embarrassed now and conflicted... i'd reassure him if I were you.

[Justacatlady]

You find it weird they have an open relationship but you're okay with being a side chick?
Do you have a boyfriend?
He is probably embarrassed but I don't think anything you say will make it better.

[Asker]

Naw I left my boyfriend a year ago caught him cheating that’s why I don’t care anymore. Only want to mess with one guy and no string attached.

[KillNowDieLater]

Well yes you did I mean you haven’t had no casual good dick in 8months compare to his yesterday’s or last Friday sex your insides are wet n moist and at some part that his mind is super super excited he just bust quick fuck yeah he’s embarrass but he dnt wanna show it because he’s a man trust me I done that b4 but next time when you do 8months shut down try to use some toys get ur nut off then call your side friend up

[KillNowDieLater]

Message me if u want

[Asker]

I don't know how to message here

[KillNowDieLater]

Follow me then add me

[KillNowDieLater]

Wait you dnt have an account set up yet

[Big_man]

it could mean a lot of things take your pick
1 he could be a virgin (well i guess not now)
2 maybe he hadn't had sex in a long time
3 some guys actually have problems with premature ejaculation
4 you actually have a magical vagina actually in my experience some girls do have vaginas that actually do feel better than most but i don't know if you're one of them

[ixdml]

Maybe you should spend a little more time in foreplays or maybe he is not good in bed and can't hold long...

[Don_Law]

No its not you its him he was just really excited (was he a virgin?)

[Asker]

No not at all.

[Don_Law]

Wow then its definitely not you & its a good thing... for him anyway, next time suggest that he try to hold out a little longer so you both have a chance to get off or take things a bit slower so he doesn't cum as quickly

[Asker]

I went slow , well I bounced on him twice and he went crazy but didn’t know that could happen.

[Don_Law]

Lol you positively surehes not a virgin?(if the answer is yes your sure then maybe you just have a magical vajay jay😁) which is a very good thing maybe focus on foreplay so you have a chance to get off it may not be a big deal too you now but you find it frustrating later

[Don_Law]

But to answer your base question it just means he was excited (I. e YOU excited him) & it was amazing

[Asker]

He’s not a virgin I know that for sure !! He’s a man whore I jut don’t know what happened 😂😂

[Asker]

And supposedly he’s never cum while his dick being sucked I don’t understand the girls he’s been with.

[Don_Law]

You sure he's not just bullshitting you?👀& if thts true then either somethings wrong with his dick or the females he messes with have no tongues😂😂

[Asker]

Naw I saw him cum it was on top of me. There’s no way to fake that.

[Don_Law]

I ment him bullshitting about having a lot of sexual experience

[Asker]

Oh I don't know

[Don_Law]

(Well its a good thing either way) Then lets just go with the magical vajay jay answer then😜( your case is dismissed consider more foreplay before sex Problem solved)

[winterfox10]

It means your pussy felt fantastic... cumming quickly is never an insult.

[wilco999]

Well you certainly back yourself! Great body and beautiful face, hows your chat?

[Kareless21]

Be proud. your pussy is probably magic. that's really good. :)

[GuyFromNOR]

Hey, I've got a question for you

[GuyFromNOR]

Since you just wanna mess around, wanna add me on snapchat?

[Asker]

No, I mess around with someone that I actually like. Not anyone.

[Steveram9]

Hmm I think he too didn't have sex for a long time! That's why he lost the control! Don't call him... Just wait him to call you! Maybe he feel shame or embarrassed And it's a lesson for you... Don't make your partner to cum that much fast if you can put some control!

[Asker]

He has a girlfriend I would think he would fuck her. And both times we’ve messed around he cums a lot like a lottttttttt.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

It means you obviously are giving him great pleasure.

[2opaz]

Thats bad

He must have some kind of disease

[ZSean]

He was probs just over excited

[Asker]

He has a girlfriend that’s what I don’t understand.

[ZSean]

Oh so you helped him cheat and are class less got it

[Asker]

Huh?

[ZSean]

... ugh

[Asker]

Ok lmao it’s 2018 baby. Believe me I got a lot of class. Just don’t want to be settled down anymore after 5 years. I rather be single and just mess with one guy and not have to be tied down explaining anything to any nigga. Believe me if you see me you will want to tie me down like everyone does but I’m good. Not my fault he’s taken plus his girl was the one that told him to be with me.

[ZSean]

Interesting

[ShesAmerican]

Um no it's not... I'm sure you look fine

[Asker]

Thanks, but I feel horrible. Like I didn’t get no pleasure and I don't know I felt like he didn’t know what to do.

[ShesAmerican]

He was probably focusing on his pleasure more than he was focusing on yours, and he probably felt bad about hooking up with other people even tho he's in an open relationship

[ShesAmerican]

Or maybe he just the type of guy who cums really fast, which is his thing you got nothing to worry bout

[Hannajenky]

Just happenes sometimes he probably has a problem cumming too fast

[lilmissumshine]

Wtf you are ghetto

[Asker]

What’s so ghetto about me, please explain?

[SoniaKime]

Dear lord 😓

[madethat11]

It’s definitely not bad. I wouldn’t be embarrassed, but he probably is. I would try talking to him about it.

[Asker]

I don't know how to talk to him about it. Avoiding all concept about it. Bad idea?

[madethat11]

Maybe try asking him why he’s being distant? Its probably gonna be a little weird but 🤷🏼‍♀️

[Anonymous]

Maybe he feels guilty and wants to get it over as quick as possible.

[Asker]

No he still messages me and wants to be with me.

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe they have an open relationship cuz he’s not pleasing his other gal, then and she needs some side action too. Lol.

[Asker]

Lmao 😂 that was a good one.